Larissa666 said:
Hello all.
I think this might be a bit of a problem, maybe not, but I don’t know if I can be sure.
My nephew (sister’s son) is 3 years old. He seems to understand what you are telling him, but he refuses to talk. I tried to teach him few words, but so far, he is reluctant to try. Only “word” he speaks so far is “hey”, when he wants your attention.
I wanted to ask if anyone knows if I can use magick or something similar to help him? If so, what would that be?
Thank you in advance.
Hail Satan!
I might have some help to offer here. This may or may not be a concern. Both of my children were silent types and both have a heavy earth. A double Capricorn son, and a Taurus Virgo daughter. I think she’s actually got an earth grand tribe too.. Both are very intelligent but just are not inclined towards using their words to communicate. My son is really prone to putting up with things and my daughter is really prone to grudges. At just two, instead of a tantrum, she will put herself in a corner and death stare when she is angry. My own brother did not speak a word until he was 4 years old, and he suddenly began speaking completely normally, in this day and age he certainly would have been diagnosed as autistic but he grew up to be very normal and intelligent. He is not an earth sign, he’s a cancer libra. Also an asshole, but normal. Look for any signs of earth in the chart.
If it is an earth thing, it still should be worked on and could still signify an issue. Sometimes it’s a matter of communicating in a way that works for them. My son is incredibly stubborn and holds everything in, he’s always been so quiet. When he was just a baby he would not even cry when he was hungry. He would just grunt when he was hungry and I’d know to feed him. He’s normal now and doesn’t need any special classes, but I was concerned about him for a long time.
He has an aunt who is a child psychologist. Whenever she is around, I do not understand entirely what she does with him, but he turns into a completely different person. He suddenly just talks and talks and talks in a way that I’ve never heard him talk. She gives him a lot of direct attention and let’s him take the lead, and somehow she even puts ideas in his head without even saying anything. She got him to poop on a potty for the first time without even saying to do so. Which was her intention, but how she did it was mind blowing. Taking him to a therapist can’t hurt. Some parents really set their kids back by not allowing them to see any therapists because they think it would mean their kid has a problem. Parents also contribute to problems. I have a friend who drives her child up a fucking wall and causes him a lot of anguish because she’s just got an incredibly aggressive personality and doesn’t even realize it. She also takes offense at the slightest hint of criticism, so saying anything is useless. Doctors tried to say he was autistic too, and he is certainly not autistic but his mother is borderline verbally abusive. She also spanks him far too often, and started far too young. She’s just kind of entirely awful with her child. Her child had a moon in Capricorn. Kids who are being abused in some way can often have extreme tantrums. It’s hard to tell what’s extreme though, because kids naturally have extreme tantrums.
Does he ever open up at all, in any situation? You should ask the parents when he is the MOST talkative. Sometimes parents just don’t match up with the way their kids communicate, and it’s difficult and time consuming.. almost impossible.. to try and completely change your personality to fit theirs perfectly. Parenting is a 24/7 job, so if there’s anyone that really knows how to communicate with him having that relationship in their life more could be really beneficial.