#190 I want to feel naked

[AskSatanOperator]

I want to feel pure love, pure compassion and pure respect. The simplest case, I am feeding a cat on the street and starting to thinking about "Do the Gods and Goddesses love me more now, what do they think of me?" and I feel like this situation makes what I'm doing not worth doing at all because at the end I have a vested interest. My feelings are not pure. What can I do about it?

 

[april]

What can I do about it?

This is perpetuated by a lot of insecurities and self-doubts, you wish to feel validated by others, which is a sign that you have been deeply neglected in your childhood.
You need to work on facing your past carefully.

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On individuals with perceived negative-femininity:

We all have a desire for validation but it is important to heighten your own sense of self-worth, it does not matter what society thinks, what matters is how YOU feel. Focusing on validation from external sources instead of from yourself makes you dependent upon others, this, in turn, makes other people want to distance themselves from the responsibility of being involved with you or take advantage of your vulnerability. "I will change myself to please my love interest" is a very toxic kind of mindset to have because the true you is worthy of love, even if you have never experienced it before! I know, you're just trying your best to finally get what you deserve from life, to feel safe, loved, and cared for... but you are subconsciously transforming yourself into a thorned rose by closing yourself off to others. All of your trauma, like abuse/neglect from your parents or others in your childhood, has had serious consequences on your mental health, you formed a lot of bad habits that you can't get rid of. Your thoughts are very confusing and contradicting, you feel drawn to people but you hate yourself for it because you don't want to hurt them.. you're self aware of your faults but you do not work on them. This repetitive cycle of suffering has to stop. You need to shed your thorns and transform yourself into the rose you were always supposed to be. You can do this, but you'll have to work hard.

Main Takeaways:

1. Focus on self-worth instead of validation from other people.
2. Recognize that your true self is worthy of being genuinely loved.
3. Face your traumas and experiences.
4. Find a person you can trust and be genuine about your feelings and struggles to them. (preferrably a professional)
5. Don't repress your emotions, it is okay to be vulnerable with yourself.
6. Be more open with/to yourself.
7. Find a group of people you can truly be yourself around.
8. Work hard towards self improvement

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

I want to feel pure love, pure compassion and pure respect. The simplest case, I am feeding a cat on the street and starting to thinking about "Do the Gods and Goddesses love me more now, what do they think of me?" and I feel like this situation makes what I'm doing not worth doing at all because at the end I have a vested interest. My feelings are not pure. What can I do about it?

I recommend that you cleanse your chakras every day in the morning and before going to bed.