Relationships #77054 Attachments

[AskSatanOperator]

Is it okay if I avoid building attachments to people? I hate feeling obligated to spend time with them, and prefer to do my own thing independently. But I do like to *occasionally* spend time with people. I would rather come in and out of their lives as I please, but people seem to take offense to this. I prefer my freedom.

But I actually do want a normal proper long term relationship. However I cant seem to consolidate my nature to be appropriate for one.

Another problem is I get bored of people when there is nothing more to learn from them. Or they are mentally unstimulating. But I don't want to be a "player" or have multiple relationships either. I want one person, but they are mostly so boring, and can't fit my needs.

 

[TruthSeeker007]

Have you checked your natal chart regarding planetary placements that could fit your description? You can look especially at venus and aspects regarding romantic relationships and love life, to me it sounds like a venus in Aries, if you lose your interest and get bored quickly. Anyways, you can do workings to improve any planetary influence for it to manifest in more beneficial ways for you and the people around.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Is it okay if I avoid building attachments to people? I hate feeling obligated to spend time with them, and prefer to do my own thing independently. But I do like to *occasionally* spend time with people. I would rather come in and out of their lives as I please, but people seem to take offense to this. I prefer my freedom.

But I actually do want a normal proper long term relationship. However I cant seem to consolidate my nature to be appropriate for one.

Another problem is I get bored of people when there is nothing more to learn from them. Or they are mentally unstimulating. But I don't want to be a "player" or have multiple relationships either. I want one person, but they are mostly so boring, and can't fit my needs.

Try this:

The Aura

 

[Henu the Great]

Is it okay if I avoid building attachments to people? I hate feeling obligated to spend time with them, and prefer to do my own thing independently. But I do like to *occasionally* spend time with people. I would rather come in and out of their lives as I please, but people seem to take offense to this. I prefer my freedom.

You sound like a very air-dominant person, that is fine. Everyone is free to follow their nature.

Another problem is I get bored of people when there is nothing more to learn from them. Or they are mentally unstimulating. But I don't want to be a "player" or have multiple relationships either. I want one person, but they are mostly so boring, and can't fit my needs.

Try looking for people from somewhere where there is a higher likelihood of finding someone who is mentally more on your level.