Question #3118: 30-year-old virgin, I've never had a girlfriend

[AskSatanOperator]

Problem:
The man is a 30-year-old virgin who has never had a girlfriend, traditional sexual orientation, strong shyness, self-doubt, complexes, ordinary average appearance (not handsome and not ugly), no friends. Fear of relationships, fear of betrayal, fear of showing others that you like a particular girl. I take everything too close to my heart. It's easy to offend me. Sometimes I get very upset and cry. Sometimes when I see very beautiful young girls 20-24 years old (when I pass by), I have a strong feeling of shame and I blush a lot. When I want to get to know a beautiful girl, I feel guilty that I'm a girl will cause severe inconvenience or scare her (thereby causing harm). If I really liked a girl, I'm very nervous, the girl's friends (woman) people notice this and laugh at me (for example, it happened to me recently at a bus stop). Because of my problem, I don't see the point in money, career, if women don't love me and if I can't get joy, positive emotions and tenderness from them, sometimes I just want to die, when I think about death, I cry.

Positive qualities:
When I go to work, I constantly deal with people, I have no problems communicating with girls on any everyday topics (except the topic of relationships), sometimes I have successful jokes that girls like, but I don't like to joke.
At work, I manage people (a mixed team, both men and women), I can harshly scold a subordinate, and it doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, I can also praise, I want to say that I have no problems with communication on any work issues. I am growing in my career, I get a salary increase, both female managers and male managers speak positively about me at work. There are no problems with money and finances (middle class).
I treat children and animals well (for example, today I gave up a seat on public transport to a child who really wanted to sit down when there were no seats).

What I want: Like all normal people, I want to have full-fledged sexual, love and romantic relationships with girls that I like. I want children to be born from me. I want to be loved and not considered weak.

Questions:
How can I solve my problem in this life?
What do I need to do so that I don't have such a problem again in the next lives?

 

[Egon]

Did you check the JoS calendar? https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?p=408275#p408275
This last Friday was a great day to start a Venus Square, so is the next one on 17/Nov, to make yourself more attractive/attract an ideal partner.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

Did you check the JoS calendar? https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?p=408275#p408275
This last Friday was a great day to start a Venus Square, so is the next one on 17/Nov, to make yourself more attractive/attract an ideal partner.

Answer to Egon: NO.
1. How will the square of Venus help solve my problem?
2. I saw a drawing with numbers and didn't understand anything.
How to use this square?
3.How can I solve the problem without the square of Venus?

 

[AskSatanOperator]

Addition to the question. (This is not an answer to Egon, but an addition with a new post).

For some reason I have a strong feeling that I am not writing anonymously. I will assume that I am wrong, since I want to remain anonymous. I am ashamed to ask the questions that I have voiced here in front of all the SS.

The square of Venus did not help many people solve problems with their personal lives, I draw conclusions from the comments of other SS, who were told that the solution to the problem is in the square of Venus (I may be wrong).

Are there spells, affirmations when working with energies that will seriously change my aura and make women fall in love with me?

If I understood correctly, the main problem is in the aura, which emits radiation (vibrations) and attracts women.
If I program my aura every day, will I change my aura and be able to get the result I need in a relationship, or not?

I noticed that there are men who do not have some kind of beauty, sense of humor, other qualities, but at the same time all women (when they just see these men) for some reason approach these men themselves, get to know them, hug them. When I asked such women, they told me that they felt something in such a man, although after talking with this man, he told me: "Dude, I have just a lot of pheromones from birth and all women stick to me. The fact that I am really mentally retarded does not prevent me from fucking and building relationships with women." This man was a real invalid (which is not visible to the naked eye), he was overweight, but at the same time, when he approached women, their attitude towards him changed dramatically, they looked at him like no woman had ever looked at me.

I am a healthy person, I maintain my physical shape and I do not have the health problems that this person had. I don't think this person can have any special innate pheromones, for sure it's all about the aura. Or am I wrong?

Is it effective to breathe red energy into your aura and program it to make women fall in love with me?

What are the most effective affirmations for me if I want to be successful in attracting any women and have success in sexual relations with any women I like?

What color of energy is effective if I want women to love me with all their soul? What are the most effective affirmations for these purposes?

 

[AFODO]

No you should deffinitely not do the Venus square with your level of advancement.

Look, you could do a Runical working but you should go step by step. First you need to practice beginner meditation, and than you could do a spell.

First do the 40 day meditation program by HPHC, that you can find at the top of the library https://satanslibrary.org/index.html

Than you can choose a rune, and start a working with it that aims a desired relationship.

 

[Egon]

Answer to Egon: NO.
1. How will the square of Venus help solve my problem?
2. I saw a drawing with numbers and didn't understand anything.
How to use this square?
3.How can I solve the problem without the square of Venus?

1. It's magic and magical working to fix these parts of your natal chart.

2.
Magical Squares page: https://satanisgod.org/www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Satans_Squares.html

Some Questions About Planetary Squares Answered: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=24&t=66793

About Magical Workings and Affirmations: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=81236

This thread is about the Sun Square but you can see the logic here on how to work with a Square: https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=76205

3. Doing other forms of magic workings to attract a partner, with the Runes like Gebo and Wunjo. A Spiritual Square however can fix the problem at the core, a material one can act as a simple and efficient.
https://satanisgod.org/www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Runic_Kabalah.html

 

[Henu the Great]

The issue you are describing is multi-faceted and as such requires a multi-faceted approach. You would need to work on chakras one to four mainly via energy and breath work. But more specifically on your second, third, and fourth chakras.

For affectionate love (and friendships in general) green color and the planet of Venus is very helpful. Since there are overlaps in these matters, Mercury is helpful as well.

Red color is useful in inciting passions and lust, but not affectionate love relationships.

As for affirmations, have a read from the topic below.

Specificity with Workings and Affirmations - https://www.ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=81236

 

[Olympios666]

Many of these stumbling blocks also come from Judeo-Christian programming. Study Jos's website and Exposing Christianity while working on a daily meditation program that includes both aura cleansing and yoga and breathing exercises to balance the soul. Results come with time and not overnight it takes consistency and patience

 

[SaqqaraNox]

You seem to have some kind of emotional blockage caused by dross in your Soul. In addition to the advice already given above, I recommend you do some magical soul-freeing magical work.

Ansuz or the Mantra Surya
Day: coming Tuesday, next 28 (Waning Monn in Aquarius).

Do 36 repetitions, an affirmation that is rearranged on you. Do it for at least 40, if you can 90 (it seems like a lot, because it's the equivalent of a season, but it goes by faster than you think). Every time you finish a section, clean up your aura.

If you notice results in the process, don't stop the magical work. Continue until you have finished the 40- or 90-day cycle.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Problem:
The man is a 30-year-old virgin who has never had a girlfriend, traditional sexual orientation, strong shyness, self-doubt, complexes, ordinary average appearance (not handsome and not ugly), no friends.

I will not talk about chakra cleaning, meditations, Venus squares, etc. as those points have been already addressed. I will try to talk about the mental part of this issues, let's say "psychology", as it still plays a role in our lives, even if Meditation is paramount here.
Everything you say indicates a lack of self esteem, that is linked to Mars/Sun male energies in the lower chakras. The chakras can be affected by meditations, mantras, yoga, but also from physical actions involving emotions.
All you say is also indicative of an emotional blockage, that ost often have its roots in childhood. Many people are repressed, abused, devalued in their childhood and then build their life on this assumption. This is called emotional (when not also physical) abuse.
This image you have of yourself may be the image SOMEONE designed of you when you were very young, so you THINK you are a no-value person as you describe a flat attitude to life.
To heal this, requires a sometimes long walk in your past to recall "wrong" teachings about yourself, and correct them.
What I perceive from your word is you are HONEST person. I had this feeling reading your post. So why don't you try to find your point of strenght instead of listing weak points (if any?) ? A girl can also be attracted by a honest guy, even if shy, why not ? Each of us hase some strenght somehow.
Possibly you fear sex. So you try to avoid it at all costs, without knowing this. Who knows maybe when yiu were 4 years old you heard your parents having sex and thought it was bad for some odd reasons ?? Anything may happen at the emotional level.

Fear of relationships, fear of betrayal, fear of showing others that you like a particular girl.

This is also a red flag for having suffered emotional abuse in early life. Dig into your emotions.

I take everything too close to my heart. It's easy to offend me. Sometimes I get very upset and cry. Sometimes when I see very beautiful young girls 20-24 years old (when I pass by), I have a strong feeling of shame and I blush a lot.

Emotional and shy people do exist. Men are not only soldiers and warriors, there are poets, artists, comedians, dancers... you name it. This may be in your natal chart, and you simply ARE that way. Check your natal chart, it tells who you are.

When I want to get to know a beautiful girl, I feel guilty that I'm a girl will cause severe inconvenience or scare her (thereby causing harm).

Red flag for abuse again.

I noticed that there are men who do not have some kind of beauty, sense of humor, other qualities, but at the same time all women (when they just see these men) for some reason approach these men themselves, get to know them, hug them

This is due to high testosterone / Mars energis in them OR most often the men are strongly manipulative and even if they are ugly, their rotten soul is able to "catch" weaker women and attach to their chakras to attract them in a forceful way. This is the most common case.
There's nothing wrong in you, you simply seem having different energis than them.

What color of energy is effective if I want women to love me with all their soul? What are the most effective affirmations for these purposes?

Just try this on yourself to build a self esteem base :
"I am fully worth of being loved, liked and appreciated. I am of value and I gan give value to my relationship. I chose Satan so I am a noble person looking for noble and fair actions, thus I am to be respected and deserved as a partner"