I completely agree with Abyssos.
I of course am the same when talking about Incels and seeing the Blackpill thing around their community.
Based on your idea, both sexes will enjoy the solution you gave in your post and it is a certain and probable thing that with it, although time consuming, you will change time.
Please do not worry or think that you are talking to brick walls here, it happens.... that is all I can say, at least now.
First of all, prepare for a long post.
Second of all, who are you acting as therapist or what did Abyssos do that bad for the community?
The fact that he posted a mega-thread with total problems about your community without showing any zero disrespect whatsoever and clearly telling in his reply that the solutions he provides aren't applied and a lot of people, if not everyone, doesn't / don't understand his explanations, shows the existential reality of the situation, not a pretending action or an invalidity in opinions.
It is basic communicational knowledge that one supposedly has that should make him able to see that Abyssos (in this case, the sender of the message) tried to tell people about the problems that are on the community and basically how everyone makes him think that he talks to brick walls.
The fact that Abyssos cited Meteor, which, I looked up from 6 months or something and heard was a troll, citing his phrases of cutting genitalia, although, really? "it wasn't passed on the community" when you have let Meteor post that stuff... but anyways... he cited it as to show people what are the real problems and yes... Abyssos is right in all of his points, from the fact that Meteor and others are using FBI tactics and also that he talks to brick walls here.
Certain inconveniences can also be resolved without making people that basically disagree with a forum opinions a total troll, pretender or anything like this.
You in any case, except the nonsense that is here act like total therapists and, contrary to your uninformed opinion, you are basically helping individuals like Gear88 and others who are trolls in disguise.
Not to mention the rest of the things that you do and there are a lot of missarangements which you will never improve by the way... but... I can't say more because my digital mouth may get shut....
Moving on... if Abyssos observed he was understood, he wouldn't have had continued making this threads, and perhaps having a lot of drafts to put out as new replies... I can't wait for them... but, he did that and he will do that, as I feel and see it, because he wasn't at all understood.
One thing is to let an individual post things that are very very long, but then improve and understand (oy vey, perhaps an undefined term (insert 404 no brain reference here)) and the other thing is to let an individual post his solutions, ideas, thoughts, stories, etc. and willingly not understand him.
How ironic is that you "understand" other individuals such as Cosmic6999, the long post writer and N propagandist Gear88 and also how funny it is that whenever the said individuals post, under billions and zillions of new accounts, they are accepted and even helped by you (rarely as you are not willing to help) and also helped by the guardians! Aren't you still therapists for the guys / users I have mentioned?
Misusing words and twisting reality perhaps, as I saw it in threads and posts which I think you, HP, know about, are a specialty here, most like a 2nd qualification or occupation you have.
Basically you are saying that Abyssos in this case is abusing your time, but in reality he is the one who speaks the truth, but, perhaps truth isn't convenient to you, lol, learn the differences between telling the truth and wasting time, and secondly, after misusing words such as, in the case of Abyssos acting as a therapist, but, in reality you are just acting as victimized individuals (victimized by what and who?) clearly stands as a solid statement for what I have stipulated in my previous paragraph, that you are just misusing words and twisting reality.
Be politically correct and tell the people all the things that have to be told, about how that millionaire that then contacted, by mistake I hope, Meteor, got connection with the JoS and you especially. How did you even know that that said millionaire was it himself, as there are tons of usernames here and you can't basically know which and who is who, so, this is shady... and... even if that millionaire tried to help JoS... isn't it interesting that the said millionaire didn't at all help you with any visible improvements. The forums and site look like 2005 kids drawings made in MS Paint, the forums are and will always look like trash and, most importantly, besides you... there is no other HP "active" here.
Come on?! Isn't that millionaire having a better life from the donations you are collecting every day, every week, every month, every year? I think Zola should be a happy dude now, lol, but perhaps he isn't?
I would have like to make this post longer but... I will let you some space for reply.
Certain things are to be shed light upon... bring your contribution here and speak all the things that need to be said.
After all, it is Abyssos and me who want the whole truth to be told, not just informational pieces of it.
And, as a post scriptum.... before saying I am an idiot, an FBI agent or something like this... I want to tell you from now that I do not have any affiliations with those and... besides paranoia... if FBI agents were there and used their digital and even physical mind-twisting tactics, you, the guardians and other valuable members would have been in jail or worse from a much earlier point in time.
So... be a man... HP... share your thoughts to me, to Abyssos, to others that are reading your sermons day by day and tell all the truth that needs to be told.
No excuses.
No turning backs.
Just communication and truth telling.
After all... this is the path of truth, isn't it?