Question #5296: This sounds crazy but I really want to get rid of my family

[AskSatanOperator]

Hi everyone, I'd like your honest opinion.
I met someone and he wants me to go live with him in another state (very far from where I live), I would love to go, but I took the tarot and it is possible that this person could end up cheating on me in the middle of this journey, I would like to leave my state and distance myself from my family and it is my only option. I could get a house and a job and not be dependent on this person and so I could separate from him and go live my life, but he would be the bridge to my new life that I want so much. The state where he lives is much more advanced than mine, I'd have much better chances there than here, I just can't find a simple job where I live.
should i go?
I'm 19 and he is 28/29

 

[Henu the Great]

It is a risky proposition when you do not know each other properly. Knowing the other person over many years is another matter. Your age difference is on the high end as well, be careful about the motives of this other person.

There can be other options as well when you prepare and look well enough, especially considering that you have magick at your disposal.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

The exact story you are describing has happened hundreds of times to hundreds of young women. Many of these women have been murdered, raped, or trapped into abusive relationships where they are unable to escape. The direct goal of trying to remove and seperate you from your family, or seperate you away from anybody in your life who could help you, is often a purposeful and predatory act to draw young women into a dangerous trap. It is very rare for somebody who is not abusive, evil, or having very bad intentions, to try to isolate a woman from her family in that way. And for evil, abusive, dangerous men, this action is almost always the first thing they try to accomplish.

This much of an age difference is also supporting what I am talking about. As younger women often do not have the life experience yet to develop the instincts, intuition, or ability to recognise that something very wrong and dangerous is happening. Younger women are often very much easier to trick and lie to in that kind of a way.

I want you to very carefully consider everything I am saying. And don't just try to make that big of a decision on your own, but explain this whole situation to several other people who you trust and get the opinions and perspective from several different people, including both friends and family members.

I don't want you to be raped, enslaved, or murdered. Unfortunately hundreds of women have had these things happen to them. And many of them, it started with exactly the same mistake that you are about to make.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

You think a rapist, murderer, or other kind of dangerous person is not capable of seeming like a nice person? Or is not capable of gaining your trust? Or is not capable of seeming like he really loves you?

These dangerous people are very good at what they do. And manipulating people's thoughts and emotions is what they are best at, because this is necessary for them to get a victim. Ted Bundy raped and murdered like 50 different women, and every one of them was tricked into trusting him because they thought he seemed like a good and charming man.

 

[HPS Lydia]

As Ol Argedco said. Too many young women get tricked into this. You might think you will be able to go your own way after, but the reality is, this can be very difficult. If you don't have the money now to get your own place, you might never. Because he might spend his money on whatever (drugs, other women, etc), leaving you to fork out your savings to pay for his rent, as just one very possible scenario.

Think very carefully about this.

 

[Aquarius]

This is a literal copy and paste scenario where it will just end up very very badly for you. Stay with your family, find a job, save up, move.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

You would want to get rid of your family, until you don’t.

It’s easy to resent your family when you’re younger, until you move out and get into a shitty situation and only your family would be by your side without asking for something in return, not your fake friends, or that guy.

We get to know the value of family the more we age, and mature.

 

[Nova666]

Please do not. stay at home, especially if the environment is acceptable. I was 16 years old when a woman called my mother put me on the street because I had my own opinion. I spent a night out on the street. Why? no one from the family took me in, not even for a night. neither my grandmother nor my cousins. this story started in winter. seriously, I was so lucky that nothing happened to me, a miracle, the police took me in at dawn, gave me tea and a blanket. a woman arranged for me to be admitted to the dormitory and to finish school. probably satan and the gods were with me watching over me. I had no choice. but you have it! stay at home as long as possible, take on student work to gain experience. Let your parents take care of you a little more...

 

[HPS Lydia]

Please do not. stay at home, especially if the environment is acceptable. I was 16 years old when a woman called my mother put me on the street because I had my own opinion. I spent a night out on the street. Why? no one from the family took me in, not even for a night. neither my grandmother nor my cousins. this story started in winter. seriously, I was so lucky that nothing happened to me, a miracle, the police took me in at dawn, gave me tea and a blanket. a woman arranged for me to be admitted to the dormitory and to finish school. probably satan and the gods were with me watching over me. I had no choice. but you have it! stay at home as long as possible, take on student work to gain experience. Let your parents take care of you a little more...

That was definitely our Gods watching over you. I'm glad you were alright, although it's sad this happened to you.

 

[Nova666]

That was definitely our Gods watching over you. I'm glad you were alright, although it's sad this happened to you.

Dear High Priestess Lydia! Life isn't perfect, it was a long time ago. Looking back, I was free and that meant a lot to me. it's true that I had to work, but I enjoyed it when I was young. the world was a little different back then (2008). I've always been given such difficult terrain, but I only notice it when I'm over it.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Hi everyone, I'd like your honest opinion.
I met someone and he wants me to go live with him in another state (very far from where I live), I would love to go, but I took the tarot and it is possible that this person could end up cheating on me in the middle of this journey, I would like to leave my state and distance myself from my family and it is my only option. I could get a house and a job and not be dependent on this person and so I could separate from him and go live my life, but he would be the bridge to my new life that I want so much. The state where he lives is much more advanced than mine, I'd have much better chances there than here, I just can't find a simple job where I live.
should i go?
I'm 19 and he is 28/29

When you say "I met a person" do you mean recently or have you a long story with this person?
Going to live with a person you barely not know may be dangerous, also you are much younger.
If you want to live your family and stay far from them, you may have some serious reasons. As you said "this is my only option" I assume you are in a difficult situation.
If you do not have serious reasons, it may be you only want to escape family restrictions, and rebel to their authority, that is normal at your age.n In can do this in a safer way even if you do not relocate.
If you have serious reasons, like having been mistreated, abused or emotionally subdued from your family, this means you have some sort of weakness, and you are possibly emotionally vulnerable. So the chances to fall into a damaging relationship where you are emotionally abused again, would be high. You only know your reasons and status, and your GD too.

If you have serious reasons to leave, and you are not able to sustain yourself financially and emotionally, you may consider leaving to stay with a partner under his protection for a while. BUT in this case I would ask the help and guidance of the Gods to find the right person, caring and positive for you. Only then I would consider this option. Leaving to a random partner you barely not know without a Demon to guide you, may bring to problems.

Also, I would consider working for hotels, ships, and similar jobs that would offer a roof and a bed together with your job. This, only in case you seriously need to relocate because your family is highly negative to you.