Question #580: Toxic women

[AskSatanOperator]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

It's not that I choose this. But I get to know someone and we have chemistry between the both of us. We treat each other well. Then after the beginnings they go cold, abusive, toxic, emd up betraying me etc.

It's a common pattern with me. I am starting to think maybe I am the problem? I am attracted to strong women and femdom sexually. But I certainly don't want evil people that betray and hurt me either.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

 

[Ursa Minor]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

It's not that I choose this. But I get to know someone and we have chemistry between the both of us. We treat each other well. Then after the beginnings they go cold, abusive, toxic, emd up betraying me etc.

It's a common pattern with me. I am starting to think maybe I am the problem? I am attracted to strong women and femdom sexually. But I certainly don't want evil people that betray and hurt me either.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

Taking a look at your own natal chart may be a good start.
https://www.jos-astro.com/#/natal-chart

 

[Draconi666]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

It's not that I choose this. But I get to know someone and we have chemistry between the both of us. We treat each other well. Then after the beginnings they go cold, abusive, toxic, emd up betraying me etc.

It's a common pattern with me. I am starting to think maybe I am the problem? I am attracted to strong women and femdom sexually. But I certainly don't want evil people that betray and hurt me either.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

This may be in your astrology chart, if it is there you can do working to attract right partner who would not abuse you.

 

[Seker]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

If you find these women attractive, chances are that you grew up with a mother who had the same character: dominant, selfish, emotionally abusive e.t.c. Men who keep getting into abusive relationships with women have had an abusive mother in most cases.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

This pattern is past karma and can be removed with any method that helps you get rid of past karma, like the MUNKA mantra.

 

[BlackOnyx8 [JG]]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

It's not that I choose this. But I get to know someone and we have chemistry between the both of us. We treat each other well. Then after the beginnings they go cold, abusive, toxic, emd up betraying me etc.

It's a common pattern with me. I am starting to think maybe I am the problem? I am attracted to strong women and femdom sexually. But I certainly don't want evil people that betray and hurt me either.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

Look at your birth chart, chances are you have something in the 7th house that makes it happen this way. You have some work to do, in order sublimate these energies so that you can attract a suitable partner.

Do not be discouraged. There's nothing wrong with you.

It is also a good idea to always check the astrological synastry between both of you, before you engage in a serious relationship. Not only this saves from a potencial toxic partner but it also ensures that they are as compatible as possible.

As I wrote before, one's present love life can be wrecked and/or even non-existent because of commitments made in one's past life or even lives. This is one of the worst and most powerful, as it often involves sexual orgasm, and love is one of the most potent of human emotions. Many fall deeply in love with another person and vow to 'be together with the other person forever.' Often these vows, whether verbal or unspoken manifest during love making and sexual orgasm, which gives them extra power. The result is because one is not at full power and many other things of life and destiny, fate intervenes and the loved one may not reincarnate into the same future life/lives, but the vow still remains. In order to have any decent love life in this present life, the vow/energy on the soul must be successfully removed.

Ok, so here is the meditation:
Begin at the waning part of a full moon [from the full to the new phase], a full Satanic rosary should be said, vibrating the word 'MUNKA' 108 times. YOU MUST DO THIS FOR FORTY DAYS STRAIGHT WITHOUT ANY INTERRUPTIONS IN THE DAYS! This is pronounced 'MMUUUUUU-NNNN-YAH-KAH.' I can't put in the Sanskrit lettering here as the yahoo does not support this font. The 'N' is like the Spanish Enyay. The above example for the pronunciation is 100% correct and works wonders.

For using Runes:

URUZ, AUROCHS
Anglo-Saxon: UR
Germanic: Uraz (Uruz)
Gothic: Urus
Norse: Ur
Anglo-Saxon: Ur
Icelandic: Ur
Norwegian: Ur

OR

ANSUZ (God) [Always remember the code-word and true meaning for 'God' is one's self]
Germanic: Aza (Ansuz)
Gothic: Ansus
Norse: Óss, Áss
Anglo-Saxon: Aesc, (Os, Ac)
Icelandic: Óss, Áss
Norwegian: As

See The Runic Kabalah 666

When you are finished with the vibration, you need to do your affirmation for 9 times. 9 is the number of endings for workings like this.

Another one, for a hampered love life:
"I am totally and completely free and absolved from any and all former vows and ties regarding my love life and extending into past lives." "I am now totally free to have a happy and fulfilling love relationship with whomever I consciously desire in my present life right now."

Using Words of Power - Freeing the Soul

 

[Draconi666]

Why do I subconciously find women who are dominant, cold, selfish, and emotionally abusive attractive?

It's not that I choose this. But I get to know someone and we have chemistry between the both of us. We treat each other well. Then after the beginnings they go cold, abusive, toxic, emd up betraying me etc.

It's a common pattern with me. I am starting to think maybe I am the problem? I am attracted to strong women and femdom sexually. But I certainly don't want evil people that betray and hurt me either.

So what can this be about? How to go about solving it as it has become a tiresome and painful pattern. To the point I doubt my abilities to properly fall in love with a suitable partner for my tastes and have them be kind hearted too.

This may be in your astrology chart, if it is there you can do working to attract right partner who would not abuse you.

By the way this Idea I know from dear lady Shadowcat, this was for other type of situation but I think it may be suitable for your case. She was recently doing astrology readings for brothers and sisters, if you decide to get one for yourself, you can try to contact her, but now she don’t have time. So unless in the future.

 

[LiliumS]

I speak to you from personal experience, the only thing you can do is to work on yourself and become stronger, improving your will and self-esteem (there are many work with runes described on the forum that can help you, serch it with the lens).
These people you describe are looking for specific victims. At first they seem normal, caring and loving, then they become selfish, cold and abusive. The perfect victims of these people are:

• People who tend to devalue themselves.
• People who continually need validation from others.
• Servant people who are willing to override their own needs for those of others.
• Lonely people.
• People who were unloved in childhood.
• People who seek a known pattern (one of the parents was abusive).

Do you see yourself in anything?

It's a good thing that you are able to break these relationships in time, but there are some individuals who have stronger than normal manipulative abilities, and it could become dangerous to approach these types all the time.