Relationships #77343 Why do only masculine women approach me

[AskSatanOperator]

My personality, voice/speech and mind is all very masculine and assertive and has always been. But my AC is characterised by feminine grace.

I am also a little awkward with women, but mostly because I don't understand them. Not from shyness or timidity, but I approach everything through my mind, which my lack of mental connection then creates an awkwardness.

I am mostly attracted to feminine bubbly women, like Sagittarius, but it is always very sexually aggressive and masculine women who approach me. Like almost everyday, as if I was a woman. Even men seem to stare at me lustfully all the time, which I didn't even realise until some girls brought it to my attention. I thought it was just normal for people to stare at other people.

But the one's I want are put off by my awkwardness and feminine appearance, I think.

What can I do to rectify this magickally? Can Mars energy for example make my face appear more masculine and rugged? I want to retain my beauty but look masculine at the same time.

The most relatable example I can think of is D from the movie Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust, or Reinhard from LotGH, or Griffith from Berserk 1999.

 

[NetemPtah]

Why don't you start approaching women coherent with your type? If you desire a more feminine woman, you should understand also that usually they send "subtler" signs...
Their approach is usually subtle, waiting to be romanced by the man.
And even if they are not the first to show interest, you can start showing yours, with a more subtle approach if you're not sure it would reciprocated. Observe the reactions to your gestures.
A vaguely feminine appearance in a man is extremely seductive even for a particularly feminine woman.
Be more careful, look around more as many feminine women might be interested in you. Awkwardness is a limitation that comes from being too self-conscious, when instead you should be dedicated to observing the other person.
Work on trying to understand women, in a "shameless" way. Talk to lots of women, study women, find out what approach they prefer; learn to get into the spirit of a woman. Women are emotional and social creatures, they crave a man "brave" enough to enter their world. Women are also "vain" creatures, who like to feel that you are working to understand them... seeing your interest and commitment, is important to a woman.
Learning to do this will result in a general skill in observing people, understanding them, and consequently, in a high level of charisma. So I would say it is absolutely worth it.

Plus, you should still be open to discovering these "masculine women" who approach you, as not all are the same.

If love is an important area of your life right now, perform some magical workings to find your ideal partner.

 

[OttoHart]

Random chance, or there's something about you that they like.
Approach the kind of girls you like yourself. A "feminine woman" won't be the type to usually just approach a man out of the blue.

 

[Henu the Great]

Random chance, or there's something about you that they like.
Approach the kind of girls you like yourself. A "feminine woman" won't be the type to usually just approach a man out of the blue.

Not really random. Astrology explains most, if not all of these things.

 

[Shadowcat]

Henu is right. Astrology explains pretty much everything. It ISN'T random. People are attracted sexually and romanticall to things that they lack, physically, emotionally and elementally/astrologically, with certain degrees of sameness also being present, even in homo and bi sexuals. You probably just have some feminine traits that attracts straight masculine women to you. Although there is nothing wrong with this, if there is masculine aspects of you that find this too similar to feel an attraction you can use mars and sun energies to amplify your masculine traits and features. You also have to realize as others said, women who are predominatly feminine will want you to take initiative. You wanting the other way around in of itself is actually a feminine trait, and could be part of what masculine women like about you. work with some planets energies and so some self awareness exercises to figure out what all comes naturally to you because of what you want and not because of what society expects. you will find that even if you successfully attract a woman who is predominately feminine, the feminine parts of you will still need some part of the masculine from her own soul as well, as every one has this in different proportions.

The ancients used to use astrology and the understandings of all this not just for projects and work but for unions and how to relate to one another. as a result, finding the perfect person who fits with you like a puzzle piece is like winning the lottery. work on your own self a awareness to truly understand what type of person compliments you best, and work with the energies to amplify what is already there within you.

Also a side note, when i was single i tried to hit on a sagg woman once. although outwardly feminine, her attitude was far from it, and the gross part about it was it was very visibly forced.

 

[DarkPagan666]

Nothing is random: Physical, emotional, mental, and social complexity has roots in one's soul's journey across incarnations. From a karmic perspective, life events, relationships, and inner emotional patterns are not random; they are the result of past actions and soul patterns.

This is known as Samskaras (deep impressions), for better or worse. Samskaras are like mental-emotional grooves carved out by past experiences, choices, and actions (whether conscious or unconscious). They predispose you to think, feel, and act in certain ways. Some Samskaras are uplifting; others keep you stuck in cycles of suffering.

Karma influences personality traits, mental habits, emotional tendencies, and even physical conditions or circumstances. This influence also extends to family lineage, societal placement, and life challenges.

Your present incarnation is just one chapter in a very long story. Your current challenges, gifts, and tendencies have their roots in earlier lives, Samskaras i.e Karma.

Here is where astrology comes in: your birth chart is like a snapshot of your karmic imprints at the moment you incarnated. Your planetary placements are not random; they are seen as karmically assigned to reflect your lessons, tendencies, challenges, and gifts for this incarnation. So, yes, astrologically and karmically, your soul’s journey is mapped out at birth, showing what Samskaras you bring into this life and what new patterns you are meant to work on in order to create a better, more fulfilling life.

 

[Aquarius]

The kind of bubbly women you want are not going to be the ones doing the first step. It's gotta be you.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

My personality, voice/speech and mind is all very masculine and assertive and has always been. But my AC is characterised by feminine grace.

I am also a little awkward with women, but mostly because I don't understand them. Not from shyness or timidity, but I approach everything through my mind, which my lack of mental connection then creates an awkwardness.

I am mostly attracted to feminine bubbly women, like Sagittarius, but it is always very sexually aggressive and masculine women who approach me. Like almost everyday, as if I was a woman. Even men seem to stare at me lustfully all the time, which I didn't even realise until some girls brought it to my attention. I thought it was just normal for people to stare at other people.

But the one's I want are put off by my awkwardness and feminine appearance, I think.

What can I do to rectify this magickally? Can Mars energy for example make my face appear more masculine and rugged? I want to retain my beauty but look masculine at the same time.

The most relatable example I can think of is D from the movie Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust, or Reinhard from LotGH, or Griffith from Berserk 1999.

Saggitarians in general are in no way, shape or form feminine lmao.

You mean you want pisces, taurus, libra and cancer then.

 

[logicalmind]

Well, if the masculine woman who shows initiative approaches you and her so-called "masculinity" is her strong will, why do you complain about it? If they look attractive to you, their character is ok with you, and you can create a relationship with them, then why should you reject them? They are still women and biologically they are going to want children, family unless they have some problems with them.

The Magick here is very simple. Talk with those women who approach you. What do they want? What do they like about you, i.e., how do they see you as a person? Do they see you as a human being, a good man for them? Maybe they approach you exactly because you look extremely masculine to them. And also, approach the women you like. Talking will help you know yourself better. Now it seems you just do not like some small details about those women, you reject them without even trying anything for it.

It is ok to be assertive, but assertiveness does not mean being picky. Always look at what you are able to bring to the table and what a woman can bring to you. Real relationship, real love is about two people working for it. Sexual attraction is not the goal of the relationship. It is not even a start. A good start for the relationship is emotional connection. Would you be able to create a proper long-term relationship, family in case you want it? If not and you plan for it, you should look deeper into yourself and get rid of those problems you face.

 

[Henu the Great]

The kind of bubbly women you want are not going to be the ones doing the first step. It's gotta be you.

They can give signs of interest, though, but the first step towards something more serious is for the man to take, yes.

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

My personality, voice/speech and mind is all very masculine and assertive and has always been. But my AC is characterised by feminine grace.

I am also a little awkward with women, but mostly because I don't understand them. Not from shyness or timidity, but I approach everything through my mind, which my lack of mental connection then creates an awkwardness.

I am mostly attracted to feminine bubbly women, like Sagittarius, but it is always very sexually aggressive and masculine women who approach me. Like almost everyday, as if I was a woman. Even men seem to stare at me lustfully all the time, which I didn't even realise until some girls brought it to my attention. I thought it was just normal for people to stare at other people.

But the one's I want are put off by my awkwardness and feminine appearance, I think.

What can I do to rectify this magickally? Can Mars energy for example make my face appear more masculine and rugged? I want to retain my beauty but look masculine at the same time.

The most relatable example I can think of is D from the movie Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust, or Reinhard from LotGH, or Griffith from Berserk 1999.

To strengthen your masculinity and masculine aspects, I recommend that you start making a Mars square.

To strengthen masculinity, daily muscle exercises with an optimal load for your health are also suitable.

Since I started doing fitness, doing various exercises with dumbbells for a variety of muscle groups, my Mars energies have dramatically strengthened, and I have also become more aggressive (to show male aggression) in a healthy and positive way for me. My male sexuality for women at the energy level has increased dramatically.

I believe that the key to success in male sexuality for women in your case is the square of Mars with appropriate affirmations for the attraction of women and physical exercises for muscle groups.

 

[Edward Lonsa]

My personality, voice/speech and mind is all very masculine and assertive and has always been. But my AC is characterised by feminine grace.

I am also a little awkward with women, but mostly because I don't understand them. Not from shyness or timidity, but I approach everything through my mind, which my lack of mental connection then creates an awkwardness.

I am mostly attracted to feminine bubbly women, like Sagittarius, but it is always very sexually aggressive and masculine women who approach me. Like almost everyday, as if I was a woman. Even men seem to stare at me lustfully all the time, which I didn't even realise until some girls brought it to my attention. I thought it was just normal for people to stare at other people.

But the one's I want are put off by my awkwardness and feminine appearance, I think.

What can I do to rectify this magickally? Can Mars energy for example make my face appear more masculine and rugged? I want to retain my beauty but look masculine at the same time.

The most relatable example I can think of is D from the movie Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust, or Reinhard from LotGH, or Griffith from Berserk 1999.

Greetings, Brother! And welcome to real life instead of feminist cartoon!

"Why am I approached by ... [actually the only people who can approach anyone at all]??"

Because real women never approach anyone. That's why. Under ANY circumstances. This is so deeply atrocious to female energy that real feminine person will never do it. So either you recollect that you are a man, drop any filthy liberal lies you were told in school by kikes, and start at last approaching people yourself. OR you will have this fate all your life. Because in Nature NO real female ever approaches anyone. Only males do. These are Natural Laws that existed before us and will exist after.

 

[NetemPtah]

Greetings, Brother! And welcome to real life instead of feminist cartoon!

"Why am I approached by ... [actually the only people who can approach anyone at all]??"

Because real women never approach anyone. That's why. Under ANY circumstances. This is so deeply atrocious to female energy that real feminine person will never do it. So either you recollect that you are a man, drop any filthy liberal lies you were told in school by kikes, and start at last approaching people yourself. OR you will have this fate all your life. Because in Nature NO real female ever approaches anyone. Only males do. These are Natural Laws that existed before us and will exist after.

Love and seduction are the dance of both polarity; humans do not act for pre-determined laws. Otherwise they would not be human.
The identity is unique, despite naturally predominant tendencies.

 

[Henu the Great]

To strengthen your masculinity and masculine aspects, I recommend that you start making a Mars square.

To strengthen masculinity, daily muscle exercises with an optimal load for your health are also suitable.

Since I started doing fitness, doing various exercises with dumbbells for a variety of muscle groups, my Mars energies have dramatically strengthened, and I have also become more aggressive (to show male aggression) in a healthy and positive way for me. My male sexuality for women at the energy level has increased dramatically.

I believe that the key to success in male sexuality for women in your case is the square of Mars with appropriate affirmations for the attraction of women and physical exercises for muscle groups.

Do not forget the energy of the Sun. These two work very well together for this purpose. Going further, Sagittarius Jupiter can be utilised along with these two planets.