I'll tell it to you clearly, you have an extreme loser mindset.
You think it's unfair for some men to be much more attractive than you.
You reek of "nice guy", the kind that just behaves nicely to get in a woman's pants.
You don't seem to have a personality, whereas your competitors who "get all the girls" have one.
Most of all that makes you a loser, is that you think that it's unfair that some men are more attractive than you. That's a communist feeling my boy, and it's the opposite of what Spiritual Satanism preaches.
Here's my advice for you:
These men you are talking about are fuckboys, and you are jealous about them, which means that if you had the means you'd be a fuckboy too.
If the girls you want go to the "alpha" boy, then you are chasing self non-respecting bitches, who's value is just in their body.
If you have respect for yourself you should avoid chasing these kind of girls, and also stop looking at them just like meat in which to put your penis.
But all of this comes with a mentality change, which comes from introspection.
Instead of trying to shoot love spells whenever you see a cute girl, do a spell to find a girl suitable to you that will actually love you.
Also don't listen to your mother and don't ask her advice, are you in a ex ussr country? The way you described her makes me think about those self hating boomers from the ussr.
If a girl is good that doesn't mean she's not pretty. Fat women usually accept anybody because they can't have too many standards, but not necessarily because they're good in their hearts.
So all in all, develop a personality, don't salivate behind girls, find yourself a suitable partner, don't look at girls through the eyes of a porn addict, and grow a spine.
I am not a loser, because I have reached specific heights in all spheres of life except one (this one) and I continue to achieve them!
I have no problems with money, I just have a lot of money, only because of the availability of money they will not love you, but they can use / dilute you for money.
I don't even count how much money I spend, I don't care about this question (the question of money), the amount of money does not affect the number of girls you have, unless of course we are talking about con artists, or whores, whose services I do not use.
I need normal, ordinary girls for a relationship.
These guys are just the same formulaic, their actions are absolutely predictable, whereas mine are not!
I'm not like other people, in other words, I'm not like everyone else, this is one of the reasons why some people don't like me, because I do and act as I see fit, and not as other people see fit.
I am very individual, I have a specific personality.
I don't care if I'm a good guy or a bad guy, I'm ready to become or be anything, just to get the result I need.
I don't think in such formulaic categories - the good guy, the bad guy you're talking about.
I don't care and absolutely don't care how attractive other men are, as long as they don't interfere with me getting what I consider my rightful.
If I don't like something and I have power and strength, I'm not afraid to abuse it if someone crosses my path.
Thank you for your advice, but I didn't like some things, that you wrote to me.
It is better to advise how to fix the situation in order to achieve the result I need, rather than trying to brand me as someone I am not.
I am not a loser, because I also have specific achievements in my life (life cases), which I can always demonstrate to specific people if necessary!!!