tabby
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Top Striker said:
Let's liven things up a little.
This is you in a nutshell:
https://youtu.be/3s5xsVHOJQs
Top Striker said:
jrvan said:Top Striker said:.......
Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
tabby said:Shadowcat said:
I'll be totally honest here. Using the term "pair bonding" to try to explain away why people can't feel that "first time" feeling in love anymore, sounds like an excuse based in fear to avoid facing and healing the pain they're carrying in their heart from past bad experiences and heartbreak.
What have people been reading the years they've been in JoS?
Alyssa Milano has taught you well my dear.Lunar Dance 666 said:This is why people like Jack and the outlaw thorn will never have a place here. Because this is not who we are.
There you go son! Bring out the big balls a against this weirdo instead the little pecans you typically have. I’m proud of your growth.Ol argedco luciftias said:But you literally are a cuck, so how are you going to say anything?
You hate Jack because he has insulted you? From what I have seen, all he would really say is to call you a cross dressing cuck. And say that he has no respect for those actions. But this is not even an insult, it is just a fact. You are a cross dressing cuck.
That is fine. Do whatever you are wanting to do, of course you are allowed to and nobody will stop you. But it seems like something you are ashamed of. Or how would you use your own actions as an insult against somebody else if you are not ashamed of these actions?
tabby said:Shadowcat said:tabby said:btw, the whole pair bonding thing sounds like bullshit from people who have hangups.
You can use magick to break and destroy bonds with people you've had sex with in order to have new relationship/s with people freely. You can also reform bonds you've previously broken with the same person again. Limiting yourself to have sex with as few people as possible to retain idk purity?? Come on.
What have people been reading the years they've been in JoS?
Don't be shy, Tabby you can quote me....
No, the pair bonding Notion comes from people who are very monogamous and take it very seriously, because the ability to bond with another and remain sexually and emotionally loyal only to them requires this, and this is what these people want. This has nothing to do with hangups and isn't bullshit, but i'm not going to expect someone who is polygamous to understand this and i'm not going to look down on them for it either, for what a polygamous and monogamous person want with sex and romance are very different things. This is also something else that boils down to astrology. Neither are fundamentally wrong but are simply different. People who are monogamous in nature, truly anyway, do not desire to go for others and are generally very selective.
When one "falls in love" in an exclusive relationship for the first time it sets off a chemical reaction in the brain, and because it is the first, it is often the most strongest release of these chemicals. Sex partner after sex partner, sooner or later that "wow" element won't come so natural anymore to the point where finding anyone is nothing special. This makes it easier to look for greener grass or to simply "want variety". The dopamine and serotonin the in love feeling releases is something the brain can become tolerant to...it will need more and more of it to get the same effect much like a drug. Imagine the brain working to try to replicate this over and over...that feeling of absolute in love and wanting to give everything 666 percent to someone isn't going to be there the way it was before, after the first or even the second time.
A person who is naturally wanting to be with one person only is going to be selective and isn't going to sleep around. Someone being monogamous the first one or up to 3 times who realizes they don't feel so selective anymore and are less stringent about who they have sex with, and end up sleeping with more and more people as a result are simply better suited to polygamy or open relationships. But the person who is serious about exclusivity is going to be very guarded about their heart and body, even after the first 1 or 2 disappointments. the latter also does not resort usually to casual sex to just "feel something" where as someone more prone to wanting variety might.
It is truly simple. if someone would rather have sex with multiple different people they are not fit for monogamy, or an exclusive relationship with one other person only This doesn't make them bad people, just people with different preferences. This is also not saying they cannot love someone, but in the long run would be better off with casual encounters or an open relationship, due to their experience making them so used to many different lovers. These people are not for the exclusive life, and if they try to be, 98 percent of the time, will find themselves feeling like they are in jail or missing out on variety.
This is not to say polygamous people cannot love their partners once again, or more accurately called polyamory in that case then. It just will not be one person only. A monogamous person will look at this as a crowd and feel less wanted if a partner of theirs wants others. But a poly person will enjoy the company and even find it cozy and less pressure put on them via certain expectations.
People who want monogamy need and want the certainty their partner will stay loyal. From my own SS eyes, if a man has had sex with more than i can count on 1 hand, i will not look down on him, but just will speculate to him that he will be happier loving multiple people or better off in an open arrangement so that he does not become bored or feel like he is "missing out"
people who have many many partners who then want to try the serious exclusive relationship life are being dishonest to themselves as well as others. They either don't know what they want and need, and perhaps in the beginning before getting so much exp, wanted monogamy but gave up, realizing they found it too confining or too much of something else for them. This is also fine, as again, everyone is different, but they by now are used to the kind of sex life they have been having, and will have to put more energy than what they are used to, to be exclusive, which often does not end well.
Not everyone is meant for every kind of lifestyle and not everyone is the same. People who are meant for monogamy aren't meant to want to be with many different people as this is not in their nature, and people who would rather have variety are typically much happier with variety.
the two are not suited for crossing each others paths, as they are different and this has nothing to do with hangups.
I should clear the air on some things before more confusion and misunderstanding happens.
From what I can remember, you weren't the first person to bring up this idea of "pair-bonding", and then it just became a thing people referred to. It seems to often be used to justify putting unnecessary restrictions on people's sex lives and relationships, by people who have hangups - not that you yourself was someone who was using the term in this way. I didn't think you were.
Personally, I believe one develops a "pair bond" with a person while they are with them. Otherwise, what's the relationship? However, this bond (like any) can be broken and/or changed. A person can choose to keep it permanently or not.
Whenever we experience something for the first time, it's always a unique experience. We don't get that feeling again unless we forget, like with reincarnation. We've all been in love before, we just don't remember. So in every lifetime, we experience these "new" feelings again, like it's the first time all over again. But in reality, you know these feelings, you've had them before, for many people perhaps, over many life times.
Every person we choose to "pair bond" with, the love and attraction you have towards that particular person is new. So even though you know the feelings, you may even carry scars from past traumatic relationships even from past lives that limits you from the new joy of a new relationship and connection, but those feelings arise again regardless. We have the ability to love as hard as the first time we fall in love, just simply because we know how to heal our scars deeper than any modern medicine here.
I have been in both mono-type relationships that didn't work out, and poly. While there is flexibility in poly relationships, what people wouldn't expect about me simply because of the label of my current relationship being defined as "poly", is that I've had sex with only two people in this life time, and a total of 3 relationships. My first boyfriend, my husband, and my Demon partner. I love two people, but I will not look at others. I love them equally and deeply. I love my partners like I'm exclusive to them because I've made myself to be exclusive to only them. I get jealous because I'm clingy, and I don't want people to hurt or use those I love. But Jrvan is free to be with others if that's what he likes, and I'm flexible in my relationships. You need love deeply and exclusively, I will love you just like that. If you need others, so long as I know you're ok and you talk to me about what you need, than I will love you no less. That's how I am, but others will be different. I don't expect people to be me.
That "special" feeling of being with someone for the first time isn't something people miss out on just because of a preference for any type of relationship. People who lose that special feeling from having multiple sex partners and relationships, are likely carrying problems that haven't been healed. Or simply stop seeing people as people who are different and unique, and want to get to know them that way, but as something monotonous and "I've seen it all, what's new?" attitude. They've killed the spark before it's even allowed to rise again with someone they've not been with before.
There's more than just poly and mono, relationships. People think being poly is about being a sleeze ball. No. You hold high respect for the people you're with just as you would in a mono relationship. The love between people is no less committed unless you are the shallower type of lover, which would be problematic no matter the relationship type if your partner is someone who needs deeper love but you are not.
Correct me if I'm remembering wrong, you've had bad experiences before. But you're the kind of person who needs a "soul mate" committed to you solely and none other. I understand that completely. That's how I felt going into my first relationship. I wanted to be with one person always and forever, and when I got my heart broken I thought that was it. Life teaches you a few things, and you either get left behind and wallow in the heartbreak, preventing yourself from enjoying the feeling of new love with someone else, or you heal the scars and you try again. It's a big world out there, things happen, what you choose to do when things break you is what makes the difference between having that spark again or not.
So weird....Although i can see why an older guy from stormfront would rage quit after seeing such explicit white genocide talking points veiled in libertarian nonsense. Is there anyway i can contact him ? I'd like to compare some notes as well as talk to him about some other stuff. I'm always interested in talking to a fellow WN. Such a weird way of creating a red herring too. While im at it i'll convince him to come back to this forum.jrvan said:Top Striker said:Why are you attacking me as a xian when you don't even know me ? I don't know what religion my dad was because ive never met him but my mom was an aethist and i was raised extremely anti - christian.tabby said:Pfft, yeah. It's just a study on flies. Just like they studied other animals before seeing if they can push things on people. If people believe this crap it'll steam-roll into a pile of shit as always and become about humans. The OP already applied the study to humans on their own without the need for that. I'd say Lydia's reaction is justified.
It's just another bullshit setup to later make attacks on sex for pleasure and sex before marriage, which is enforced in the enemy religions to NOT DO. You must be a pure untouched "virgin" for your future husband that you haven't met yet until "god" ties you together forever 'til death, and have sex with only him. How dare a woman think she can go off and have sex for pleasure with her own people before she finds someone to settle down with. How filthy of her, goyim. The future for your people is ruined because you were born HUMAN and like sex. Let's just not masturbate either whilst we're at it, and listen to all the health and economic articles about that too!
Give me a break, xian. The fantasy of the untouched "virgin" is just bullshit and unrealistic. Men and women never having sex and loving each other in the bedroom till marriage because that creates "stronger WHITE families and healthier society"?? How much sexual suppression do you think is going to happen from doing this?
You didn't see the ancients ruined over having clean brothels and sex before marriage, now did you? All in all, what's really changed in relationships between men and women apart from a blatant inability to understand each other anymore because of enemy corruption?
They always feed people crumbs and nuggets. Once they accept that, then they push it to the next level, then the next and the next. Because to put it simple, the enemy is one massive cult and a cult runs on accept the small lies and working up until you're too stupid to realise the buffet sized lies they feed you with a knife to your neck if you dare spit them out.
Also all of your points are inconclusive and hypothetical because otherwise you would have provided studies to prove them.
My point was that virgins getting married have strong white families that i've proven by providing studies and i've also proven that there is a high likelihood of divorce by women who have more than 3 sexual partners. If you want to talk to me ,provide me with a study from the National Bureau of Health Statistics that says that there is no correlation between a persons sexual history and divorce ,which leads to broken families where kids suffer.
Also the point about how its unrealistic and a fantasy is also untrue. I know in my heart that when i lost my virginity to my girlfriend at 15 , i could have stayed with her forever. But because of peer pressure and bad advice from my guy friends i decided to break up with her and have a bunch of casual sex. And for people who will call me a hypocrite ,it was before i was introduced to White Nationalism so im consistent in my views and actions. Since i've committed to this cause i haven't defiled a single white woman who i don't want to have a family with.
If all of the kids were given the correct guidance then they would get married to their first loves and divorce would be dramatically reduced. If i was told by an elder that i should stick with her through thick and thin then i wouldn't have broken up with my first girlfriend.
Also thinking logically, how can it be possible for a woman in the Ancient times to run around having casual sex without condoms and birth control. She would obviously get pregnant and would have to commit to that man.
Get out of your feelings and look at what is good for our race. Not everything revolves around you. If a statement is true then even if you've gone against it in your personal life ,doesn't make it any less true. We should be promoting happy marriages with less divorce and strong white families. Promiscuity being natural is a Evolutionary Biology argument and even if that were true it would lead to a society with extreme competition and general destruction. You can look at Black families to see what single parent households and extreme promiscuity leads to. Also something being natural doesn't make it beneficial for society. I know as a man i can go around having sex with a bunch of women. But that doesn't lead to anything productive other than my own hedonistic desires. A man with a higher consciousness would look at doing those things that would contribute to the overall society at large.
I've looked at the viewcounts on these topics and it seems to garner thousands of views in some topics. These are thousands of people who will either think "I should give in to my natural instinct and have sex with lots of women because otherwise i would be a christian who goes against his natural biological desires" or "Sacrifices have to be made in order to fulfill our duties and in that regard i will choose not to have casual sex with women but instead search for a strong relationship that can lead to marriage and kids."A third option is that the man has sex with prostitutes if he's such an animal that he can't control himself and the promiscuous women who literally cannot control herself to become a prostitute and not contribute to degeneracy in society. Whores and Whore makers have not place in a white society.
Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
Shadowcat said:You are correct in saying that a hierarchy is to be observed as this is natural. However The antichrist as well as the rest of our Gods are here to help guide us, and we do look to them for guidance. But the way you describe "Just let Führer take care of this" comes off as a xtian saying "let it go god is in control", which is something that SS do not do. I am certain The Antichrist as well as the rest of the Gods want us to think for ourselves also and make choices while keeping advancement and the greater good in mind. We are not to expect them to do everything, but we still must look to them for guidance all the same, but this is simply not a sit back and let them handle it all type of deal. That's all.
The Gods also know that when advancing and with humans trying to go for causes for the greater good there will be many mistakes. If they basically helicopter parent us, we cannot learn from those mistakes. They will be there if something goes far beyond our power and ability if there is trouble, but they will not hold our hands every step of the way. Thus, as you say, hierarchy is being observed from an SS perspective, but without us looking to the Gods to do all the work every step of the way. You are right in knowing the Gods know what is best, and this is with everything. The point is for them to let us grow and also figure things out for ourselves while looking to them for guidance, but without our hands being held constantly, so a balance. They know we might fuck up and they see our future mistakes. But us figuring these out and learning from this is what helps us grow and become independent beings.
Whoah....... So this guys a cross dresser and a cuck ? No wonder he's defending someone who is preaching genocide against the White Race. He must have implicit self hatred for being White and also being a man. This is the case for a majority of the leftist freaks. He probably has Blacks fuck his girlfriend. I already had one account deleted so i won't say anything illegal. Its sickening. Notice how everything the jew creates is an inversion of reality. The next stop after being a cross dresser is becoming a tranny. Then its Genital mutilation and never again propagating the white race.Ol argedco luciftias said:jrvan said:Top Striker said:.......
Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
But you literally are a cuck, so how are you going to say anything?
You hate Jack because he has insulted you? From what I have seen, all he would really say is to call you a cross dressing cuck. And say that he has no respect for those actions. But this is not even an insult, it is just a fact. You are a cross dressing cuck.
That is fine. Do whatever you are wanting to do, of course you are allowed to and nobody will stop you. But it seems like something you are ashamed of. Or how would you use your own actions as an insult against somebody else if you are not ashamed of these actions?
Ol argedco luciftias said:jrvan said:Top Striker said:.......
Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
But you literally are a cuck, so how are you going to say anything?
You hate Jack because he has insulted you? From what I have seen, all he would really say is to call you a cross dressing cuck. And say that he has no respect for those actions. But this is not even an insult, it is just a fact. You are a cross dressing cuck.
That is fine. Do whatever you are wanting to do, of course you are allowed to and nobody will stop you. But it seems like something you are ashamed of. Or how would you use your own actions as an insult against somebody else if you are not ashamed of these actions?
Ol argedco luciftias said:jrvan said:Top Striker said:.......
Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
But you literally are a cuck, so how are you going to say anything?
You hate Jack because he has insulted you? From what I have seen, all he would really say is to call you a cross dressing cuck. And say that he has no respect for those actions. But this is not even an insult, it is just a fact. You are a cross dressing cuck.
That is fine. Do whatever you are wanting to do, of course you are allowed to and nobody will stop you. But it seems like something you are ashamed of. Or how would you use your own actions as an insult against somebody else if you are not ashamed of these actions?
VoiceofEnki said:.....
Ol argedco luciftias said:VoiceofEnki said:.....
How did I bring up anything unrelated?
Jrvan is continuing his extreme hatred against Jack, all because Jack called him a cuck several times. I have never seen Jack call Jrvan anything worse than a cuck, a cross dresser, or overweight and all three of these are things that Jrvan himself admitted to being. So none of them are really insults anyway, they are just facts. And he is taking this hatred against Jack so far that he is creating arguments and conflicts against people who are not involved. He is inventing conflicts and hatred against this Top Striker guy because he thinks it might possibly be Jack. Or maybe Top Striker is a completely seperate and innocent person, and Jrvan's blind hatred causes him to invent hatred and invent conflicts with innocent people who don't deserve it. Which inventing these kinds of conflicts between himself and many other people has been a very common action from him that has been personally experienced by many of us here. And every single time he is called out on it he tries to twist it around and mention Jack and blame it all on Jack when the people he has these conflicts with are not even the same person as Jack.
Ol argedco luciftias said:VoiceofEnki said:.....
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Shadowcat said:tabby said:btw, the whole pair bonding thing sounds like bullshit from people who have hangups.
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Don't be shy, Tabby you can quote me....
No, the pair bonding Notion comes from people who are very monogamous and take it very seriously, because the ability to bond with another and remain sexually and emotionally loyal only to them requires this, and this is what these people want. This has nothing to do with hangups and isn't bullshit, but i'm not going to expect someone who is polygamous to understand this and i'm not going to look down on them for it either, for what a polygamous and monogamous person want with sex and romance are very different things. .....
Hey! Nothing wrong with being a bottom! :lol:jrvan said:Ol argedco luciftias said:jrvan said:Shut up Jack. Stop getting triggered by Tabby, you cuck.
But you literally are a cuck, so how are you going to say anything?
You hate Jack because he has insulted you? From what I have seen, all he would really say is to call you a cross dressing cuck. And say that he has no respect for those actions. But this is not even an insult, it is just a fact. You are a cross dressing cuck.
That is fine. Do whatever you are wanting to do, of course you are allowed to and nobody will stop you. But it seems like something you are ashamed of. Or how would you use your own actions as an insult against somebody else if you are not ashamed of these actions?
Be careful Ol, or I might just come back to terrorize your tiny little mind again. But you'd like that, wouldn't you? After all, you've always been a bottom.
Both of you make good points, and it has me wondering if perhaps the main difference between monogamous and polyamorous people could be a biochemical one. I already found out a while ago that there are genetic factors to it, so if it’s due to a neurochemical process like Shadowcat describes, then that process could simply be different for people who are polyamorously inclined.tabby said:Shadowcat said:
I'll be totally honest here. Using the term "pair bonding" to try to explain away why people can't feel that "first time" feeling in love anymore, sounds like an excuse based in fear to avoid facing and healing the pain they're carrying in their heart from past bad experiences and heartbreak.
Smite said:I didn't say men don't cheat, I was only replying to ol adgedco who says men are worse but according to research it is the opposite, if your boyfriend cheated on you then that's very bad but don't bring personal matter into the facts.Shadowcat said:Smite said:No. Studies show that women have higher rate of infidelity than men, they are just better at hiding it from their man. Also women are likely to be the ones asking for shit like open relationships or open marriages where they can go have sex with different guys with no strings attached. I don't know what good they get from those types of encounters but majority of them are women. Research shows that this is the case.
This is complete and utter shit. Both sexes cheat. MGTOW propaganda does not belong here.
I was in a relationship for almost 9 years. This was the first person and only that I was intimate with, and it happened because i thought this would be my life partner. I literally shed blood sweat and tears to save up money to move halfway accross the world for him, learned another language and worked there. Things went down south. Neither was perfect, but in the end, guess who was unfaithful? HINT: it wasn't me.
Demonic said:Ol argedco luciftias said:VoiceofEnki said:.....
.....Shadowcat said:tabby said:btw, the whole pair bonding thing sounds like bullshit from people who have hangups.
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Don't be shy, Tabby you can quote me....
No, the pair bonding Notion comes from people who are very monogamous and take it very seriously, because the ability to bond with another and remain sexually and emotionally loyal only to them requires this, and this is what these people want. This has nothing to do with hangups and isn't bullshit, but i'm not going to expect someone who is polygamous to understand this and i'm not going to look down on them for it either, for what a polygamous and monogamous person want with sex and romance are very different things. .....
Man oh man, seems like mercury retro all over again. The fact is we cannot change each other's opinions and mindset on things.
I completely agree with shadowcat,a person changing partners frequently does eventually become barren in emotions and the "intensity" of emotions lessen as list of partners increases thus i strongly support monogamous relationship, for others reading this, this might be different, everyone is free to keep their opinions on things.
But who is what and why hes believing that, monogamy or polygamy is wrong, who is a cross dresser, a cuck or is that person jack or not, it simply does not matter. These arguments and finding something from someone's post to prove him right or wrong,male are more whores than females or vice versa, this simply has no value at all. Any of this does not yield any productive result for the reader and writer and newbies that comes here to learn. Only thing that matters is we fight enemy and channel all this frustration and anger (if any towards each other) towards enemy through rtrs.
We are fighting here as one single unit and we have the same enemy, have you ever thought before typing something provocative, that what if its an enemy attack causing me to waste my time and the time of others as well? or an enemy attack to cause frustration and bring morale down of other SS or incite a non result yielding arguments? There could have been one more rtr done in this time , or more void instead of typing all this.
In the end, we are only typing long texts and not changing each others opinions on things, you and person you are arguing with are still going to bed with the mindset of their own. Even if one believes something that is wrong no amount of typing will change his/her mindset, life and advancing will.
I havent cussed on forums and didnt plan to, but fuck you for saying that to Lydia. Shes powerful enough to crush you like a bug, realise this and realise how tiny and imbecile you are as compared to her.
Prisma said:Both of you make good points, and it has me wondering if perhaps the main difference between monogamous and polyamorous people could be a biochemical one. I already found out a while ago that there are genetic factors to it, so if it’s due to a neurochemical process like Shadowcat describes, then that process could simply be different for people who are polyamorously inclined.tabby said:Shadowcat said:
I'll be totally honest here. Using the term "pair bonding" to try to explain away why people can't feel that "first time" feeling in love anymore, sounds like an excuse based in fear to avoid facing and healing the pain they're carrying in their heart from past bad experiences and heartbreak.
I tend to find it difficult to let go, and as a result, it's happened before that I fell in love with a person while already being in love with another. When that happened, it felt like my very Soul was being torn apart in two directions. It was excruciating to the point that I broke down mentally, and was eventually able to break up when my emotions had gone completely numb from the pain. In hindsight that was for the best, as the relationship I was in at the time had unsolveable problems that only kept getting worse, so I had to let go.
Given that, I know that I personally could never love or date multiple people at the same time. I would experience a constant sense of numbness and agony, as for me to be in love means to devote my entire being to someone, but I only have a single self to devote.
Clearly, for you it works differently. It sounds like your bond with your Demon does not detract from your bond with Jrvan in any way. Instead of it being a matter of dividing what you have and merging, is it perhaps more like building bridges?
What I'm trying to say is, perhaps this "pair-bonding" that Shadowcat speaks of is actually really a thing. And perhaps, due to some genetic or neurochemical difference or whatnot, you and Jrvan are able to "pair-bond" with multiple people at the same time. After all, there doesn't appear to be a desire to expand the relationship further than it has, so it's not like like there's isn't any pairing at all.
Both of you are involved in two pairs each, but unlike would be the case for me, those pairs and bonds aren't mutually exclusive.
At the very least, that's what it looks like from my outside perspective. Is that what it feels like to you as well?
tabby said:Prisma said:Both of you make good points, and it has me wondering if perhaps the main difference between monogamous and polyamorous people could be a biochemical one. I already found out a while ago that there are genetic factors to it, so if it’s due to a neurochemical process like Shadowcat describes, then that process could simply be different for people who are polyamorously inclined.tabby said:I'll be totally honest here. Using the term "pair bonding" to try to explain away why people can't feel that "first time" feeling in love anymore, sounds like an excuse based in fear to avoid facing and healing the pain they're carrying in their heart from past bad experiences and heartbreak.
I tend to find it difficult to let go, and as a result, it's happened before that I fell in love with a person while already being in love with another. When that happened, it felt like my very Soul was being torn apart in two directions. It was excruciating to the point that I broke down mentally, and was eventually able to break up when my emotions had gone completely numb from the pain. In hindsight that was for the best, as the relationship I was in at the time had unsolveable problems that only kept getting worse, so I had to let go.
Given that, I know that I personally could never love or date multiple people at the same time. I would experience a constant sense of numbness and agony, as for me to be in love means to devote my entire being to someone, but I only have a single self to devote.
Clearly, for you it works differently. It sounds like your bond with your Demon does not detract from your bond with Jrvan in any way. Instead of it being a matter of dividing what you have and merging, is it perhaps more like building bridges?
What I'm trying to say is, perhaps this "pair-bonding" that Shadowcat speaks of is actually really a thing. And perhaps, due to some genetic or neurochemical difference or whatnot, you and Jrvan are able to "pair-bond" with multiple people at the same time. After all, there doesn't appear to be a desire to expand the relationship further than it has, so it's not like like there's isn't any pairing at all.
Both of you are involved in two pairs each, but unlike would be the case for me, those pairs and bonds aren't mutually exclusive.
At the very least, that's what it looks like from my outside perspective. Is that what it feels like to you as well?
Perhaps that is a more wise way of looking at it.
Both my Demon lover and Jrvan are my family. To me at least, it's like creating a small family unit together. I trust them completely and I am treated just as important to them as anyone else they love in their life.
Labels of what the relationship is really don't matter to me anyone, and feels like it puts things into an unnecessary box. It just is what it is. Whatever my partners needs are, I will do my best to provide that, if things change I will change with it.
Trying to explain about it any further and I'll just end up repeating myself. :lol:
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
My mistake for softly criticizing your chosen Goddess. I won’t happen again my lord.Demonic said:I havent cussed on forums and didnt plan to, but fuck you for saying that to Lydia. Shes powerful enough to crush you like a bug, realise this and realise how tiny and imbecile you are as compared to her.
Prisma said:Both of you make good points, and it has me wondering if perhaps the main difference between monogamous and polyamorous people could be a biochemical one. I already found out a while ago that there are genetic factors to it, so if it’s due to a neurochemical process like Shadowcat describes, then that process could simply be different for people who are polyamorously inclined.tabby said:Shadowcat said:
I'll be totally honest here. Using the term "pair bonding" to try to explain away why people can't feel that "first time" feeling in love anymore, sounds like an excuse based in fear to avoid facing and healing the pain they're carrying in their heart from past bad experiences and heartbreak.
I tend to find it difficult to let go, and as a result, it's happened before that I fell in love with a person while already being in love with another. When that happened, it felt like my very Soul was being torn apart in two directions. It was excruciating to the point that I broke down mentally, and was eventually able to break up when my emotions had gone completely numb from the pain. In hindsight that was for the best, as the relationship I was in at the time had unsolveable problems that only kept getting worse, so I had to let go.
Given that, I know that I personally could never love or date multiple people at the same time. I would experience a constant sense of numbness and agony, as for me to be in love means to devote my entire being to someone, but I only have a single self to devote.
Clearly, for you it works differently. It sounds like your bond with your Demon does not detract from your bond with Jrvan in any way. Instead of it being a matter of dividing what you have and merging, is it perhaps more like building bridges?
What I'm trying to say is, perhaps this "pair-bonding" that Shadowcat speaks of is actually really a thing. And perhaps, due to some genetic or neurochemical difference or whatnot, you and Jrvan are able to "pair-bond" with multiple people at the same time. After all, there doesn't appear to be a desire to expand the relationship further than it has, so it's not like like there's isn't any pairing at all.
Both of you are involved in two pairs each, but unlike would be the case for me, those pairs and bonds aren't mutually exclusive.
At the very least, that's what it looks like from my outside perspective. Is that what it feels like to you as well?
I think that's a very healthy mentality, especially when one's situation falls outside the realm of what is typical or "standard". Labels come with expectations and assumptions based on norms and stereotypes, so when those stereotypes don't apply closely enough, attempts to describe the situation with words and labels can end up being more confusing than elucidating. At that point it becomes better to just go with the flow and appreciate things for what they really are, at face value, rather than bothering with words that fail to describe everything and lead to misunderstandings.tabby said:Labels of what the relationship is really don't matter to me anyone, and feels like it puts things into an unnecessary box. It just is what it is. Whatever my partners needs are, I will do my best to provide that, if things change I will change with it.
Sometimes I still wonder if it's in part due to confirmation bias, but at least when it comes to my own chart and other people's I've seen, the placements have been extremely accurate in regards to this. I find it especially interesting how these things end up working out when there are placements with meanings that seem to contradict at first; there's often a lot of nuance to be found.Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
Hi! Sorry for not pinging you directly there. I was worried about making you feel awkward, since I don't think you like me.Shadowcat said:Hi MeteorPrisma said:
Top Striker said:I don't even understand what is going on here ? How can you foster strong white families with a promiscuous father or mother ? How can you do this with the Divorce ? I thought this was a fucking White Nationalist forum with a strong emphasis on spirituality but a bunch of posters are arguing for normalizing promiscuity. Am i in the wrong place ???
It looks wierd from an american perspective, but i lived most of my adult life in Europe.Smite said:Whatever... If you want to stay with someone forever without marriage then that's your own.Shadowcat said:You are also trying to give advice on matters you no nothing of. You don't need a piece of paper, a ring or a ceremony that costs as much as a house to say you want to spend your life with someone. We lived and behaved as life partners and it was the intent. Putting it in official documents especially in this day and age can really fuck someone over financially. I would never marry on paper.Smite said:I didn't say men don't cheat, I was only replying to ol adgedco who says men are worse but according to research it is the opposite, if your boyfriend cheated on you then that's very bad but don't bring personal matter into the facts.
The only way to make a man truly commit is marriage. If not he won’t take the relationship serious which is why you can’t seem to keep a man. You have to put pressure on them or the relationship will remain a joke and there’s no skin in the game which makes it so that anyone can leave at any time without penalty. That’s not a serious relationship at all.Shadowcat said:It looks wierd from an american perspective, but i lived most of my adult life in Europe.
Where I was, it was celebrated and given cards for if a couple started living together. (ask any dutch SS and they will concur on most if not all of this) Europeans in certain countries look at marriage and lifelong partnership dynamics abit different. If the two have serious intentions it's often not always put down on paper, and is often for financial or other practical reasons. Even my own parents here in the states one time considering "divorcing" because of the tax cut it would provide.
This has to be a joke right? Every single time in a divorce the woman gets everything so I don’t think you have to worry about that. Even so most men aren’t malicious and vindictive after a failed relationship and want the best for their ex, unlike women so they wouldn’t want to take your stuff anyway.For other cases, marriage on paper is better for some like if something happens to your spouse. Whatever is chosen to be best is on a case by case basis. For me, i am honestly in the mindset someone is going to try to get me for all of my shit and run :lol: and even with prenups there is loopholes.
The Outlaw Torn said:The only way to make a man truly commit is marriage. If not he won’t take the relationship serious which is why you can’t seem to keep a man. You have to put pressure on them or the relationship will remain a joke and there’s no skin in the game which makes it so that anyone can leave at any time without penalty. That’s not a serious relationship at all.Shadowcat said:It looks wierd from an american perspective, but i lived most of my adult life in Europe.
Where I was, it was celebrated and given cards for if a couple started living together. (ask any dutch SS and they will concur on most if not all of this) Europeans in certain countries look at marriage and lifelong partnership dynamics abit different. If the two have serious intentions it's often not always put down on paper, and is often for financial or other practical reasons. Even my own parents here in the states one time considering "divorcing" because of the tax cut it would provide.
Marriage is more than just the hang ups that you described. It’s very symbolic and makes your relationship REAL in the eyes of your families and the world. You’re way too old to have this childish view on such an essential institution for a long term relationship .
This has to be a joke right? Every single time in a divorce the woman gets everything so I don’t think you have to worry about that. Even so most men aren’t malicious and vindictive after a failed relationship and want the best for their ex, unlike women so they wouldn’t want to take your stuff anyway.For other cases, marriage on paper is better for some like if something happens to your spouse. Whatever is chosen to be best is on a case by case basis. For me, i am honestly in the mindset someone is going to try to get me for all of my shit and run :lol: and even with prenups there is loopholes.
What’s with the hostility? I gave you sound advice. If you don’t like it then all I have to say is, “don’t hate the player hate the game”. I didn’t make it this way, but it is this way, so you have to work within these parameters when it comes to a relationship. If not then you won’t be successful, again not my fault.Shadowcat said:Shut the fuck up already and Leave. You are a useless piece of shit and everything you say is nothing but trash.
As long as the non whites are within our countries ,they are all our mortal enemies. Every single one of them.Shadowcat said:Top Striker said:I don't even understand what is going on here ? How can you foster strong white families with a promiscuous father or mother ? How can you do this with the Divorce ? I thought this was a fucking White Nationalist forum with a strong emphasis on spirituality but a bunch of posters are arguing for normalizing promiscuity. Am i in the wrong place ???
This not faggot chan or storm front.
This is a place for not just white, but also black, mestizo, arab and asian pride as well. Gentile pride world wide.
Joy of Satan is about all the different races connecting with the Gods of old, that predated abrahamic filth by thousands of years, Gods that every gentile civilization knew by different names.
We are racially aware. We believe in practicing racial hygiene and so do our Gods. Every Gentile race is made by Satan, and is meant to evolve and grow on their own in their own way and each race has their own special characteristics. We all have one common enemy: the jews, and the ones that made them.
It is the intent by Satan and all the Gods of Hell that we advance spiritually and evolve into the best versions of ourselves for all our peoples. Alot of emphasis is put on whites surviving because we are a minority on this planet. But we need the other races to be fighting and standing with us as all gentiles are of Satan.
There were also Black and Arab SS units, Usbeks and Armenians ect. Unbenownst to many NS germany was very satanic and they despised xnity and all its jewish teachings.
You have a very abrahamic view of sex. The rebuttal of "i am not xtian" means nothing, as even atheists and agnostics and "pagans" from gab ect still have alot of abrahamic notions about Satan, gender relations, human nature and many other things. The brainwashing has been universal and is not limited to xtians or muslims.
You are passing off monogamy as the only way and are looking down on people for wanting to have sex. This is unnatural and wrong. The kundalini energy itself is purely sexual. The simple fact of nature is, is that some people are naturally monogamous while others are not. It is jewish to promote and force sameness and very communistic. We follow natural law and people following their own nature...for many this leads them to form families or monogamous pairs. For others it means having multiple partners or perhaps not at all.
You are speaking for a monogamy is a one size fits all deal from a very xtian tainted "white nationalist" doctrine. Almost all of stormfront and other "pagans" have the right idea about wanting to look out for whites in general, but everything they spout is full of xtian crap.
If you are serious about being here and have good and serious intentions, which i honestly am conflicted on, then you will study satanisgod.org, start meditating and start deprogramming yourself. you will find the topics there about the third reich and satanism also very interesting.
Also for the record, i hope you know its hypocritical to hope for a woman with a low sex partner count when you have confessed having many many others. I don't care what a man's excuse is, i would tell him to go on about the same sex life he has always had and flat turn him down, because i know for certain he is going to drift.
Shadowcat said:tabby said:Prisma said:Both of you make good points, and it has me wondering if perhaps the main difference between monogamous and polyamorous people could be a biochemical one. I already found out a while ago that there are genetic factors to it, so if it’s due to a neurochemical process like Shadowcat describes, then that process could simply be different for people who are polyamorously inclined.
I tend to find it difficult to let go, and as a result, it's happened before that I fell in love with a person while already being in love with another. When that happened, it felt like my very Soul was being torn apart in two directions. It was excruciating to the point that I broke down mentally, and was eventually able to break up when my emotions had gone completely numb from the pain. In hindsight that was for the best, as the relationship I was in at the time had unsolveable problems that only kept getting worse, so I had to let go.
Given that, I know that I personally could never love or date multiple people at the same time. I would experience a constant sense of numbness and agony, as for me to be in love means to devote my entire being to someone, but I only have a single self to devote.
Clearly, for you it works differently. It sounds like your bond with your Demon does not detract from your bond with Jrvan in any way. Instead of it being a matter of dividing what you have and merging, is it perhaps more like building bridges?
What I'm trying to say is, perhaps this "pair-bonding" that Shadowcat speaks of is actually really a thing. And perhaps, due to some genetic or neurochemical difference or whatnot, you and Jrvan are able to "pair-bond" with multiple people at the same time. After all, there doesn't appear to be a desire to expand the relationship further than it has, so it's not like like there's isn't any pairing at all.
Both of you are involved in two pairs each, but unlike would be the case for me, those pairs and bonds aren't mutually exclusive.
At the very least, that's what it looks like from my outside perspective. Is that what it feels like to you as well?
Perhaps that is a more wise way of looking at it.
Both my Demon lover and Jrvan are my family. To me at least, it's like creating a small family unit together. I trust them completely and I am treated just as important to them as anyone else they love in their life.
Labels of what the relationship is really don't matter to me anyone, and feels like it puts things into an unnecessary box. It just is what it is. Whatever my partners needs are, I will do my best to provide that, if things change I will change with it.
Trying to explain about it any further and I'll just end up repeating myself. :lol:
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
This is precisely the argument i have been making the whole time....If you had significant knowledge of astrology which i recommend it is very rewarding, you will agree with a lot of what i have presented.
A i said, natural predispositions...
Also something I wanted to add as far as the hurt aspect, if this is a factor with any. Someone experiencing disappointment and developing a nihilistic approach to sex and love is also a problem with bonding with others as we know. Having satanic knowledge can fix this but depends on the person and how much energy is required,it isnt easy 123, this may take a long time, but is not impossible obviously. But because the majority population does not have this knowlege and until more and more SS significantly advance, my point about monogamous pair bonding this whole time with either case will still stand as i have been speaking for the present tense of things as a whole, and not just about the 2 percent.
Kudos to any exceptions, as these must become the norm in time i should hope, but this is not the case yet, and it will take a long time before the majority of people advance and become self aware.
This is also all I have to say myself about it. All relations are different and fit each one of us different, indeed without labels.
Shadowcat said:
Shadowcat said:
The Outlaw Torn said:What’s with the hostility? I gave you sound advice. If you don’t like it then all I have to say is, “don’t hate the player hate the game”. I didn’t make it this way, but it is this way, so you have to work within these parameters when it comes to a relationship. If not then you won’t be successful, again not my fault.Shadowcat said:Shut the fuck up already and Leave. You are a useless piece of shit and everything you say is nothing but trash.
tabby said:Shadowcat said:tabby said:Perhaps that is a more wise way of looking at it.
Both my Demon lover and Jrvan are my family. To me at least, it's like creating a small family unit together. I trust them completely and I am treated just as important to them as anyone else they love in their life.
Labels of what the relationship is really don't matter to me anyone, and feels like it puts things into an unnecessary box. It just is what it is. Whatever my partners needs are, I will do my best to provide that, if things change I will change with it.
Trying to explain about it any further and I'll just end up repeating myself. :lol:
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
This is precisely the argument i have been making the whole time....If you had significant knowledge of astrology which i recommend it is very rewarding, you will agree with a lot of what i have presented.
A i said, natural predispositions...
Also something I wanted to add as far as the hurt aspect, if this is a factor with any. Someone experiencing disappointment and developing a nihilistic approach to sex and love is also a problem with bonding with others as we know. Having satanic knowledge can fix this but depends on the person and how much energy is required,it isnt easy 123, this may take a long time, but is not impossible obviously. But because the majority population does not have this knowlege and until more and more SS significantly advance, my point about monogamous pair bonding this whole time with either case will still stand as i have been speaking for the present tense of things as a whole, and not just about the 2 percent.
Kudos to any exceptions, as these must become the norm in time i should hope, but this is not the case yet, and it will take a long time before the majority of people advance and become self aware.
This is also all I have to say myself about it. All relations are different and fit each one of us different, indeed without labels.
You seem upset with me, so I scrolled back through the comments to see what I missed…
If you’re referring to these two comments:
Shadowcat said:Shadowcat said:
Frankly… as I type this I still haven’t read them in their entirety. I saw the one where you told me to ignore something you had said in a comment before it first. Confused by this, I went to check the other one at the part mentioned (scrolling upward naturally brings up the bottom part of a comment first either way)… I didn’t want to read the rest after that.
I’m not sure how you expect me to ignore that, Shadowcat. Not with the intention behind them and the sensation that it caused in my chest chakra. I guess I understand now what you meant about being careful with who you open your heart to.
You do a lot of good for the forums, and I appreciate the help you have previously given me directly and indirectly. It won’t be going to waste.
However, you should know by now I’m not one to forget an insult even if it was born out of an error, nor the use of manipulation. You meant those words, and I’m not exactly feeling encouraged to seek further help from your knowledge bank if it is going to be used against me and shame me with it whenever you lose your temper.
btw, the whole pair bonding thing sounds like bullshit from people who have hangups.
You can use magick to break and destroy bonds with people you've had sex with in order to have new relationship/s with people freely. You can also reform bonds you've previously broken with the same person again. Limiting yourself to have sex with as few people as possible to retain idk purity?? Come on.
What have people been reading the years they've been in JoS?
tabby said:Shadowcat said:tabby said:Perhaps that is a more wise way of looking at it.
Both my Demon lover and Jrvan are my family. To me at least, it's like creating a small family unit together. I trust them completely and I am treated just as important to them as anyone else they love in their life.
Labels of what the relationship is really don't matter to me anyone, and feels like it puts things into an unnecessary box. It just is what it is. Whatever my partners needs are, I will do my best to provide that, if things change I will change with it.
Trying to explain about it any further and I'll just end up repeating myself. :lol:
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
Personally, I think astrology has a lot more to do with how one bonds with others than anything else.
This is precisely the argument i have been making the whole time....If you had significant knowledge of astrology which i recommend it is very rewarding, you will agree with a lot of what i have presented.
A i said, natural predispositions...
Also something I wanted to add as far as the hurt aspect, if this is a factor with any. Someone experiencing disappointment and developing a nihilistic approach to sex and love is also a problem with bonding with others as we know. Having satanic knowledge can fix this but depends on the person and how much energy is required,it isnt easy 123, this may take a long time, but is not impossible obviously. But because the majority population does not have this knowlege and until more and more SS significantly advance, my point about monogamous pair bonding this whole time with either case will still stand as i have been speaking for the present tense of things as a whole, and not just about the 2 percent.
Kudos to any exceptions, as these must become the norm in time i should hope, but this is not the case yet, and it will take a long time before the majority of people advance and become self aware.
This is also all I have to say myself about it. All relations are different and fit each one of us different, indeed without labels.
You seem upset with me, so I scrolled back through the comments to see what I missed…
If you’re referring to these two comments:
Shadowcat said:Shadowcat said:
Frankly… as I type this I still haven’t read them in their entirety. I saw the one where you told me to ignore something you had said in a comment before it first. Confused by this, I went to check the other one at the part mentioned (scrolling upward naturally brings up the bottom part of a comment first either way)… I didn’t want to read the rest after that.
I’m not sure how you expect me to ignore that, Shadowcat. Not with the intention behind them and the sensation that it caused in my chest chakra. I guess I understand now what you meant about being careful with who you open your heart to.
You do a lot of good for the forums, and I appreciate the help you have previously given me directly and indirectly. It won’t be going to waste.
However, you should know by now I’m not one to forget an insult even if it was born out of an error, nor the use of manipulation. You meant those words, and I’m not exactly feeling encouraged to seek further help from your knowledge bank if it is going to be used against me and shame me with it whenever you lose your temper.
I haven’t “badmouthed” anyone.Shadowcat said:Maybe others should have asked you that when you badmouthed Lydia and VOE.
Yes I agree. That was my whole point. I thought you didn’t understand that and saw marriage as useless which is why I made that comment…Marriage is more than just a piece of paper.
Shadowcat said:tabby said:Shadowcat said:This is precisely the argument i have been making the whole time....If you had significant knowledge of astrology which i recommend it is very rewarding, you will agree with a lot of what i have presented.
A i said, natural predispositions...
Also something I wanted to add as far as the hurt aspect, if this is a factor with any. Someone experiencing disappointment and developing a nihilistic approach to sex and love is also a problem with bonding with others as we know. Having satanic knowledge can fix this but depends on the person and how much energy is required,it isnt easy 123, this may take a long time, but is not impossible obviously. But because the majority population does not have this knowlege and until more and more SS significantly advance, my point about monogamous pair bonding this whole time with either case will still stand as i have been speaking for the present tense of things as a whole, and not just about the 2 percent.
Kudos to any exceptions, as these must become the norm in time i should hope, but this is not the case yet, and it will take a long time before the majority of people advance and become self aware.
This is also all I have to say myself about it. All relations are different and fit each one of us different, indeed without labels.
You seem upset with me, so I scrolled back through the comments to see what I missed…
If you’re referring to these two comments:
Shadowcat said:Shadowcat said:
Frankly… as I type this I still haven’t read them in their entirety. I saw the one where you told me to ignore something you had said in a comment before it first. Confused by this, I went to check the other one at the part mentioned (scrolling upward naturally brings up the bottom part of a comment first either way)… I didn’t want to read the rest after that.
I’m not sure how you expect me to ignore that, Shadowcat. Not with the intention behind them and the sensation that it caused in my chest chakra. I guess I understand now what you meant about being careful with who you open your heart to.
You do a lot of good for the forums, and I appreciate the help you have previously given me directly and indirectly. It won’t be going to waste.
However, you should know by now I’m not one to forget an insult even if it was born out of an error, nor the use of manipulation. You meant those words, and I’m not exactly feeling encouraged to seek further help from your knowledge bank if it is going to be used against me and shame me with it whenever you lose your temper.
I have by the way emailed you Tabby. I dont want this to drag on and waste others time as well. I will leave my explanation there. Hopefully it can be worked out
Top Striker said:As long as the non whites are within our countries ,they are all our mortal enemies. Every single one of them.Shadowcat said:Top Striker said:I don't even understand what is going on here ? How can you foster strong white families with a promiscuous father or mother ? How can you do this with the Divorce ? I thought this was a fucking White Nationalist forum with a strong emphasis on spirituality but a bunch of posters are arguing for normalizing promiscuity. Am i in the wrong place ???
This not faggot chan or storm front.
This is a place for not just white, but also black, mestizo, arab and asian pride as well. Gentile pride world wide.
Joy of Satan is about all the different races connecting with the Gods of old, that predated abrahamic filth by thousands of years, Gods that every gentile civilization knew by different names.
We are racially aware. We believe in practicing racial hygiene and so do our Gods. Every Gentile race is made by Satan, and is meant to evolve and grow on their own in their own way and each race has their own special characteristics. We all have one common enemy: the jews, and the ones that made them.
It is the intent by Satan and all the Gods of Hell that we advance spiritually and evolve into the best versions of ourselves for all our peoples. Alot of emphasis is put on whites surviving because we are a minority on this planet. But we need the other races to be fighting and standing with us as all gentiles are of Satan.
There were also Black and Arab SS units, Usbeks and Armenians ect. Unbenownst to many NS germany was very satanic and they despised xnity and all its jewish teachings.
You have a very abrahamic view of sex. The rebuttal of "i am not xtian" means nothing, as even atheists and agnostics and "pagans" from gab ect still have alot of abrahamic notions about Satan, gender relations, human nature and many other things. The brainwashing has been universal and is not limited to xtians or muslims.
You are passing off monogamy as the only way and are looking down on people for wanting to have sex. This is unnatural and wrong. The kundalini energy itself is purely sexual. The simple fact of nature is, is that some people are naturally monogamous while others are not. It is jewish to promote and force sameness and very communistic. We follow natural law and people following their own nature...for many this leads them to form families or monogamous pairs. For others it means having multiple partners or perhaps not at all.
You are speaking for a monogamy is a one size fits all deal from a very xtian tainted "white nationalist" doctrine. Almost all of stormfront and other "pagans" have the right idea about wanting to look out for whites in general, but everything they spout is full of xtian crap.
If you are serious about being here and have good and serious intentions, which i honestly am conflicted on, then you will study satanisgod.org, start meditating and start deprogramming yourself. you will find the topics there about the third reich and satanism also very interesting.
Also for the record, i hope you know its hypocritical to hope for a woman with a low sex partner count when you have confessed having many many others. I don't care what a man's excuse is, i would tell him to go on about the same sex life he has always had and flat turn him down, because i know for certain he is going to drift.
"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan