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HPS Lydia

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This isn’t about a bit of hazing or light banter, which often happens among young people: testing each other out, testing limits.

This post is for those who experience a lot of stress and anxiety caused by consistent abuse, even threats to your life. There are other people out there who are cruel and take it out on anyone they see as being their target.

For anyone experiencing real abuse, you need to know what you are up against, and how to deal with it in the best way for you. (More on this later in this post.)

There are children and teenagers who had to be removed from school, either home-schooled or transferred to another school, because they were being bullied and couldn’t cope. But there are more young people don’t have this option, and don’t know how to deal with this problem.

First off, don’t believe the threat that you will get into more trouble if you tell your parents, teachers, or the police. And do not buy into the “gangster rule” of “not being a grass/snitch”. There is no “honor” in keeping things like this to yourself. This is entirely an enemy agenda of keeping people quiet to accept more abuse to cause further psychological damage. The only judgement you should care about is that of the Gods, and they want you to get the best outcome for you.

Related to this, if you ever lose friends because you brought attention to the problem, then those people were not actually your friends. It’s as simple as that. With all the people in the world, you can easily find new friends. Friends should have your back, not ditch you for “not being cool”. Potential friends are a dime a dozen. Find people of value to be friends with. Don’t ever stop yourself from doing the right thing, out of fear of what your friends will think. Your real friends will stick by you.


Now, about fighting back against bullies. Unfortunately, in this day and age you never know who has a knife or even a gun. So this makes it complicated when it comes to standing up for yourself, because standing up for yourself might actually make you a target of something much worse than a few punches. In cases like this, avoid the person, and tell your parents or teachers or even the police if you feel threatened.

Fortunately, in this day and age everyone has camera phones. Learn to discretely film any potential threats for evidence. Practice in a mirror at home or with a trusted friend so you can learn to be very subtle and quick. Pretend you are texting or something. But if you’re caught, your phone might get smashed up, so be aware of this. You also probably don’t want to have to give your phone to the police or school for evidence, so a more discrete option is to have voice recorder device on and have it in your pocket. And about cameras, if someone comes up to you to fight you, tell them there are security cameras around. This should at least make the person hesitate long enough for you to get away.

Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is.

Some things can be fought against, and you might even earn the respect of others. Standing strong, being quick-witted, bantering back, and so on. Many friendships have formed from this. Even physical fighting has resulted in some of the best friendships forming, but these days, fighting can get you expelled from school so it is definitely best to avoid this. There are many cases all through history of people becoming best friends after having a good fight against each other.


But the above paragraphs are about something minor. For those experiencing constant bullying, this is different. This is something that needs to be dealt with, and healed from.

For those who try telling parents or teachers, and nothing results from it: Keep telling them. Make them listen. Yell if you have to. A lot of problems are caused by people keeping silent, it is not natural to keep silent regarding such matters. This alone can cause damage to the soul. You need to make yourself heard. Many parents downplay problems because they don’t know how to deal with it, or don’t want to believe that their child is in danger.

For those who are certain they cannot tell your parents for whatever reason: Make it anonymous. Write/print it out on paper and discretely deliver it to the school guidance counselor or principal, include the name of the person abusing you. Or call a hotline (you can find the one in your area online or it might even be listed on your school website). But for further action to be taken, you will need to come forward and testify; they will walk you through the steps.


Now for the good part: You can strengthen yourself, and you can heal yourself from any trauma. A lot of bullies narrow in on potential victims, they can see who is weaker. It isn’t about physical weakness, because some of the worst bullies are themselves physically weak, but they are manipulative and get the results they want. There are different types of strength, and different types of weakness.

In the Joy of Satan, there are methods to strengthen yourself. Work on your solar chakra and aura especially, but also clean your chakras and soul. Doing an aura of protection will go a long way. There is also a binding spell which can be done on those who are abusing you, but be realistic about this. If someone insults you a bit, let it go. That is not abuse, it is just life. Bindings should only be done on actual abusers, not based on a whim.

Another important thing is to strengthen your mind. A lot of people are weak-minded because we are not taught in schools or from parents how to have a stronger mind and character. This is why I mentioned in this post about letting some things go and not dwelling on minor abuse. Strengthen your mind, know what is to be simply ignored and moved past. This is imperative for many things in life, so this can be seen as practice, in order to do even better in your life. Having a strong mind and character will be shown to others, and they will know you are not someone to easily mess with. Light occasional abuse is a part of life, so either fight back in an appropriate way (don’t go overboard, simply match what they did on the same level if you feel this is safe to do so) or ignore it. Ignoring them is usually the best answer, because most bullies are looking for a response from you. Void meditation will help you ignore anything that is not worth putting your attention towards.

Ignoring is powerful, because it shows the other person that they are completely irrelevant to you and not worth your time. But, realistically, it can potentially lead to them taking things a step further in order to get the attention they want, so you might need to talk to them and tell them you won’t put up with anything. Start politely, because things might actually turn out much better than you were expecting. Politeness often goes a long way, because a lot of bullies act out because their parents neglect them or are constantly rude to them. Being polite to them can sometimes (but not always) result in them becoming a better person.

Regarding cyberbullying, just block and ignore. Never reply to them, they want attention so don’t give it to them. If they send any threats, save it and report it to the police or school authority, but don’t reply personally in any way to the cyberbully. Ignore any bait, your time is valuable so don’t waste it on them.

A good way to deal with problematic situations is by acting them out with your friends or parents, or just visualizing in your mind. Go over potential threatening scenarios and talk your way through them. This will give you the familiarity needed to deal with real-life situations with more confidence.


Getting back to the subject of real abuse:

What you can do to help resolve the situation and heal yourself: Spiritual Venting/Revenge Ritual. Hold a standard ritual to Satan. At the height of the ritual, vent all your anger, rage, embarrassment, frustration, all those feelings. Feel them strongly. If you feel repressed or beaten down, get the feelings of frustration from this. Release it all, and ask for the energy to be directed properly: either to the bully, or just to “the enemy” in general, whatever you feel is right for you.

If you have access to something you can physically attack as a prop, this can help a lot. Use a pillow if there is nothing you can smash up. Just keep hitting the pillow until you feel better. Get your rage out during the ritual, spend as much time as you need doing this.

When you feel finished, end the ritual, thank any Demon who helped you, and clean your aura. Then, do something to make yourself happy. Watch something that makes you laugh, visit with a good friend, or practice a hobby you enjoy, for example. You will likely feel tired from the ritual, but you will also feel better, like you have accomplished something.

You can repeat this ritual whenever you feel the need to do it. Any Waning Moon in Scorpio or Capricorn will give extra power (download the SS Calendar of your location for dates), but this can in fact be done any time you need it. Don’t let it build up inside of you, waiting for the best time to do it. Do it when you need to. And then you can do it again during the aforementioned Moon timings.

And don’t forget that you can talk with a therapist. Talking about problems can help make things better, and give clarity of mind. On a final note, meditation will grow inner strength and enable you to cope better in all situations.


Satan leads us to inner peace, and strength.
 
Internet Warriors, you can pass this around in relevant places online to help bring people to the JoS, so that those who struggle with this problem can come to the Gods and find help.
 
Void meditation, thinking on the Eternal in Lotus Pose or any other similar pose. When you wake up. Even just for 10 minutes as a start. Everything ,all movement starts from the Lotus Pose. Yes this will protect you as your karmic pattern unfolds. Void meditation being still thinking on the Eternal, everyday. When you get comfortable in the Lotus Pose,you can even start doing mantras in it,reading JOS articles in it, doing JOS ritual schedules, pràying to the Gods in it and so on. When you feel low,sit in the Lotus Pose and think on the Eternal within,Pure Unchanging Energy. It can't be seen physically but it can be felt. Get into the habit of always feeling the Eternal. This is protection. It's Hatha Yoga,a mystic must live in the spine, activating Sushumna Nadi, this is the soul and is Centering. Centering is protection. Make a habit of being still, spine upright, thinking on the Eternal even just for 10 minutes when you wake up.
 
This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

Im certain most of us have lived long enough in extreme and different types of pain, to even have any sort of peace left inside of us. Like a walking time bomb or some shit.

I dont care anymore if what I do is too much or unfair or whatever. THe gods dont give a damn anyways, like what are the others totheir eyes even? From what I have read on here the gods wouldnt care that much if all other people go and choose death, which isnt a stance I am in disagreement against either.

It sure is fucking fair when you consider all the things little me endured and never could stand up to, and all the shit I still go through without any help. No one cares.

I dont care that my rituals killed that asshole. I really dont. I used to. Cried even.

But the more I lived life the more i realized that maybe even i did this world a favor by getting rid of him.

If it makes you happy, do it. You're gonna die anyway.
 
If I only I knew of this knowledge 20 years ago.
 
Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is

What you said about lacking parents is true. I grew up without a father and noticed one-time light violence having a big impact on me, often lingering on it and feeling my reaction is amiss. What do you recommend to move on from this? I wonder what the effects of an absent mother are. I didn't have a mother either.
 
In primary school, I had a person in my class who teased and picked on others. One of those people was me.
My mother raised me in a way that didn't allow me to be a victim. She always used to tell me that if someone hit me, I should hit back. So when my tormentor was ready to attack, I struck back. This person never bothered me again after this.
We didn't became friends, but we used to talk normally at school after this incident.
 
Great article.

Thank you. It means a lot to all of us.

I have had many experiences in this regard.

I don't know what I would have done without the gods on my side.
Once I asked Lord Belial for help in this matter.
I visualized his sigil, and suddenly there was a gust of wind in my room. The leaves of the book in front of me flew.

He helped me from the very beginning. He tried to teach me and help me even though I was not behaving properly as an SS. And that was very meaningful.

I'm grateful to him for that.

Hail Satan!
Hail Belial!
Hail Azazel!
 
What you said about lacking parents is true. I grew up without a father and noticed one-time light violence having a big impact on me, often lingering on it and feeling my reaction is amiss. What do you recommend to move on from this? I wonder what the effects of an absent mother are. I didn't have a mother either.
When you are advanced enough, try past life meditations to feel your parents from past lives. I know one SS who benefited from this.

Do the Rituals to the Gods, such as for Satan (or any of the other Gods who you could see as a father figure) and Astarte, and request to be healed from the loss of not having parents.

We all have our lives and our problems, and the SS here are special souls who will accomplish great things despite not having ideal circumstances.
 
In my case, it was the teachers themselves who made my life impossible, all because as a child I openly and violently rejected Xianity and although it was a public school and not a church school, it was a right-wing school and the Xian teachers did not like my anti-Christian ideology.
It was never physical abuse, what they did was humiliate me in front of the other classmates and try to isolate me, I went from being a good student in the first years to failing everything, until my parents got fed up and denuncie the school and they took me out from that damn school.
But the damage was already done, I developed a deep hatred for going to class and studying and I was never a good student again.
 
To young men who are being bullied, I have one thing to say: stop acting like a christian. You represent Satan through your blood and sperm. Prove that to yourself, to those around you and to Father Satan Himself. Working with Runes like Thurisaz, Algiz, and Sowilo will help greatly. And remember you are not alone; you have family, friends, the JoS Community and the Gods on your side.
 
Unfortunately, I have also suffered this kind of abuse. I tell you from the bottom of my heart: don't keep quiet! Most, if not all, of what I went through would have been resolved if I had told someone. As HPS Lydia said, don't be afraid to tell and don't think, like me, that it will make you weak or incapable. Wanting to deal with everything on your own isn't always the best way forward and you're actually being very strong by asking for support. A small annoyance should get your attention, because small problems become big ones if they are not nipped in the bud from the start.

I am grateful to the Gods for being with me in all my healing processes. Keep faith in the Gods and all will be well, their justice is true and relentless.
 
This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

Im certain most of us have lived long enough in extreme and different types of pain, to even have any sort of peace left inside of us. Like a walking time bomb or some shit.

I dont care anymore if what I do is too much or unfair or whatever. THe gods dont give a damn anyways, like what are the others totheir eyes even? From what I have read on here the gods wouldnt care that much if all other people go and choose death, which isnt a stance I am in disagreement against either.

It sure is fucking fair when you consider all the things little me endured and never could stand up to, and all the shit I still go through without any help. No one cares.

I dont care that my rituals killed that asshole. I really dont. I used to. Cried even.

But the more I lived life the more i realized that maybe even i did this world a favor by getting rid of him.

If it makes you happy, do it. You're gonna die anyway.
Please brother, I advise you to do at least in light trance a deep soul cleansing as described by HPS Maxine on the aura cleansing page, a psychological trauma removal with Wunjo and the Astarte ritual.
 
I appreciate this post so much. I put up with bullying and abuse in and outside the home and cold treatment as well as alienation has carried well into my adult life as well.

I have actually been thinking of doing cathartic revenge rituals as well as talking with a therapist. It's interesting, just a week or so before seeing this post to day I was trying to reach out to Satan about certain troubles with mental health,that have been huge blocks to certain parts of advancement lately. Perhaps I needed to reach a state to be more aware of some actual problems I thought were long gone years ago in my teen years, and so I asked what I should do and who I should go to.

My question is who could there be who genuinely cares for a humans mental health and healing whose last name isn't berg something.
 
My question is who could there be who genuinely cares for a humans mental health and healing whose last name isn't berg something.
There are lots of Gentile therapists. Betterhelp (video sessions) lets you choose your own, and you can switch if you're not happy. Another SS recommended them.
 
This is nice advice and all,

But who cares. At the end of the day they are all a bunch of fucking monkeys anyway. And trust me, they deserve waaaaaaaaaay worse, most of them. Humanity is fucked. I have seen some things, talked to some people and experienced some things that truly left such a lasting mark... that I will probably never get rid of. And no matter how much I try to be optimistic, the more I realize that sometimes, not even your parents are worth shit, let alone other "humans".

Which is why I dont give a fuck if someone gets proportionately OR disproportionately what they deserve coming to them from me. The world isnt fair, and they weren't, so Im gonna reflect back to them their choice.

Im certain most of us have lived long enough in extreme and different types of pain, to even have any sort of peace left inside of us. Like a walking time bomb or some shit.

I dont care anymore if what I do is too much or unfair or whatever. THe gods dont give a damn anyways, like what are the others totheir eyes even? From what I have read on here the gods wouldnt care that much if all other people go and choose death, which isnt a stance I am in disagreement against either.

It sure is fucking fair when you consider all the things little me endured and never could stand up to, and all the shit I still go through without any help. No one cares.

I dont care that my rituals killed that asshole. I really dont. I used to. Cried even.

But the more I lived life the more i realized that maybe even i did this world a favor by getting rid of him.

If it makes you happy, do it. You're gonna die anyway.
I like how you think 💀 i generally don't like the "be a nice goy" moral rule especially on a website like this
 
Great and very helpful post, I wish I could hear these advices back when I was a kid, I'm sure it would've been a life changer - Hopefully, it will be for those members who go through it in the present time, and read it.

One thing I like to ask in connection to the topic is how one can heal from the consequences from it as an adult? In my case I grew up in an abusive and completely unstable environment, and as a result my personality and behavior distorted in some ways, and greatly altered the course of my life compared to a normal person's. Altough, despite everything that had happened to me, I don't really feel anger or hate towards the people who abused and bullied me. I do feel it for short periods of time on rare occasion, but for the most part I don't - Even when it would've been the right thing to feel. I do have negative emotions about it, such as sadness, self-pity and such, but there's no emotions directed towards the abusers themselves. Part of the reason is that back then we were kids or young teens, thus I can't really blame them for their behavior (I know I should tho). My memory about those times aren't really intact either, I have some bits here and there but other than that I can't really recall anything. Even if I have some small glimpses I feel disconnected from them, as if it was the memories of someone else and not me. That's the reason I can't really vent or perform a revenge ritual, because I lack the emotions needed for it.

I also can't really cope or react to anger or criticism directed towards me, no matter if the other person doesn't have malicious intents. I'II always react in an overdramatic way to it, and go full on flight or fight mode, even if the only thing the other person said is "I don't like you" or something similar. It feels extremely humiliating that as a grown-ass adult I can't control or regulate my own emotions. I'II start to shake and tremble like crazy, so much so that it's a struggle to stay upright without collapsing, and I'II have the urge to just break out crying, and flee the scene as fast as I can. I had quite a few embarassing and humiliating moments because of this, it's clearly noticeably to others when it happend. My body literally acts like as if a serial killer would be there to hunt me down, when in reality it's just someone saying one mean comment or criticism to me.
 
There are lots of Gentile therapists. Betterhelp (video sessions) lets you choose your own, and you can switch if you're not happy. Another SS recommended them.
I personally went to a therapist for a couple of years.
Once in a while it was only useful to vent or to practice explaining one's ideas, but otherwise I made the change on my own.

I don't think they're really helpful, literally if you get better and better they lose a client, so it's not in their interest for you to get better.

In my opinion you just have to find a person to confide in or have that kind of connection.
 
What about cyber-bullism?
Lady Lydia already wrote in her sermon what should be done against cyberbullying.
Regarding cyberbullying, just block and ignore. Never reply to them, they want attention so don’t give it to them. If they send any threats, save it and report it to the police or school authority, but don’t reply personally in any way to the cyberbully. Ignore any bait, your time is valuable so don’t waste it on them.
 
Lady Lydia already wrote in her sermon what should be done against cyberbullying.
Ah... I must have missed it by mistake. Thank you.
 
Great and very helpful post, I wish I could hear these advices back when I was a kid, I'm sure it would've been a life changer - Hopefully, it will be for those members who go through it in the present time, and read it.

One thing I like to ask in connection to the topic is how one can heal from the consequences from it as an adult? In my case I grew up in an abusive and completely unstable environment, and as a result my personality and behavior distorted in some ways, and greatly altered the course of my life compared to a normal person's. Altough, despite everything that had happened to me, I don't really feel anger or hate towards the people who abused and bullied me. I do feel it for short periods of time on rare occasion, but for the most part I don't - Even when it would've been the right thing to feel. I do have negative emotions about it, such as sadness, self-pity and such, but there's no emotions directed towards the abusers themselves. Part of the reason is that back then we were kids or young teens, thus I can't really blame them for their behavior (I know I should tho). My memory about those times aren't really intact either, I have some bits here and there but other than that I can't really recall anything. Even if I have some small glimpses I feel disconnected from them, as if it was the memories of someone else and not me. That's the reason I can't really vent or perform a revenge ritual, because I lack the emotions needed for it.

I also can't really cope or react to anger or criticism directed towards me, no matter if the other person doesn't have malicious intents. I'II always react in an overdramatic way to it, and go full on flight or fight mode, even if the only thing the other person said is "I don't like you" or something similar. It feels extremely humiliating that as a grown-ass adult I can't control or regulate my own emotions. I'II start to shake and tremble like crazy, so much so that it's a struggle to stay upright without collapsing, and I'II have the urge to just break out crying, and flee the scene as fast as I can. I had quite a few embarassing and humiliating moments because of this, it's clearly noticeably to others when it happend. My body literally acts like as if a serial killer would be there to hunt me down, when in reality it's just someone saying one mean comment or criticism to me.
Hello :)

You would benefit from emotional/psychological healing workings. This coming Monday, Moon will be waxing in Cancer. Use Wunjo rune or Shrim mantra (pronounced shreem). You can also do the Moon square if you feel that would be best.

I'm not sure how many repetitions you are comfortable with, start with 18 if you are new, or 50, 80, 100, or 216 if you are capable of that many. You might need to do this for 90 or 180 days.

Make your affirmation something like "I am now emotionally and psychologically healed in every way from any and all trauma, conscious and unconscious, in beneficial ways for me."

It's good that you are aware of how you respond to various situations. Stay in tune with yourself and see how you progress. Awareness of how we react goes a long way in changing and reprogramming our reactions.
 
I personally went to a therapist for a couple of years.
Once in a while it was only useful to vent or to practice explaining one's ideas, but otherwise I made the change on my own.

I don't think they're really helpful, literally if you get better and better they lose a client, so it's not in their interest for you to get better.

In my opinion you just have to find a person to confide in or have that kind of connection.

There *are* good therapists. Something that I recently discovered is that one needs to have at least some amount of self-knowledge before going there. Asking questions to ourselves (by ourselves) first, before going to another person (even if it's a professional) and expecting them to magically help us feel better or overcome obstacles and mental blockages.
First, we need to do a little digging on our own. And when we finally face a wall, and our questions and answers can't solve the problem, then we go to a professional with a clear mindset on what we want to overcome and what path we already followed (through questions, self-affirmations, etc) that wasn't fruitful.
 
Hello :)

You would benefit from emotional/psychological healing workings. This coming Monday, Moon will be waxing in Cancer. Use Wunjo rune or Shrim mantra (pronounced shreem). You can also do the Moon square if you feel that would be best.

I'm not sure how many repetitions you are comfortable with, start with 18 if you are new, or 50, 80, 100, or 216 if you are capable of that many. You might need to do this for 90 or 180 days.

Make your affirmation something like "I am now emotionally and psychologically healed in every way from any and all trauma, conscious and unconscious, in beneficial ways for me."

It's good that you are aware of how you respond to various situations. Stay in tune with yourself and see how you progress. Awareness of how we react goes a long way in changing and reprogramming our reactions.
Thank you.

Great article.

I will try this spiritual work in the future.
 
This isn’t about a bit of hazing or light banter, which often happens among young people: testing each other out, testing limits.

This post is for those who experience a lot of stress and anxiety caused by consistent abuse, even threats to your life. There are other people out there who are cruel and take it out on anyone they see as being their target.

For anyone experiencing real abuse, you need to know what you are up against, and how to deal with it in the best way for you. (More on this later in this post.)

There are children and teenagers who had to be removed from school, either home-schooled or transferred to another school, because they were being bullied and couldn’t cope. But there are more young people don’t have this option, and don’t know how to deal with this problem.

First off, don’t believe the threat that you will get into more trouble if you tell your parents, teachers, or the police. And do not buy into the “gangster rule” of “not being a grass/snitch”. There is no “honor” in keeping things like this to yourself. This is entirely an enemy agenda of keeping people quiet to accept more abuse to cause further psychological damage. The only judgement you should care about is that of the Gods, and they want you to get the best outcome for you.

Related to this, if you ever lose friends because you brought attention to the problem, then those people were not actually your friends. It’s as simple as that. With all the people in the world, you can easily find new friends. Friends should have your back, not ditch you for “not being cool”. Potential friends are a dime a dozen. Find people of value to be friends with. Don’t ever stop yourself from doing the right thing, out of fear of what your friends will think. Your real friends will stick by you.


Now, about fighting back against bullies. Unfortunately, in this day and age you never know who has a knife or even a gun. So this makes it complicated when it comes to standing up for yourself, because standing up for yourself might actually make you a target of something much worse than a few punches. In cases like this, avoid the person, and tell your parents or teachers or even the police if you feel threatened.

Fortunately, in this day and age everyone has camera phones. Learn to discretely film any potential threats for evidence. Practice in a mirror at home or with a trusted friend so you can learn to be very subtle and quick. Pretend you are texting or something. But if you’re caught, your phone might get smashed up, so be aware of this. You also probably don’t want to have to give your phone to the police or school for evidence, so a more discrete option is to have voice recorder device on and have it in your pocket. And about cameras, if someone comes up to you to fight you, tell them there are security cameras around. This should at least make the person hesitate long enough for you to get away.

Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is.

Some things can be fought against, and you might even earn the respect of others. Standing strong, being quick-witted, bantering back, and so on. Many friendships have formed from this. Even physical fighting has resulted in some of the best friendships forming, but these days, fighting can get you expelled from school so it is definitely best to avoid this. There are many cases all through history of people becoming best friends after having a good fight against each other.


But the above paragraphs are about something minor. For those experiencing constant bullying, this is different. This is something that needs to be dealt with, and healed from.

For those who try telling parents or teachers, and nothing results from it: Keep telling them. Make them listen. Yell if you have to. A lot of problems are caused by people keeping silent, it is not natural to keep silent regarding such matters. This alone can cause damage to the soul. You need to make yourself heard. Many parents downplay problems because they don’t know how to deal with it, or don’t want to believe that their child is in danger.

For those who are certain they cannot tell your parents for whatever reason: Make it anonymous. Write/print it out on paper and discretely deliver it to the school guidance counselor or principal, include the name of the person abusing you. Or call a hotline (you can find the one in your area online or it might even be listed on your school website). But for further action to be taken, you will need to come forward and testify; they will walk you through the steps.


Now for the good part: You can strengthen yourself, and you can heal yourself from any trauma. A lot of bullies narrow in on potential victims, they can see who is weaker. It isn’t about physical weakness, because some of the worst bullies are themselves physically weak, but they are manipulative and get the results they want. There are different types of strength, and different types of weakness.

In the Joy of Satan, there are methods to strengthen yourself. Work on your solar chakra and aura especially, but also clean your chakras and soul. Doing an aura of protection will go a long way. There is also a binding spell which can be done on those who are abusing you, but be realistic about this. If someone insults you a bit, let it go. That is not abuse, it is just life. Bindings should only be done on actual abusers, not based on a whim.

Another important thing is to strengthen your mind. A lot of people are weak-minded because we are not taught in schools or from parents how to have a stronger mind and character. This is why I mentioned in this post about letting some things go and not dwelling on minor abuse. Strengthen your mind, know what is to be simply ignored and moved past. This is imperative for many things in life, so this can be seen as practice, in order to do even better in your life. Having a strong mind and character will be shown to others, and they will know you are not someone to easily mess with. Light occasional abuse is a part of life, so either fight back in an appropriate way (don’t go overboard, simply match what they did on the same level if you feel this is safe to do so) or ignore it. Ignoring them is usually the best answer, because most bullies are looking for a response from you. Void meditation will help you ignore anything that is not worth putting your attention towards.

Ignoring is powerful, because it shows the other person that they are completely irrelevant to you and not worth your time. But, realistically, it can potentially lead to them taking things a step further in order to get the attention they want, so you might need to talk to them and tell them you won’t put up with anything. Start politely, because things might actually turn out much better than you were expecting. Politeness often goes a long way, because a lot of bullies act out because their parents neglect them or are constantly rude to them. Being polite to them can sometimes (but not always) result in them becoming a better person.

Regarding cyberbullying, just block and ignore. Never reply to them, they want attention so don’t give it to them. If they send any threats, save it and report it to the police or school authority, but don’t reply personally in any way to the cyberbully. Ignore any bait, your time is valuable so don’t waste it on them.

A good way to deal with problematic situations is by acting them out with your friends or parents, or just visualizing in your mind. Go over potential threatening scenarios and talk your way through them. This will give you the familiarity needed to deal with real-life situations with more confidence.


Getting back to the subject of real abuse:

What you can do to help resolve the situation and heal yourself: Spiritual Venting/Revenge Ritual. Hold a standard ritual to Satan. At the height of the ritual, vent all your anger, rage, embarrassment, frustration, all those feelings. Feel them strongly. If you feel repressed or beaten down, get the feelings of frustration from this. Release it all, and ask for the energy to be directed properly: either to the bully, or just to “the enemy” in general, whatever you feel is right for you.

If you have access to something you can physically attack as a prop, this can help a lot. Use a pillow if there is nothing you can smash up. Just keep hitting the pillow until you feel better. Get your rage out during the ritual, spend as much time as you need doing this.

When you feel finished, end the ritual, thank any Demon who helped you, and clean your aura. Then, do something to make yourself happy. Watch something that makes you laugh, visit with a good friend, or practice a hobby you enjoy, for example. You will likely feel tired from the ritual, but you will also feel better, like you have accomplished something.

You can repeat this ritual whenever you feel the need to do it. Any Waning Moon in Scorpio or Capricorn will give extra power (download the SS Calendar of your location for dates), but this can in fact be done any time you need it. Don’t let it build up inside of you, waiting for the best time to do it. Do it when you need to. And then you can do it again during the aforementioned Moon timings.

And don’t forget that you can talk with a therapist. Talking about problems can help make things better, and give clarity of mind. On a final note, meditation will grow inner strength and enable you to cope better in all situations.


Satan leads us to inner peace, and strength.
I ended up beating the crap out of my bullies some people like to talk about it to other's i prefer to simply deal with my enemy directly there are parts of the human body where no matter how much you juice yourself up you can not make muscles the eyes, throat, diaphragm and balls are all acceptable targets when dealing with a larger enemy if you are reasonably muscley or have a strong kick knee caps are also acceptable the only thing you have to do is make sure they swing at you first this way when you annhilate these pieces of shit parasites that is the bully it comes under self defence.

When i introduced the bully and the theif of my highschool days to my fist i cause one of his eyes to puff up i broke his nose i fractured his face plate between his upper teeth and eye socket when i punched him i could feel a massive void of energy surrounding my punch he didn't bully anyone after that sometimes you can talk your way around things sometimes you can make peace or come to an agreement and sometimes some stupid ass mother fuckers just need to be put down to be taught a lesson the hard way.

Like the jew for example sometimes you just have to put a bad dog down and when little shit rats think they can behave like the jew to one of the gods children sometimes the gods send them on a pathway of the epiphany for this particular shit rat that was my fist he was going down a oath of toxicity and abuse and i smack him right back into the correct pathway just like that.
 
I can never forget the day I rightfully dealt with bullies who tried to make me look like the dumb one of the school back in senior high by masterminding mishaps that they can cleverly blame on me. I envisioned Fehu runes fucking up their brains and they failed a major exam that it made them the idiots instead. Maybe this is what I can go with in the future instead of aiming to kill anyone, I would like to try methods of inducing nightmares on them that will make them stop.

No need for going overboard for me anymore lol.
 
I was also bullied in school, so I started going in fitness, in few months I earned 20kg and everyone stopped fucking with me. Those who are victims of bullying i recommend lifting weights and get muscle mass. You can also start with martial arts, or buy a boxing bag and punch it. Search on youtube how to punch or something like that. Best way to learn how to fight is punching a boxing bag.
 
This isn’t about a bit of hazing or light banter, which often happens among young people: testing each other out, testing limits.

This post is for those who experience a lot of stress and anxiety caused by consistent abuse, even threats to your life. There are other people out there who are cruel and take it out on anyone they see as being their target.

For anyone experiencing real abuse, you need to know what you are up against, and how to deal with it in the best way for you. (More on this later in this post.)

There are children and teenagers who had to be removed from school, either home-schooled or transferred to another school, because they were being bullied and couldn’t cope. But there are more young people don’t have this option, and don’t know how to deal with this problem.

First off, don’t believe the threat that you will get into more trouble if you tell your parents, teachers, or the police. And do not buy into the “gangster rule” of “not being a grass/snitch”. There is no “honor” in keeping things like this to yourself. This is entirely an enemy agenda of keeping people quiet to accept more abuse to cause further psychological damage. The only judgement you should care about is that of the Gods, and they want you to get the best outcome for you.

Related to this, if you ever lose friends because you brought attention to the problem, then those people were not actually your friends. It’s as simple as that. With all the people in the world, you can easily find new friends. Friends should have your back, not ditch you for “not being cool”. Potential friends are a dime a dozen. Find people of value to be friends with. Don’t ever stop yourself from doing the right thing, out of fear of what your friends will think. Your real friends will stick by you.


Now, about fighting back against bullies. Unfortunately, in this day and age you never know who has a knife or even a gun. So this makes it complicated when it comes to standing up for yourself, because standing up for yourself might actually make you a target of something much worse than a few punches. In cases like this, avoid the person, and tell your parents or teachers or even the police if you feel threatened.

Fortunately, in this day and age everyone has camera phones. Learn to discretely film any potential threats for evidence. Practice in a mirror at home or with a trusted friend so you can learn to be very subtle and quick. Pretend you are texting or something. But if you’re caught, your phone might get smashed up, so be aware of this. You also probably don’t want to have to give your phone to the police or school for evidence, so a more discrete option is to have voice recorder device on and have it in your pocket. And about cameras, if someone comes up to you to fight you, tell them there are security cameras around. This should at least make the person hesitate long enough for you to get away.

Another thing you need to learn is to be mentally tough. A few punches should not cause psychological damage. The people who do become psychologically damaged from light one-time violence are generally people who do not have a father, or do have a father but he is also physically abusive. Kids fight, don’t let a few fights get to you. For dealing with verbal abuse, you can insult them back if you can (only if you know it won’t lead to them physically attacking you) or just ignore it (more on this later in this post) if this is the safer option for you. Let it go, do not dwell on it, and don’t let it become bigger than it is.

Some things can be fought against, and you might even earn the respect of others. Standing strong, being quick-witted, bantering back, and so on. Many friendships have formed from this. Even physical fighting has resulted in some of the best friendships forming, but these days, fighting can get you expelled from school so it is definitely best to avoid this. There are many cases all through history of people becoming best friends after having a good fight against each other.


But the above paragraphs are about something minor. For those experiencing constant bullying, this is different. This is something that needs to be dealt with, and healed from.

For those who try telling parents or teachers, and nothing results from it: Keep telling them. Make them listen. Yell if you have to. A lot of problems are caused by people keeping silent, it is not natural to keep silent regarding such matters. This alone can cause damage to the soul. You need to make yourself heard. Many parents downplay problems because they don’t know how to deal with it, or don’t want to believe that their child is in danger.

For those who are certain they cannot tell your parents for whatever reason: Make it anonymous. Write/print it out on paper and discretely deliver it to the school guidance counselor or principal, include the name of the person abusing you. Or call a hotline (you can find the one in your area online or it might even be listed on your school website). But for further action to be taken, you will need to come forward and testify; they will walk you through the steps.


Now for the good part: You can strengthen yourself, and you can heal yourself from any trauma. A lot of bullies narrow in on potential victims, they can see who is weaker. It isn’t about physical weakness, because some of the worst bullies are themselves physically weak, but they are manipulative and get the results they want. There are different types of strength, and different types of weakness.

In the Joy of Satan, there are methods to strengthen yourself. Work on your solar chakra and aura especially, but also clean your chakras and soul. Doing an aura of protection will go a long way. There is also a binding spell which can be done on those who are abusing you, but be realistic about this. If someone insults you a bit, let it go. That is not abuse, it is just life. Bindings should only be done on actual abusers, not based on a whim.

Another important thing is to strengthen your mind. A lot of people are weak-minded because we are not taught in schools or from parents how to have a stronger mind and character. This is why I mentioned in this post about letting some things go and not dwelling on minor abuse. Strengthen your mind, know what is to be simply ignored and moved past. This is imperative for many things in life, so this can be seen as practice, in order to do even better in your life. Having a strong mind and character will be shown to others, and they will know you are not someone to easily mess with. Light occasional abuse is a part of life, so either fight back in an appropriate way (don’t go overboard, simply match what they did on the same level if you feel this is safe to do so) or ignore it. Ignoring them is usually the best answer, because most bullies are looking for a response from you. Void meditation will help you ignore anything that is not worth putting your attention towards.

Ignoring is powerful, because it shows the other person that they are completely irrelevant to you and not worth your time. But, realistically, it can potentially lead to them taking things a step further in order to get the attention they want, so you might need to talk to them and tell them you won’t put up with anything. Start politely, because things might actually turn out much better than you were expecting. Politeness often goes a long way, because a lot of bullies act out because their parents neglect them or are constantly rude to them. Being polite to them can sometimes (but not always) result in them becoming a better person.

Regarding cyberbullying, just block and ignore. Never reply to them, they want attention so don’t give it to them. If they send any threats, save it and report it to the police or school authority, but don’t reply personally in any way to the cyberbully. Ignore any bait, your time is valuable so don’t waste it on them.

A good way to deal with problematic situations is by acting them out with your friends or parents, or just visualizing in your mind. Go over potential threatening scenarios and talk your way through them. This will give you the familiarity needed to deal with real-life situations with more confidence.


Getting back to the subject of real abuse:

What you can do to help resolve the situation and heal yourself: Spiritual Venting/Revenge Ritual. Hold a standard ritual to Satan. At the height of the ritual, vent all your anger, rage, embarrassment, frustration, all those feelings. Feel them strongly. If you feel repressed or beaten down, get the feelings of frustration from this. Release it all, and ask for the energy to be directed properly: either to the bully, or just to “the enemy” in general, whatever you feel is right for you.

If you have access to something you can physically attack as a prop, this can help a lot. Use a pillow if there is nothing you can smash up. Just keep hitting the pillow until you feel better. Get your rage out during the ritual, spend as much time as you need doing this.

When you feel finished, end the ritual, thank any Demon who helped you, and clean your aura. Then, do something to make yourself happy. Watch something that makes you laugh, visit with a good friend, or practice a hobby you enjoy, for example. You will likely feel tired from the ritual, but you will also feel better, like you have accomplished something.

You can repeat this ritual whenever you feel the need to do it. Any Waning Moon in Scorpio or Capricorn will give extra power (download the SS Calendar of your location for dates), but this can in fact be done any time you need it. Don’t let it build up inside of you, waiting for the best time to do it. Do it when you need to. And then you can do it again during the aforementioned Moon timings.

And don’t forget that you can talk with a therapist. Talking about problems can help make things better, and give clarity of mind. On a final note, meditation will grow inner strength and enable you to cope better in all situations.


Satan leads us to inner peace, and strength.
Lydia, thank you so much for this post, it's very important information!

In Canada and in the West as a whole, of course, the problem of youth is also aggravated by drugs, in Russia, Belarus and Ukraine it is not so scary in schools, but a bully, they like to mock the guys in every possible way, unfortunately there is enough.

It is very important for children and adolescents to provide assistance in these matters.

Parents should also be very attentive to their children.

When I have children, I will be very attentive in these matters.
 
To young men who are being bullied, I have one thing to say: stop acting like a christian. You represent Satan through your blood and sperm. Prove that to yourself, to those around you and to Father Satan Himself. Working with Runes like Thurisaz, Algiz, and Sowilo will help greatly. And remember you are not alone; you have family, friends, the JoS Community and the Gods on your side.
Very important and correct words, brother (y)

You have to be able to stand up for yourself, and if you can't, then you have to learn to stand up for yourself.

If you can't stand up for yourself alone, look for allies. Bullies can be resisted if you find other guys who they also annoy and by joining forces, the bully can be taught a lesson when he is alone (if the bully is too strong).
 
I was also bullied in school, so I started going in fitness, in few months I earned 20kg and everyone stopped fucking with me. Those who are victims of bullying i recommend lifting weights and get muscle mass. You can also start with martial arts, or buy a boxing bag and punch it. Search on youtube how to punch or something like that. Best way to learn how to fight is punching a boxing bag.
A bag is just a stationary object. The only good thing a bag helps with for a person with no experience in fighting is not throwing noodle arms in a fight. That's it.

Someone with experience utilizes a bag way different.


I agree with at least starting on some self learning in the start and even after some experience with the help of a irl teacher.


How does one gain that much weight in a few months that's purely muscle? That's very extreme and the only thing I can think of would be steroids and even at that one would have to spend hours everyday day in the gym if they planned on gaining that much weight in muscle in a few months.

Gaining that much weight in muscle takes years to build naturally. Even starting with calisthenics my body was just skinny but cut and the muscles didn't start sticking out until a little bit more of a couple years into it.

What I mean here is going from slim fit to a more athletic/muscular built.

Eating more just gave me excess weight I couldn't handle so as one can see the process takes time, patience, balance and consistency.

I would like to know @Stormblood opinion on this as I believe he's done this longer than I have.
 
A bag is just a stationary object. The only good thing a bag helps with for a person with no experience in fighting is not throwing noodle arms in a fight. That's it.

Someone with experience utilizes a bag way different.


I agree with at least starting on some self learning in the start and even after some experience with the help of a irl teacher.


How does one gain that much weight in a few months that's purely muscle? That's very extreme and the only thing I can think of would be steroids and even at that one would have to spend hours everyday day in the gym if they planned on gaining that much weight in muscle in a few months.

Gaining that much weight in muscle takes years to build naturally. Even starting with calisthenics my body was just skinny but cut and the muscles didn't start sticking out until a little bit more of a couple years into it.

What I mean here is going from slim fit to a more athletic/muscular built.

Eating more just gave me excess weight I couldn't handle so as one can see the process takes time, patience, balance and consistency.

I would like to know @Stormblood opinion on this as I believe he's done this longer than I have.
I never used steroids and I never will. I didnt got pure muscle mass. It was about 65% muscles, 35% fat, I wanted to be like animal those days. I was training like crazy also I was eating too much. That is how I gained so much weight.
 
Greetings high priestess Lydia, I really appreciate this post and your knowledge. Thanks for all the way you help us.
Please reply to me if you can,
I also agree that light banters/quarrel should not cause psychological trauma. I haven't been bullied/abused in my life and the environment around me was always healthy. But I can't seem to let go of things. Like if I ever faced injustice/harm in things, I always took revenge. I don't know why. The way you described life, that these things can happen. But I can never tolerate those things or let those go. And since I was in military school I'm physically capable enough to deal with violence/bad situations. So I'm a capable and not weak person. But I hate violence. And I even hate that many kids/adults fight. Yes, for self defense learning or sports it's necessary, but not for anything else in my opinion. And I personally f*cked up a few bullies and others I noticed who were disturbing or harming others, actively or passively. I can't grasp my head around what you said "many wonderful friendships formed from fighting". I heard this before, but I wonder, if a person attack me for no reason and I have to fight him which might result in me getting injured, how can this start a friendship? I can't let go of grudges, like this would mean from now on that person is my enemy and I'll never forgive him unless he does something to make me forgive him. If I become friends with him after a fight that would make me a fool. Because that person tried to harm/abuse me, and when we ended it with a fight, we become friends? He didn't do anything to deserve my friendship! And that person is a bad person! I'll just forget everything he did after we fought? No!
This is just what I think dear high priestess. I'm in no way saying you are wrong. But could you provide answers to my questions and explanations to my situations? I'll really appreciate that. Also I have another question,
Do our beloved Gods or Demons quarrel or fight with each other? This came to my mind after reading your post cause I believe they are in so high level consciousness and greatness! I believe they don't fight or quarrel with each other. Is my guess correct my dear high priestess?

Thanks a lot for reading this far. I really appreciate your posts, thank you. I pray to Gods that you and me, may we never need to fight another person for our peace. May we always be happy and secured.

Hail our Gods!
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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