Sexuality #77214 How to deal with issues with sexual intimacy?

[AskSatanOperator]

I have a problem with this and I don't know how to deal with it, so I'd appreciate any advice anyone can give.

For a long time, many years I guess, I was unable to find a sexual partner and I feel like this damaged me in some way, maybe spiritually or perhaps just psychologically I don't really know. Because problem is, now I actual have a sexual partner who I love very much (we're married), but I find it difficult to do sexual things with them. When we try to, I just get scared and I start feeling inadequate and self conscious and then I can't do anything. I never used to be like this when I was younger and I had sexual partners before, but this long time period without being able to find a partner until fairly recently (about 10 years or so) seems to have really affected me in a bad way. I'm afraid it will drive a wedge in-between my and my partner, and I don't want that.

It's not like I don't want to do anything, like I'm not in the mood or something, I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

I'm just embarrassed and ashamed to even ask about stuff like this, but I feel desperate so please will someone help me figure out how I can get past this, for both me and my partners sake. Thank you.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

I have a problem with this and I don't know how to deal with it, so I'd appreciate any advice anyone can give.

For a long time, many years I guess, I was unable to find a sexual partner and I feel like this damaged me in some way, maybe spiritually or perhaps just psychologically I don't really know. Because problem is, now I actual have a sexual partner who I love very much (we're married), but I find it difficult to do sexual things with them. When we try to, I just get scared and I start feeling inadequate and self conscious and then I can't do anything. I never used to be like this when I was younger and I had sexual partners before, but this long time period without being able to find a partner until fairly recently (about 10 years or so) seems to have really affected me in a bad way. I'm afraid it will drive a wedge in-between my and my partner, and I don't want that.

It's not like I don't want to do anything, like I'm not in the mood or something, I am, I'm just scared when I think about it and then I can't do it.

I'm just embarrassed and ashamed to even ask about stuff like this, but I feel desperate so please will someone help me figure out how I can get past this, for both me and my partners sake. Thank you.

Why do you think you have been all these years with problems relating sexually to others? Why don't you explain this? You can become emotional since the fifth chakra is the female counterpart of the second.

 

[NetemPtah]

Purify and empower your sacral chakra. You need to purify your sacral chakra on a daily basis.
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