People reveal and give out secrets and sensitive information, the important information, based not on pressure, questions or TV dramas of betrayals, which indeed can happen and have happened. In our day and age, our own stupidity and lack of control over what we are, know, can be a nail in the coffin, and even when one is perfected, the human nature is designed to be beautiful, and some bad and ugly people might use this against ourselves.
In Joy of Satan, we know about our enemy and how they got the power. Much of this was also due to extensive instinctive predatory behavior, learned behavior aimed at exploiting and digging the humans of the planet. We should know how to defend ourselves about this, especially the people that activate in the world in higher levels and are surrounded by all kinds of people.
To what concerns the enemy, I wish you read all of this and use your big ego on this, make it even bigger. As for us the humans, approach this with an analytical mind, detached and calm, and read it as a lesson on how beautiful things can be used as a vulnerability if we do not get aware and have gut instinct in ourselves. This should serve as a historical view on some reasons why and how some people failed. The Gods are always guiding.
Most outsiders are and some of us:
1. Tend to talk about things we shouldn't.
2. We all want to be heard.
3. We want to spill secrets.
4. We often don't see the value in the information we give.
5. We want to FEEL significant.
6. We want to offer advice.
7. We tend to think poorly when we are excited.
Aspects where people lack and therefore there are higher chances of leaking information:
1. The need for recognition. This can trigger the need to share more than we need to.
2. Self effacement: Modesty and tendency of our human nature can be used against us.
3. Correcting Tendencies: When we hear and see something untrue we have a tendency to want to correct them.
If you are a key person, or an officer wants some secret things to get out of you (hopefully not, but maybe you are a super scientist in cancer research), you have to keep in always mind the natural progression of a conversation, try to keep excitement under control and most importantly try to avoid and delay as much as you can giving out information you are not internally harmonized to give out.
A lot of people give out information due to stimulation or a false sense of urgency, social dynamic and so on. Try to become slower in your approach and think that all that you say, is very valuable by default, it has weight, therefore it matters to give it in the timing you see fit, not one impromptu.
As for telling your significant other about your faith and religion, better NOT to, and if you do, do it after extensive logic, analysis, and never ever in the spur of the moment created by said person. Do not respond to provocation, criticism, or even altruism with the secrets that you hold.