Looks isn't everything, studies have also shown that confidence makes you look attractive. Also, confident people are attractive because of their level of confidence that reflects their self-value. A person who sees his self-worth values himself and won't settle for anything less. Finding and maintaining a relationship first requires one to be aware that they are worthy of it. A confident woman, to most men, is very attractive. It's a sign that she values herself and takes care of herself. Men like a challenge. They want to find a woman who they think may be too good for them because they are also looking for the best possible mate.
No one should follow abyssos and he's giga chad rubbish anymore, such mentality can break you and make you feel insecure.
Looks can buy you fake love. They can buy you external approval. They can make you feel better about yourself, temporarily. They can buy you attention. You are taken more seriously.
Looks is not all. That good feeling that comes with good looks does. And you can have that good feeling without good looks. Theres a difference between looking good and feeling good.
You can look good and insecurity will still creeps in. That is why you see so people doing facial surgery even though they already look good before, but they want to get that perfect face. This is due to insecurities.
And who say character doesnt matter.
Initially you are fascinated by your partner, or by how they look, to be precise. You are so eager to get a glimpse of them.
Gradually, you want more. You dream of being intimate with them. You imagine how gorgeous they would look naked. You are curious. You are desperate.
And, then comes the day, you see them the way they are, in their raw form. And, that's when you realise that they are not flawless. But, despite their flaws, you are glued to them.
After some time, you have enough of them. What once was fascinating is an everyday sight now.
That's when character of your partner comes into play. The way they look isn't attractive anymore, but the way they are is.
You don't fall in love with the beauty of them everyday after a certain period. But you fall in love with their acts, their behaviour, their personality and their character everyday.
Yes, a level of physical attraction is necessary for most people in romantic relationships. A notable exception is if you identify as asexual. Some people who identify as asexual feel romantically attracted to others without feeling sexual attraction.
However, when it comes to “looks” and “attractiveness,” the definitions are often confusing and vague, and can depend on the era, culture, and individual.
For many people, “looks” don’t necessarily refer to someone’s physical features. Many people find physical attributes like personal style, hygiene, or posture attractive, too.
It’s also important to note that sometimes attractiveness doesn’t have anything to do with your physical attributes. Attractiveness can include many things that go beyond the physical, such as:
•having a sense of humor
•having shared interests with your partner
being kind
•having values and principals
•making your partner feel safe and happy
•being attractive to others
That’s all to say, looks aren’t the only thing that can attract you to someone.