Family Should I curse my gf's parents?!

[Silver Serpent]

I want to bring peace and harmony to my girlfriend's parents. We have been together for 5 years. Our love is closely bonded, and it became stronger after we were both dedicated. The problem has always been her parents. Am I justified in wanting to curse them?

Interactions with her parents have always been awkward and judgemental. Ive never had any chaotic experiences with them, just cold intimidation and analyzing interrogation. My girlfriend has had many arguments, altercations, and chaotic outbursts with them over the years. My partner's relationship with them was already distant and uncomfortable before she met me.

They are stirring up trouble every week now because my girlfriend and I are moving in together. I'm tired of their rumors and allegations towards me. I'm tired of the constant gaslighting towards her. There seems to be no chnage in their leftist agenda mindset.

I don't want to separate my girlfriend from her parents. I want us to all respect each other. Curse isnt the right word. I want to do a working to change their perspective. Am I justified or am I crossing a boundary?

 

[Voice of Enki [TG]]

You should do a binding to prevent the parents of your girlfriend from interfering in harmful ways with your relationship.

Doing a binding will pacify their negative sentiments and prevent them from stirring trouble, without doing them any harm.
It can even foster a more positive relation between her parents and both of you, as negative sentiments will be restricted and thus positive correspondence becomes far easier.

 

[fuoco blu 666]

I want to bring peace and harmony to my girlfriend's parents. We have been together for 5 years. Our love is closely bonded, and it became stronger after we were both dedicated. The problem has always been her parents. Am I justified in wanting to curse them?

Interactions with her parents have always been awkward and judgemental. Ive never had any chaotic experiences with them, just cold intimidation and analyzing interrogation. My girlfriend has had many arguments, altercations, and chaotic outbursts with them over the years. My partner's relationship with them was already distant and uncomfortable before she met me.

They are stirring up trouble every week now because my girlfriend and I are moving in together. I'm tired of their rumors and allegations towards me. I'm tired of the constant gaslighting towards her. There seems to be no chnage in their leftist agenda mindset.

I don't want to separate my girlfriend from her parents. I want us to all respect each other. Curse isnt the right word. I want to do a working to change their perspective. Am I justified or am I crossing a boundary?

A curse should only be done when there is no other solution. If the dialogue does not work you can use a binding to prevent any negative action towards you and also against your girlfriend.

You should talk to your girlfriend about this first, since you said that you are both dedicated, you can act together as a couple.

A specific protection aura can help a lot.

As far as possible a work with the runes Ehwaz and Wunjo can be useful for peace, you can ideally start with the Moon in Libra, the sign of peace.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

I want to bring peace and harmony to my girlfriend's parents.

That's honorable and a good intention.
Unfortunately stubborn family member may be a true pain in the ass, not because they have a true power, but because of their grasp on your girlfriend's unconscious mind, so they tap straight into her deep mind to keep her involved in never-ending loops of fight and surrender.

I can just add to all the good replies given here, based on experience, there's most often an emotional link between parents and son/daughter that lasts into maturity if not taken care of. This is what pushes parents to act like their daughter is still their "little children" instead of a grown adult who is going to live her life.
This mindset is the most common cause of problems like you describe.
So, even if you cannot convert leftist possessive parents to a healthy mindset, unfortunately, you could take action to prevent they see their daughter as "their own kid". That should be a normal part of human evolution after the teen age.
With magick, I never attempted this, but probably is Moon or Water magick the best to change their unconscious view on her. You probably know better than me how to do this.

On the more practical side, it would be good finding a way to let them project this idea on someone else, while you act magickally, or simply move to your new home.
Like, they have some young girl between their nephews, or friends or relatives, of which they can temporary take care of, or have an interest in. The unconscious may be easily deceived and if they see their "kid" projected into someone else, they will be less possessive with your girlfriend. I did that (or, better said, my GD did that for me with kindness) with my abusive father, who for a while got obsessed with a cousin of mine, who often came to his home, so he could project his idea of "me" onto "him" for a while and I have been able to establish a firmer existence for me, while his mind was busy. This also happened while Neptune was transiting his Sun, so his will was weaker. Planets may help to perform magick, or this kind of operations, by lowering the target defense.

At the end, if you manage to cause this to happen in their mind, it will be mutual benefit for parents and daughter, because their relationship transforms from child/caregivers to woman/parents.
Not easy to do, anyway, in my opinion.

 

[Disciple of the Serpent]

I want to bring peace and harmony to my girlfriend's parents. We have been together for 5 years. Our love is closely bonded, and it became stronger after we were both dedicated. The problem has always been her parents. Am I justified in wanting to curse them?

Interactions with her parents have always been awkward and judgemental. Ive never had any chaotic experiences with them, just cold intimidation and analyzing interrogation. My girlfriend has had many arguments, altercations, and chaotic outbursts with them over the years. My partner's relationship with them was already distant and uncomfortable before she met me.

They are stirring up trouble every week now because my girlfriend and I are moving in together. I'm tired of their rumors and allegations towards me. I'm tired of the constant gaslighting towards her. There seems to be no chnage in their leftist agenda mindset.

I don't want to separate my girlfriend from her parents. I want us to all respect each other. Curse isnt the right word. I want to do a working to change their perspective. Am I justified or am I crossing a boundary?

You are adults, these parents are irrelevant in your lives.

They should know their place.

I'm not suggesting to do crazy things, a man talk that goes to the point should do the work.

 

[Silver Serpent]

You are adults, these parents are irrelevant in your lives.

They should know their place.

I'm not suggesting to do crazy things, a man talk that goes to the point should do the work.

They are not interested in talking at all. I tried to start a meeting with all of us present after they claimed I was abusive. They declined and wanted separate meetings with me and my girlfriend. The result of our stalemate was family therapy for them.

All they do is belittle my girlfriend and create lies about me. The therapist gets a check every week and does nothing.

 

[Silver Serpent]

That's honorable and a good intention.
Unfortunately stubborn family member may be a true pain in the ass, not because they have a true power, but because of their grasp on your girlfriend's unconscious mind, so they tap straight into her deep mind to keep her involved in never-ending loops of fight and surrender.

I can just add to all the good replies given here, based on experience, there's most often an emotional link between parents and son/daughter that lasts into maturity if not taken care of. This is what pushes parents to act like their daughter is still their "little children" instead of a grown adult who is going to live her life.
This mindset is the most common cause of problems like you describe.
So, even if you cannot convert leftist possessive parents to a healthy mindset, unfortunately, you could take action to prevent they see their daughter as "their own kid". That should be a normal part of human evolution after the teen age.
With magick, I never attempted this, but probably is Moon or Water magick the best to change their unconscious view on her. You probably know better than me how to do this.

On the more practical side, it would be good finding a way to let them project this idea on someone else, while you act magickally, or simply move to your new home.
Like, they have some young girl between their nephews, or friends or relatives, of which they can temporary take care of, or have an interest in. The unconscious may be easily deceived and if they see their "kid" projected into someone else, they will be less possessive with your girlfriend. I did that (or, better said, my GD did that for me with kindness) with my abusive father, who for a while got obsessed with a cousin of mine, who often came to his home, so he could project his idea of "me" onto "him" for a while and I have been able to establish a firmer existence for me, while his mind was busy. This also happened while Neptune was transiting his Sun, so his will was weaker. Planets may help to perform magick, or this kind of operations, by lowering the target defense.

At the end, if you manage to cause this to happen in their mind, it will be mutual benefit for parents and daughter, because their relationship transforms from child/caregivers to woman/parents.
Not easy to do, anyway, in my opinion.

I 100% agree with your assessment. They definitely have a link that needs to be cut. I wouldn't make them the parents of my greatest enemy. They are mentally and emotionally abusive. In extreme cases, the mother will become slightly physically abusive. Things like locking my gf in cars, restraining her physically, or holding her hostage.

They do have a dog that I could send their attention to. This poor dog is timid, anxious and on alert 24/7. I have taken care of this dog and made great headway just for all of it to he gone in seconds.

My point being is they are very toxic and anxious people themselves. I dont know if its right for me to send their toxicity to someone else

 

[Silver Serpent]

A curse should only be done when there is no other solution. If the dialogue does not work you can use a binding to prevent any negative action towards you and also against your girlfriend.

You should talk to your girlfriend about this first, since you said that you are both dedicated, you can act together as a couple.

A specific protection aura can help a lot.

As far as possible a work with the runes Ehwaz and Wunjo can be useful for peace, you can ideally start with the Moon in Libra, the sign of peace.

We have talked about this before. She doesnt want to send them any energy of any kind. Her perspective is that they don't deserve to be happy so easily. She also isn't very advanced when it comes to magic or workings.

To her, its her battle, which is true. I've always let her handle her parents. Turning a blind eye to their accusations and toxicity in the name of peace. I don't want to wait anymore. They aren't going to change.

I am able to manifest energy easily and direct it. I'm probably going to be doing this solo

 

[Silver Serpent]

You should do a binding to prevent the parents of your girlfriend from interfering in harmful ways with your relationship.

Doing a binding will pacify their negative sentiments and prevent them from stirring trouble, without doing them any harm.
It can even foster a more positive relation between her parents and both of you, as negative sentiments will be restricted and thus positive correspondence becomes far easier.

This makes great sense!

 

[Voice of Enki [TG]]

This makes great sense!

This Saturday is a great day to start a binding on them, don't delay it.
You will see the difference very quickly when the binding settles in.

Since you mentioned your girlfriend is also a Zevist, you can do the binding together for multiplied power.

Remember, the binding is to reign in any harmful behaviours from them towards you two. When they are bound, they cannot act out against you two and will be very supportive and amiable. It is actually a positive thing. They can probably stop going to therapy soon too, because all the stress caused by their own uncontrolled malefic sentiments will disappear as well.

 

[Disciple of the Serpent]

They are not interested in talking at all. I tried to start a meeting with all of us present after they claimed I was abusive. They declined and wanted separate meetings with me and my girlfriend. The result of our stalemate was family therapy for them.

All they do is belittle my girlfriend and create lies about me. The therapist gets a check every week and does nothing.

What is even that? If I were in you, I would just take my girl, and say to them to shut the fuck up.

It's not a matter of them or of arguing or have meetings or whatever.

They will melt eitherway as the snowflakes they are.

They don't decline, otherwise you just left with your girl without saying nothing and that's it, you will meet them no more.
End of discussion.

Eitherway it's a 2 seconds talk: "that's my girl, she is with me, her life is with me, and you aren't allowed to interfere". End.

Of course this is what I would do, I don't know your situation, so it's up to you to find the better way.

Arguing with snowflakes strangers about your own life, also about your love, is kinda messed up in my oppinion.

 

[Silver Serpent]

What is even that? If I were in you, I would just take my girl, and say to them to shut the fuck up.

It's not a matter of them or of arguing or have meetings or whatever.

They will melt eitherway as the snowflakes they are.

They don't decline, otherwise you just left with your girl without saying nothing and that's it, you will meet them no more.
End of discussion.

Eitherway it's a 2 seconds talk: "that's my girl, she is with me, her life is with me, and you aren't allowed to interfere". End.

Of course this is what I would do, I don't know your situation, so it's up to you to find the better way.

Arguing with snowflakes strangers about your own life, also about your love, is kinda messed up in my oppinion.

The reason I don't take that approach is because her parents are the only family she has within 6,000 miles. She wants them in her life but she also resents them. I agree that its gone on for too long and that its our lives not theirs.

Trust me when I say I've been so close to insulting them, pressing petty charges for things just to piss them off, and as you know even cursing them.

Family is important and I want to live in a family that doesnt treat me like an intruder. It won't end with aggression. To them, that just proves them right. They don't see their error of their ways. I honestly believe that, they think what they're doing is the correct thing to do. They have time, energy, and money to be a pain in my ass. They will be if I give them more of a reason to.

 

[Silver Serpent]

Than

This Saturday is a great day to start a binding on them, don't delay it.
You will see the difference very quickly when the binding settles in.

Since you mentioned your girlfriend is also a Zevist, you can do the binding together for multiplied power.

Remember, the binding is to reign in any harmful behaviours from them towards you two. When they are bound, they cannot act out against you two and will be very supportive and amiable. It is actually a positive thing. They can probably stop going to therapy soon too, because all the stress caused by their own uncontrolled malefic sentiments will disappear as well.

Thank you so much for you advise!

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

I 100% agree with your assessment. They definitely have a link that needs to be cut. I wouldn't make them the parents of my greatest enemy. They are mentally and emotionally abusive. In extreme cases, the mother will become slightly physically abusive. Things like locking my gf in cars, restraining her physically, or holding her hostage.

I understand what you mean. What you describe is indeed abuse. She does not want to let her kid go away.
You know, I have fought with a similar family in the past, for a person who was close to me at the time, so I am sort of empathic about how you may feel. I understand. It made me upset many times.
In the very first stages, this person was not even aware of how abusive her family was, because of family influence on her emotions. The mind was like trapped and I needed to talk infinite words to this person, to slowly awaken the mind to see past their influence.

With time, and my efforts, things became clearer and this person was able to break free. I have received gratitude after many years of efforts, and also this person gave back much to me. Yes, unfortunately it has been a long process, due to many emotional ties and resistance, sort of exhausting fight, I don't know your case but it may be a long walk.

But well worth the time spent in that, as now a Soul is much more free than before. I also believe family karma got better, for next lives.
I believe your girlfriend will be grateful to you for that.
At the end, it may be a very rewarding and positive experience, helping to break free.
Good luck in your fight!