Question #980: Advice for stressful times and failing marriage

[AskSatanOperator]

Greetings, long story short I'm married for 6 years, and due to many things including caring for ou young child, work,neglect from both parts, some health issues afflicting my wife + caring for her father that is dying from alzheimers, all those factors strained our relationship, I still have strong feelings for my wife, and my nº1 priority is to have a strong structured family environment for my son to grow happy and prosperous, I just feel my marriage is failing and our son is perhaps the only thing holding our marriage together, does satan and the gods have any advice to help me through this predicament? Thank you and Hail Satan and all the gods.

 

[MiniMe3388]

Don't lose hope. There are better and worse times in marriage. If there is something that you may not like then you need to talk to your wife about it. Remind yourself why you loved her and try to make your marriage have as many good moments as possible. Take your wife to different interesting places, speak kind words to her, compliment her, tell her how much you love her and remember to have a rich sex life with her.

Every obstacle can be overcome. Remember not to fall into a routine, as it can kill the relationship.

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

Greetings, long story short I'm married for 6 years, and due to many things including caring for ou young child, work,neglect from both parts, some health issues afflicting my wife + caring for her father that is dying from alzheimers, all those factors strained our relationship, I still have strong feelings for my wife, and my nº1 priority is to have a strong structured family environment for my son to grow happy and prosperous, I just feel my marriage is failing and our son is perhaps the only thing holding our marriage together, does satan and the gods have any advice to help me through this predicament? Thank you and Hail Satan and all the gods.

You have to be open with your wife about your desires here. Remind her that she is loved, even if done through quick means, like a text or passing kiss. Focus on the relationship itself.

If you are competent with energy, you can easily incite feelings of love/lust. Unlike a full working for new partners, creating heightened feelings within a temporary period is easy. Raise green or red energy, program it, then direct it onto her.

It might sound "shallow", but having sex or other displays of passion is a very easy way to create positive feelings. Even if you masturbate alone, direct the orgasm energy towards her. All of this can be done in a small period of time, yet with great effect.

Similarly, it might seem corny, but just send her a "I love you" text. You display these feelings to us through this text, so why cannot this be done with her? You can even copy and paste what you have written her and just forward it to her, showing that you still want to make the marriage work.

"I know things have been tough recently, but I want you to remember that I love you a lot. We will do something together soon."

 

[Shadowcat]

Communication is key. Also, do not let yourselves go physically, and if you have already, try to find the time and energy to get back on track. If there is no attraction physically you might as well be housemates and you don't want that. Definitely find the time to do something together when you can and remember the little things. Gratitude is also a big thing and remember to say thank you. It's very important for you both to take constructive criticism to heart and also know how to give it. Don't approach the other as if a transgression is made on purpose. Be open to one another's concerns and if they say this or that is wrong ask them why even if you think it's ridiculous. Patience is huge here. Make sure you are both fairly sharing the load of the child-rearing and housework especially if you both are working. Also, try to re-create certain things or scenarios that are connected around the time you two fell in love. Sex magick together is also something to use together with an affirmation. And last but not least stay away from porn.