Soul Wings
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Hi everybody.
I've been confused about what martial art I should try to pursue, for various reasons. Just wanted to get some opinions if anyone has any advice. Would be appreciated!
a) lots of martial arts are bullshit and are not true (modern - guns knives etc) self defense despite being advertised as such.
b) being female and small, many martial arts are not so great because they assume you are equal of height or strength as your opponent.
I don't want to come off as rude or self important but there's a few reasons why I've been confused and selective.
I had a friend that was brown belt in Karate, but through watching her and lightly participating I found it was not for me because I did not like the flamboyance, regardless if there was "good" reason for it. If I want flappy pretty arm self discipline thingies that look cool, I'll do tai chi. I dunno I guess this was pretty discouraging.
I have found that a lot of principles of self defense classes these days rub me the wrong way. It's not like I want to go and punch somebody aggressively, but how am I truly going to know what a fight against another human being feels like if I can't even spar properly?
I have looked at BJJ, Taekwondo. I don't feel like BJJ (one of the most suggested martial arts for women's self defense) would be very useful as most of what they seem to teach are grapples/throws, and while that makes sense, I'm not gonna have time to wrap my body around someone and throw them when they'll stab me with a knife if I take a step forward. Not to mention I need momentum for that. Taekwondo seemed to me to be useful in a bare fisted punch fight but not much else, unless you have long legs for kicking. I do not.
One of the only martial art I've seriously considered learning (aside from simply boxing) is Krav Maga. Yes I see your concern. I am aware it is jewish in origin, and taught to Israeli special forces (lol fat lot of good that did) but it is one of the only martial arts I've looked at that has aspects of what I'm looking for. I have been told it's effective by multiple people (either have friends in military or are in security jobs). No bullshit, modern, effective and aggressive if necessary. However I am aware that anything the jewish touch is full of holes and falls apart, and usually stolen, hence why I am asking for advice here from you very knowledgeable folk.
from the wiki:
I've been confused about what martial art I should try to pursue, for various reasons. Just wanted to get some opinions if anyone has any advice. Would be appreciated!
a) lots of martial arts are bullshit and are not true (modern - guns knives etc) self defense despite being advertised as such.
b) being female and small, many martial arts are not so great because they assume you are equal of height or strength as your opponent.
I don't want to come off as rude or self important but there's a few reasons why I've been confused and selective.
I had a friend that was brown belt in Karate, but through watching her and lightly participating I found it was not for me because I did not like the flamboyance, regardless if there was "good" reason for it. If I want flappy pretty arm self discipline thingies that look cool, I'll do tai chi. I dunno I guess this was pretty discouraging.
I have found that a lot of principles of self defense classes these days rub me the wrong way. It's not like I want to go and punch somebody aggressively, but how am I truly going to know what a fight against another human being feels like if I can't even spar properly?
I have looked at BJJ, Taekwondo. I don't feel like BJJ (one of the most suggested martial arts for women's self defense) would be very useful as most of what they seem to teach are grapples/throws, and while that makes sense, I'm not gonna have time to wrap my body around someone and throw them when they'll stab me with a knife if I take a step forward. Not to mention I need momentum for that. Taekwondo seemed to me to be useful in a bare fisted punch fight but not much else, unless you have long legs for kicking. I do not.
One of the only martial art I've seriously considered learning (aside from simply boxing) is Krav Maga. Yes I see your concern. I am aware it is jewish in origin, and taught to Israeli special forces (lol fat lot of good that did) but it is one of the only martial arts I've looked at that has aspects of what I'm looking for. I have been told it's effective by multiple people (either have friends in military or are in security jobs). No bullshit, modern, effective and aggressive if necessary. However I am aware that anything the jewish touch is full of holes and falls apart, and usually stolen, hence why I am asking for advice here from you very knowledgeable folk.
from the wiki:
Anyway thanks for reading and any advice is welcome and appreciated.Ideas in Krav Maga include:
Simultaneous attack and defense
Developing physical aggression (not to be confused with emotional aggression or anger), with the view that physical aggression is the most important component in a fight
Continuing to strike the opponent until they are completely incapacitated.
Attacking pre-emptively or counterattacking as soon as possible
Using any objects at hand that could be used to hit an opponent.
Targeting attacks to the body's most vulnerable points, such as: the eyes, neck or throat, face, solar plexus, groin, ribs, knee, foot, fingers, liver, etc.
Using simple and easily repeatable strikes.
Maintaining awareness of surroundings while dealing with the threat in order to look for escape routes, further attackers, or objects that could be used to strike an opponent.
Developing muscle memory for quick reaction in fight.
Recognizing the importance of and expanding on instinctive response under stress