You're a fucking idiot if you think I'm not gonna insult you when you say some STUPID shit like this!
The above is a joke. Don't take it seriously.
Jokes aside, you shouldn't expect everyone to conform to your idea of "kindness". Kindness is a very broad thing. For instance, putting down an animal who is suffering is a form of kindness. It sounds kind of silly to say that giving death to another living being can be kindness but the reality is so. Kindness is not some binary thing as you're viewing it.
In the same way that love and hatred can be used for good and bad, they can be used to build yourself up or tear yourself down. The way that people use their kindness can be used for good and bad. Good kindness is one which aims to help not only yourself but others. Bad kindness is selflessness. Where your desire to help others doesn't take yourself into consideration.
Ask yourself, do these insults aim to help not only themselves but also others? Perhaps, by saying
"you're a fucking idiot, this bullshit out of your mouth is literally not true you complete fucking moron."
It may seem like something which doesn't have any kindness at all. It may seem like something bad. However, does the poster aim to help others and themselves with this post? Well, for one, yelling or screaming at someone their an idiot, or in this case, typing it out and expressing yourself is very good for your stress levels, and your overall sense of well being. Releasing stress and built up anger is very important.
So it get's the check mark for helping themselves, but what about others?
It informs any other party reading the message that said person is wrong.
So it also get's the check for helping others. Therefore, it is good kindness.
It would actually be BAD kindness to help others while also neglecting yourself. Sure, once or twice, holding in that built up anger won't hurt you, but 100 times, 1000 times, 10000 times? That will build up until it causes problems. Energy builds after all.
You can make the argument that "they could have provided constructive feedback or critism, or said what they were wrong about, or this and that" however, what we are talking about is not how shitty their communication skills are, but rather, if they are expressing kindness through their insults, and in my humble opinion, they certainly are expressing kindness with their insult.
It's very important to ask questions, however, I hope you can realize how you were being a fucking idiot from my post here. They certainly are expressing kindness. Don't be a fucking mook. Make sure you ask questions when you can, but also don't be a little pissy pants prissy bitch and not expected to get insulted when you act retarded okay! This isn't fucking toys for tots where you can go and pick out a new pacifer okay little child? People are people and will insult whoever the fuck they want. Don't be a dipshit. Also, don't cry because I'm insulting you, see how I'm encouraging you to ask questions but also be prepared to be insulted? Me insulting you isn't with the intention to make you not ask questions so don't be a fucking dumbass and think it is. You're not retarded right? Shit, have to send your ass to the fucking no-breeding zone if you are an actual retarded. But let's assume you're not. Prepare to be insulted dipshit. This isn't fucking pre-kay. dumbass I fucking swear. smh.
