Berating, belitteling or scolding? WHERE? You're over-reacting - sorry
Hичто 's post - the guy/gal has a point.
For me it was just a matter of finding the right time for the Dedication. A drop of blood? Pfff - a small act of huge importance.
Fun fact, I hadn't known what I could prick my finger with. Then, as I was casually changing my clothes... oopsie, a shuriken dropped on my finger and pricked it