The ethics of a love spell

[Weasel]

Hello guys, let me start like this:
My life is shit and I kinda hit ground bottom especially when it comes to love, there is a women I like, she is one of the few people I seen that seems to have a passion in life, a soul, someone who deserve to be seen as human in a world of garbage, I love her so much but I very much doubt she has the same feelings and also she is always busy with her career and the ''friend'' I met her through is kind of a rat and cannot be trusted therefore here's the thing that needs to be asked.
If you trully love a person then how morally and ethical is to impose your will into her... like I want to do a love spell on her because I am trully scared that I may lose her, she recetly broke up with her ex, a very short relationship and idk, it's trully ok to impose my will on her to be in another relationship, itsn't a love spell the magical equivalent of someone coming to your face and yelling ''LOVE MEEE'' and then boom it works, can someone explain me more on this please?!
Also something weird about her, the way she have relationships is that she doesn't love her boyfriend at first but she just let herself be taken by the flows which is... weird, like the feelings you have are minimal and you're just waiting for the connection to build up, it feels like some kind of forced marriage mentality... is this some kind of redflag?

And if I will do a love spell, can you give me some examples? I seen you can also use runes with it.

 

[LoneWolf88]

My life is shit and I kinda hit ground bottom especially when it comes to love, there is a women I like, she is one of the few people I seen that seems to have a passion in life, a soul, someone who deserve to be seen as human in a world of garbage

You have discovered something important here. You see, people get attracted to someone who has a passion and a purpose. Especially women. Do you have a purpose and a passion? If not, find it and do it. She will probably get attracted to you if you do that.

I mean if you have no interests on your own and you are obsessed with another person all the time, you have an aura of neediness that repulses the other person. Neediness and insecurity repel people, they don't bring them to you.

like I want to do a love spell on her because I am trully scared that I may lose her

If that's the reason you want to do it, it won't work and it most likely bring the opposite result. When you do a spell or a working of any kind, after doing it you should visualize that you already have what you need so that you don't need it any more. For a love spell, the correct feeling to have is that you are with the other person and nothing can take them from you so you don't really care what they do. If a love spell is based on fear or neediness, it will almost certainly fail.

 

[Draconi666]

Hello guys, let me start like this:
My life is shit and I kinda hit ground bottom especially when it comes to love, there is a women I like, she is one of the few people I seen that seems to have a passion in life, a soul, someone who deserve to be seen as human in a world of garbage, I love her so much but I very much doubt she has the same feelings and also she is always busy with her career and the ''friend'' I met her through is kind of a rat and cannot be trusted therefore here's the thing that needs to be asked.
If you trully love a person then how morally and ethical is to impose your will into her... like I want to do a love spell on her because I am trully scared that I may lose her, she recetly broke up with her ex, a very short relationship and idk, it's trully ok to impose my will on her to be in another relationship, itsn't a love spell the magical equivalent of someone coming to your face and yelling ''LOVE MEEE'' and then boom it works, can someone explain me more on this please?!
Also something weird about her, the way she have relationships is that she doesn't love her boyfriend at first but she just let herself be taken by the flows which is... weird, like the feelings you have are minimal and you're just waiting for the connection to build up, it feels like some kind of forced marriage mentality... is this some kind of redflag?

And if I will do a love spell, can you give me some examples? I seen you can also use runes with it.

I am sure love comes later after building trust and relationships, when other deserves then you start to love him or her.

consider did she done anything for you so you would have to love her? Did she invested time efforts in building relationships and trust which is worth of love at the end?

Or is this just delusions? What do you think?

 

[Wisdom_Wraith]

I have had moments in my life when I liked a girl, but she didn't like me as much, so there was also the question of the ethics of love magic.
Using charms when one does not have mutual feelings can be fraught with negative consequences. It is not only unethical, but also potentially dangerous, both for you and the object of the spell. Any spell, if the person you are initially not to your liking, will lie down as a spoil, because it includes a change of thinking, and the breaking of the will, and much more.
It is better to rephrase the love spell as follows: "How can I find a SS-girl, where you will live in love, harmony and power.
I believe that love spells are worth using when you have a relationship coming or going.

 

[Karnonnos [JG]]

You sound like you are in an anxious state and that is not a good mentality to have with love spells. Your mind needs to be crystal clear and not acting out of desperation. Have you been with anyone before? When you've been in a relationship, these things become more comprehensible.

Love spells need compatibility and patience for the best result.

Look at your Synastry between you and her first and be totally sure about this. If it's just tepid all around, or a danger to you, there's no point doing any love spell. It will blow up in your face if she doesn't really think of you like this.

The 'forced marriage' mentality you describe is common with a lot of people, they go into relationships with those they aren't compatible with, who just give them companionship for social reasons, excitement and drama. However, that doesn't mean that you may not be doing the same thing ultimately in spite of your feelings for her right now.

 

[Onbael_]

Hello guys, let me start like this:
My life is shit and I kinda hit ground bottom especially when it comes to love, there is a women I like, she is one of the few people I seen that seems to have a passion in life, a soul, someone who deserve to be seen as human in a world of garbage, I love her so much but I very much doubt she has the same feelings and also she is always busy with her career and the ''friend'' I met her through is kind of a rat and cannot be trusted therefore here's the thing that needs to be asked.
If you trully love a person then how morally and ethical is to impose your will into her... like I want to do a love spell on her because I am trully scared that I may lose her, she recetly broke up with her ex, a very short relationship and idk, it's trully ok to impose my will on her to be in another relationship, itsn't a love spell the magical equivalent of someone coming to your face and yelling ''LOVE MEEE'' and then boom it works, can someone explain me more on this please?!
Also something weird about her, the way she have relationships is that she doesn't love her boyfriend at first but she just let herself be taken by the flows which is... weird, like the feelings you have are minimal and you're just waiting for the connection to build up, it feels like some kind of forced marriage mentality... is this some kind of redflag?

And if I will do a love spell, can you give me some examples? I seen you can also use runes with it.

Learn to transcend simple feelings and attractions generated 'at random' by planetary positions, they are just confusing shadows that lead to nothing but suffering, it has happened to me many times.

Focusing love spells on a specific person who is not your soul mate is one of the biggest wastes of time and energy there is.
And with your current anxious mindset, etc., you'll only add to your suffering.

Focus more on attracting the perfect partner, in this way your soul's energies will be regulated to always attract the best for you, and all areas of life will benefit.

If the attraction persists, make trance affirmations to erase all attraction, and then with blue fire destroy the connections and influences from your soul.

Move on, don't waste time with these people, focus on more enlightining practices, and with time the way to the love and the perfect partner that you need will be clearer.

 

[Weasel]

I have had moments in my life when I liked a girl, but she didn't like me as much, so there was also the question of the ethics of love magic.
Using charms when one does not have mutual feelings can be fraught with negative consequences. It is not only unethical, but also potentially dangerous, both for you and the object of the spell. Any spell, if the person you are initially not to your liking, will lie down as a spoil, because it includes a change of thinking, and the breaking of the will, and much more.
It is better to rephrase the love spell as follows: "How can I find a SS-girl, where you will live in love, harmony and power.
I believe that love spells are worth using when you have a relationship coming or going.

The problem is she is very timid and anxious type of women, like the only thing to know if she wanted to talk to me or something else was through my friends and not only that but she's always busy and stuff and it's really hard to see what's she really think of me... from what I know it was a good opinion, or at least the last time idk but recently idk... there are also some other things that happened and meh... it's becoming a headache...

 

[Weasel]

I am sure love comes later after building trust and relationships, when other deserves then you start to love him or her.

consider did she done anything for you so you would have to love her? Did she invested time efforts in building relationships and trust which is worth of love at the end?

Or is this just delusions? What do you think?

She was always busy (I can be sure of this because everyone said the same), we talked when we could so it's kinda hard...
''When other deserve then you can start loving her'', yeah but it kinda getting hard when most of your life had been being a lonely mess...

 

[Weasel]

You sound like you are in an anxious state and that is not a good mentality to have with love spells. Your mind needs to be crystal clear and not acting out of desperation. Have you been with anyone before? When you've been in a relationship, these things become more comprehensible.

Love spells need compatibility and patience for the best result.

Look at your Synastry between you and her first and be totally sure about this. If it's just tepid all around, or a danger to you, there's no point doing any love spell. It will blow up in your face if she doesn't really think of you like this.

The 'forced marriage' mentality you describe is common with a lot of people, they go into relationships with those they aren't compatible with, who just give them companionship for social reasons, excitement and drama. However, that doesn't mean that you may not be doing the same thing ultimately in spite of your feelings for her right now.

To my shame I dont have that much experience in love... my life had been... ugh.. rough...

Sadly I don't know to check on astrology to see how well sinastry work and what do you mean it could blow into my face, what could happen exactly?

And about the ''forced marriage'', from what I knew most of her previous boyfriend (like 3) she didn't feel anything at first, actually from what I been told the first few months she didn't felt anything for them, she just let herself being taken by the flame, even with her current ex when she was together she told that she doesn't know what feelings she has for me even if he had some sort of crush on him... It was just so weird to hear this.

 

[Weasel]

Learn to transcend simple feelings and attractions generated 'at random' by planetary positions, they are just confusing shadows that lead to nothing but suffering, it has happened to me many times.

Focusing love spells on a specific person who is not your soul mate is one of the biggest wastes of time and energy there is.
And with your current anxious mindset, etc., you'll only add to your suffering.

Focus more on attracting the perfect partner, in this way your soul's energies will be regulated to always attract the best for you, and all areas of life will benefit.

If the attraction persists, make trance affirmations to erase all attraction, and then with blue fire destroy the connections and influences from your soul.

Move on, don't waste time with these people, focus on more enlightining practices, and with time the way to the love and the perfect partner that you need will be clearer.

I don't really think it's from a planetary position, I had these feelings for a long time... I don't know why... she simply just strike me as something else, I want her... and it's hard to ignore these type of feelings when most of your life had been a lonely mess.

How do I attract the perfect partner.. it's very hard to meet new people in this filthy world especially when it's so infected by jewish politics and ''religion'' and mentality, she was not like this... she was a resemblance of what someone should be...

Yes... some people told me to tell her my feelings but I don't really know when it would be the perfect time for it, she is always busy, maybe I should just cut my love for her...
From what I knew the method for cutting connection is by entering trance and using an astral knife and affirmations. But how about runes?

 

[Onbael_]

I don't really think it's from a planetary position, I had these feelings for a long time... I don't know why... she simply just strike me as something else, I want her... and it's hard to ignore these type of feelings when most of your life had been a lonely mess.

How do I attract the perfect partner.. it's very hard to meet new people in this filthy world especially when it's so infected by jewish politics and ''religion'' and mentality, she was not like this... she was a resemblance of what someone should be...

Yes... some people told me to tell her my feelings but I don't really know when it would be the perfect time for it, she is always busy, maybe I should just cut my love for her...
From what I knew the method for cutting connection is by entering trance and using an astral knife and affirmations. But how about runes?

The method of trance consist in breath in energy and do affirmations on yourself.

The other method consist in vibrate Ansuz or Uruz 7 times, do the affirmations and than burning with blue fire.

You can combine these if you want.

Of course it's not only planetary influences but also your current situation. You see many problems generaly in the world, and you have also your own problems, but now your are only see her as an escape from all the problems, and this will not bring any success but only suffer.

Can you see it? The planetary influences and your current problems, are trying to decieve you in something that will bring no advancements.

You have to focus on solving your own issues, and also on spirituality to see and be beyond all of this.
Then your way will be clearer, and that will make you really happy.

You will have time to think about partners when you will be ready, don't worry.

Focusing on improving yourself, our comunity, and the world together with the Gods, can have miracle tier impact on yourself.

I hope my message is clear enough, I talk from my experiences.

 

[Draconi666]

I am sure love comes later after building trust and relationships, when other deserves then you start to love him or her.

consider did she done anything for you so you would have to love her? Did she invested time efforts in building relationships and trust which is worth of love at the end?

Or is this just delusions? What do you think?

She was always busy (I can be sure of this because everyone said the same), we talked when we could so it's kinda hard...
''When other deserve then you can start loving her'', yeah but it kinda getting hard when most of your life had been being a lonely mess...

First need to clean negative relationships karma,

Returning curses,

Then you can attract partner more easly

 

[Havoc]

There are some red flags you missed that I’m glad you brought up.

If a person likes you they’ll make time for you, being “busy” with her career had no impact on her other relationships or her ability to see this friend so you not getting to spend time with her is because she’s keeping you at arms length. She makes time for guys she thinks are attractive.

She saids things like “I don’t really love my boyfriends at first” or “I’m not that sexual of a person. I’m more conservative.” Or “they used me” to tamper your expectations and put you in your place before the relationship even starts so you don’t expect anything “unreasonable” like regular affection or romance. You are heading for a relationship with very little intimacy or interest on her part. Magic can change this but as it is now she’s not sending you good signals.

You should mental prepare yourself to walk away if this isn’t a good relationship that meets your needs which I’m afraid you won’t be able to do because this is your first big break. Insist you receive the same respect she’s shown her exs or walk. You also have to prepare yourself for if the magic doesn’t work well enough will you still be able to keep up with your practices and have faith in your progress?

As far as ethics is concerned love is inflicted upon us all the time against our will by people with bad intentions. So you being a good boy with the vary best intentions putting this on someone who sounds a little bit dubious is like throwing a life raft to a drowning person, she’s better off with you. If anything I’m worried about you being treated unethically rather than her.

 

[Wisdom_Wraith]

The problem is she is very timid and anxious type of women, like the only thing to know if she wanted to talk to me or something else was through my friends and not only that but she's always busy and stuff and it's really hard to see what's she really think of me... from what I know it was a good opinion, or at least the last time idk but recently idk... there are also some other things that happened and meh... it's becoming a headache...

It might be worth getting up the courage to text her if there's a chance she likes you. If she shirks from communication and meetings, then most likely she likes you as a friend and should forget about her in terms of love....