HPS Lydia
High Priestess
That's disappointing that someone who is drawn to the occult then turns to extremist islam.Hello, High Priestess.
I have a question, some people were just completely awful and are rejected by me completely and wouldn’t mind doing a detach working if I have time.
However some people too, an ex for example, I just don’t want to detach from them, and I still care about them to a degree, despite knowing they are awful as well but just still loving them too much and wishing they can be better in the future and holding on to hope that they can be better, how should I deal with these feelings?
We separated several years ago too so it’s not recent. The person had narcissistic tendencies as well and right now is doing much worse and has plunged into the extreme depths of islamic extremism.
However, when I first met her she was spiritual, extremely beautiful, and we spoke about Tarot, witchcraft, we often had telepathic contact, and she had spiritual awakenings when I was her. She felt like a soulmate and we were so similar and compatible, but some complications happened and she distanced herself I had to leave her soon after.
It was rare to meet someone like her at the time and I was ecstatic, it was one of the best and worst times of my life.
I think she became extremist as a way of rebelling and expressing hate towards me and so she can distance herself from our ties completely. She’s completely lost herself in islam and killed off any beauty she had before, purposefully.
Sorry for going on a tangent, but long story short, what should you do if you don’t want to detach and still care about the person but there’s no possibility to be together again?
You don't have to detach. Have you done a working for her to help her away from islam? It's completely up to you of course, but if you still care for her even as a friend, it might be worth it. Detach her from islam, perhaps severing of astral links (from her to islam) might be needed, some basic cleaning of her aura and chakras, doesn't have to be very time consuming for you.