Question #1370: CRY FOR HELP

[AskSatanOperator]

I have tears running down my face as I write this. There is someone in my life who is in urgent need of help, but she is unwilling to help herself, so it's entirely on me to do so. I don't want to go into to many personal details, I will write a new post if I have to.

This person is convinced that her soul is irreparably damaged, she has had trauma her entire life, and is convinced that her past lives have been just like this because of her soul, and part of this is my fault because I betrayed her trust some time ago and I am extremely regretful for doing so. She believes in SS and knows of this site, but is unwilling to perform any of the practices to better herself. She wants to cease existing and disintegrate into nothing, as she is very suicidal and hates life, and engages in self-harm. She doesn't seek immortality or Magnum Opus. I know her soul is extremely damaged, if not under attack by enemies.

The other problem is that I am not very advanced myself. I am giving her all of the energy I have, which leaves me feeling extremely drained, I feel dead and emotionless. There's no alternative as she is hanging on by a thread. I am willing to go through this suffering myself, as I know I can repair and build myself in the future, but she is dangling by a thread and I have almost energy left.

This is a cry for help. Please tell me anything and everything you can. I don't know if I have much longer. I would do anything, I absolutely love Satan and all of the Gods.

(Message to site admins, I might request for this post to be removed in the future)

 

[Henu the Great]

You can't force them to get better.

 

[AFODO]

There are two path you can choose.
It is depends on how much you love her and how much you need her.

Firstly, look at here, how well you fit together.
https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/synastry-chart-online-calculator
It is very important because you shouldn't fight for her while you aren't match at all.

If you willing to help her, you need to ask the gods for help and guidance. write prayers and or summon a specific god to ask help from him/her.

You can choose a god that matches her birthday. On the list of the gods, for every god there is a day for exemple March 10-16. You choose a god that matches her birtday and that god could help more efficient, as He/She might be more familiar with her problems.

What you need to do is that have deep conversations with her. You can read motivational articles her for exemple, SapphireDragon writes a lot of motivational articles. You can take those thoughts to your conversations.

If you are knowledgeble enaugh you know why we live and why we need to advance. So tell her that too.

As she stabilezed she needs to start cleaning her soul. She can even start with mantras but not big reps first.

I had a case like this not long ago, I left her, because we wasn't together for too long.

You are the first priority, and she is the second keep that in mind, and don't "give" her any energy only that energy that you take time on trying to help her.

Please calm down, and think trough it that is she even worth it? Do you even need to be worried? Can't she just live along without you? Isn't it just a very thin slice of your lifetime? You can be a god and instead wasting time on someone that doesn't even care?

I personally think that if somebody had the opportunity to be better, but his/her life went away like hers, it's completelly their problems and nobody's.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Stop draining yourself. There is no excuse for you to be doing so much harm to yourself for all this time, because it is not helping her anyway.

Do you want both of you too be equally damaged, equally harmed, equally weak, and share all of these same problems? Because that is what you are doing to yourself. You are not helping her, you're only hurting yourself.

You also have to realize that the only person who can help anybody is the self. You can't do anything to force another person to become better. This is like a drug addict, there is nothing that anybody can say to make the person stop using drugs, until the person makes the personal decision to change.

 

[Shadowcat]

You cannot help someone who is absolutely unwilling to help themselves no matter what. If you are being drained then this is detrimental to yourself. You cannot waste your soul by playing saviour to people who refuse to fix themselves, whether they are mentally ill, addicts, or something else. If you are knowingly letting yourself be drained in this process and even to potentially be destroyed and do not listen to the hard truth that it is time to let go, then there is nothing someone else can do for you either. In order for anyone to help you and ultimately the Gods you have to fight for your own self, we all do.

In the words of the band Ghost in a song praising Father Satan, "I can save you if you do."

 

[serpentwalker666]

You absolutely must not focus on others who won't help themselves! This will do you no good and can be very draining on your emotional and mental well being.

You must detach from this and harden your heart, as in this world there is many people who will not make better decisions or choices, and you best NOT shed endless tears for them... I write this from a standpoint of having invested far to much energy and time at certain periods in my life towards people who wouldn't change or do better. This is very taxing and not a good use of your time.

What is better is to build yourself up and completely detach. People face the consequences of their actions and it's on them, NOT YOU.

It's not your responsibility to lift them out the mud every time they jump in a cesspool of foolishness.

Yes it can be hard to see when it's someone we care about deeply, but the advice applies the same.

 

[Onbael_]

The Gods can help her, but she must be willing to be helped.

When she is ready have her try Valefor's power ritual.

There is no problem that cannot possible be solved.

 

[EnkiUK56]

Stop draining yourself. There is no excuse for you to be doing so much harm to yourself for all this time, because it is not helping her anyway.

Do you want both of you too be equally damaged, equally harmed, equally weak, and share all of these same problems? Because that is what you are doing to yourself. You are not helping her, you're only hurting yourself.

You also have to realize that the only person who can help anybody is the self. You can't do anything to force another person to become better. This is like a drug addict, there is nothing that anybody can say to make the person stop using drugs, until the person makes the personal decision to change.

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[RockSeed13]

If you can, program her aura to make her full of life, vigor, or will to live. I suggest using Fefu x 40 and Reidh x 40, but before it breath in energy from the sun to feel energy buzz.

 

[BlackOnyx8 [JG]]

Look, I know these were not the responses you were anticipating when you made this post, but they are, for the most part, right. I recommend completely disregarding the advice to rely on a website for synastry interpretations. Numerous factors come into consideration when evaluating relationship compatibility, and the interpretations generated by these websites may not be entirely accurate. It is beneficial to use the website to generate the aspects table, which you can then interpret yourself. However, if you're not yet at that level, relying on it may only add to the confusion.

If this person happens to be someone like your mother, sister, or a similar close relative, the situation would indeed be different. However, for the sake of discussion, let's assume that she is simply your friend or girlfriend.

I've personally been in such a situation, and the truth is, some people are just not ready to grasp the truth about what they need to do, even when it's presented to them clearly, and even if another walks the steps for them. There's a limit to what you can do in such cases, as some people may bring you down with them.

While your current approach may appear noble from one perspective, it can also be detrimental to your own well-being and actual survival if she doesn't make a positive change in her life. She will undoubtedly bring you down with her.

You are fully aware, I assume, of your own duty as a man on this planet, and therefore, you need to prioritize your own well-being to some extent, for your own survival. You can't allow yourself to be consumed by this woman.

Moreover, and I know this is hard to hear and understand, while you may believe this person loves you, the truth is someone who doesn't love herself to such an extreme extent, not even enough to lift a finger to change her situation, is unlikely to be capable of genuinely loving you in any capacity. It's possible that any feelings she expresses may stem from narcissistic disorders. And it's important that you become fully aware of this so that you can understand what's actually going on.

Some people will only understand what they need to do to get better, past a certain point in their lives, some never do, and unfortunately, sometimes, there's nothing you can do about that. You can only offer guidance and direction, but ultimately, it is up to them to take the necessary steps and walk their own path. You can support them to a certain extent, but there comes a point where they need to take responsibility for their own journey.

Based on my personal experience and observations of others in similar situations, I can tell you exactly what will happen if you continue down this path. Over time, you will find yourself losing the will to live and becoming overwhelmingly exhausted, to the point where little seems to make sense anymore. It will then be incredibly challenging to gather the strength to pick yourself up and transcend this situation.

You need to face the fact that it may be necessary to let her go, for the sake of your own well-being. You have already done all that you could do. In fact, you have done more than you should have done, you want way beyond what was necessary.

Besides the above, what I could honestly think of, to help her would be to learn astrology, analyze her chart, and provide guidance on what might be affecting her soul and how to address it, but ultimately, this work cannot be done for her. She must be willing to undertake this journey herself. You are attempting to change her karma, and you can't because you're not powerful enough, not even close. Most of us are barely powerful enough to change our own karma, let alone change the karma of others.

If she's already on such a low level of existence, chances are the chart is actually truly messed up, and it will undoubtedly take extreme amounts of hard work and significant dedication to overcome, however, it's definitely possible to do and it's important that she understands that the only possible way to escape this misery is through spiritual transformation. There is no other way out, that is just how the universe operates and there's nothing anyone can do about that.

Right now, it is crucial to prioritize your own well-being and prevent further deterioration of your own self, if you allow yourself to go lower than this, it may be very difficult to come back. Following that, it would be beneficial to take some time before entering into another relationship. Engage in deep introspection and meditation to understand the underlying reasons that led you to be in such a tragic situation in the first place.

Always surround yourself with people who are striving for growth and achieving great success in life, people who uplift and elevate you rather than those who bring you down.

Seek guidance from Father Satan and maintain an open mind to receive whatever form of answers may come your way. Even if you don't like the answers provided, they may be necessary.