Relationships #75643 my relationship and jealousy

[AskSatanOperator]

he is very attractive and he likes to experience it, sometimes he flirts with others; same for me, it's like we have an open relationship and I don't have a problem with that. but I can't stand to see his energy in those women. it's bad to see some of his behavior in them and to sense it in others.
I thought I was over jealousy but now I can't tolerate this situation. what can I do about it?

 

[Kaemythra]

if you both do the same thing, then there's no reason to be jealous and as you said "it feels like an open relationship" then it means you're okay to accept it and do the same. Since you don't accept it now, try talking to him and telling him that from now on, it can't happen on his side and it won't happen on yours. If he doesn't accept it, break up and date someone who doesn't do it and let him experience what he wants and you get on with your life.
( now, if you want him to pay attention only to you while you flirt with others, it doesn't seem very fair )

 

[SeguaceDiSatanas]

he is very attractive and he likes to experience it, sometimes he flirts with others; same for me, it's like we have an open relationship and I don't have a problem with that. but I can't stand to see his energy in those women. it's bad to see some of his behavior in them and to sense it in others.
I thought I was over jealousy but now I can't tolerate this situation. what can I do about it?

Talk to this person and explain how all this makes you feel if your relationship allows it. When I imagine a relationship, one of the first things that comes to mind is sincere communication from both partners.

The girl I love broke up with her ex because he treated her as if she didn't know how to do anything (that's not the case, there was an age difference and this person thought she was "immature in his presence").

It didn't work out between them especially because there wasn't much communication and the two didn't discuss the matter properly, and when the girl spoke to that man, he didn't take her words seriously and so the breakup was inevitable.

Talk, take the time to make your needs understood, be as serious as you would expect this relationship to be.