Men and Woman differences?

[Big Dipper]

WARNING this gets a little nasty.
hey there, so a few years back, while i happened to be a lavayanist, i really started to hate woman. i was so jealous of the female body, because i was born male and pleasure was very much an obsession at the time, but i couldnt have any pleasure in anything and i just started to wonder: " why is it girls can literally cry from just one finger but a male is designed from birth to not ever feel that type of sensation?" (this whole ordeal was sex related) i got so into it , it was absurd. i put myself into a deep depression over it, that i could never feel anything similar to that, because i was male. BUT its ok now i've totally gotten over it and have been for years, but i wonder: was there ever a reason woman are just more sensitive, or do males feel the same thing, but they're just not as emotional about it?
OR, pleasure-wise, do males get the most pleasure just by having a mate, OR does non of it really matter and it just is what it is?
years ago i just assumed and had went with the idea that woman were created to feel way more pleasure than men, because they were created to give painful birth and have annoying periods, so it evened out.
What are your philosophies on this?
*finger pistols*

 

[Ghost in the Machine]

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Woman are more naturally in tune to their upper chakras which interprets feelings, emotions and energy manifestations as these feelings, it doesn't have too much to do with the physical body itself per say, this includes sexual arousal which rises from the sacral chakra as fiery energies (of which most men naturally have lots of and then bring this out into the female they connect sexually with of which they then experience powerfully). They feel emotional energies like this more strongly because of their natural tunement to the upper chakras and psychic centres of which are feminine in rulerships so they are more open to it and in experiencing it.

So in this context, yes, men (with spiritual knowledge on how to) can most definitely be able to experience and feel pleasure in the way woman do in this context. When I am in tune with my upper chakras and the feminine aspects and opened to connection with the manifesting experiences of the sexual energy from my sacral chakra, pleasure I've found is much more powerful and immense, and yes waterworks have definitely happened, but it is addictive and you'll have to learn to discipline yourself to keep in moderation. When I'm not in tune like this, then yes sex is more as you've described where it's less emotional, more physical and lust driven, not a whole lot of powerful connective feelings going on, but this isn't a bad thing as sometimes I desire this more strongly than the other spectrum from time to time, switching back and forth.

I am twin souled though so this probably makes me more naturally inclined to be able to tune into the feminine aspects like this according to my own spiritual make-up in that I am almost equally in tune with the feminine as I am to masculine, I'd imagine a bit more effort and training/empowering of your psychic centres and their feminine aspects might be needed for someone who is more strongly tied to one spectrum instead of both. You don't have to change yourself or do anything drastic like doing a hundred venus planetary squares, just teaching yourself how to turn your attention to and tune into the feminine energies and psychic centres a bit better can help, and of course healthy upper feminine chakras helps. You should equally learn how to tune out as well and return to your natural state of grounding afterwords, balance and discipline.

Also if the sacral chakra is debilitated or blocked in any way this can greatly reduce and affect your ability to feel sexual pleasure so keep that in large mind as well as this could potentially be what your issue is. This can happen if you have a debilitated Mars in your natal chart. And yes connecting sexually with a mate definitely helps I've found because it's a bond of shared and harmonic pleasures because this is the combined balancing of one another's energies which works together in duality to manifest the stronger energies thus the stronger feelings in every aspect. I've definitely found it is far more pleasurable to have sex with a partner you can safely and healthily connect to than to just go it alone in a solo session.

Hope this clears the air a bit and makes at least some sense. The information here is not really organized in a clean and simplified manner that I usually prefer with my posts but I might be able to clarify any confusion from it at a later date if you have any further questions.

 

[InnerMercury20]

WARNING this gets a little nasty.
hey there, so a few years back, while i happened to be a lavayanist, i really started to hate woman. i was so jealous of the female body, because i was born male and pleasure was very much an obsession at the time, but i couldnt have any pleasure in anything and i just started to wonder: " why is it girls can literally cry from just one finger but a male is designed from birth to not ever feel that type of sensation?" (this whole ordeal was sex related) i got so into it , it was absurd. i put myself into a deep depression over it, that i could never feel anything similar to that, because i was male. BUT its ok now i've totally gotten over it and have been for years, but i wonder: was there ever a reason woman are just more sensitive, or do males feel the same thing, but they're just not as emotional about it?
OR, pleasure-wise, do males get the most pleasure just by having a mate, OR does non of it really matter and it just is what it is?
years ago i just assumed and had went with the idea that woman were created to feel way more pleasure than men, because they were created to give painful birth and have annoying periods, so it evened out.
What are your philosophies on this?
*finger pistols*

Maybe the technique is off it needs to be more gentle or maybe theyre not wet enough or they're too tight. Keep nails manicured and washing hands before doing this can definitely help.

I personally have no problems feeling pleasure nor does my male partner.

Also noticed my spiritual advancement has definitely enhanced pleasure,, can't say what exactly but not many can..

Everyone's woman's pu$$y is different and every dick is different.

Some females flick their bean too much or too hard and ruin the nerve endings in the clitoris and becomes a lot less sensitive.


Also the males have more way more pleasure and are way more sensitive than those who.. :evil: the bad thing.

Also I guess the male prostate is supposedly the "g spot" of men in not sure how true this is ? Maybe this is another reason.. I'm not knowledge on male anatomy.

 

[Dahaarkan]

I don't understand this post.

If what you are saying is that sex as a male is not pleasurable, or less so than for women, well I can't confirm because I can't switch bodies. But I've met dudes that are super sensitive as well.


But sex is supposed to be pleasurable regardless. Perhaps you should try new things, or perhaps there's parts of your sexuality that you are denying or holding back. It's up to you to explore your sexuality. Having sex with different people will open you to new things as everybody is into different things and you might discover stuff you like this way.

 

[ChattingWithDemons]

WARNING this gets a little nasty.
hey there, so a few years back, while i happened to be a lavayanist, i really started to hate woman. i was so jealous of the female body, because i was born male and pleasure was very much an obsession at the time, but i couldnt have any pleasure in anything and i just started to wonder: " why is it girls can literally cry from just one finger but a male is designed from birth to not ever feel that type of sensation?" (this whole ordeal was sex related) i got so into it , it was absurd. i put myself into a deep depression over it, that i could never feel anything similar to that, because i was male. BUT its ok now i've totally gotten over it and have been for years, but i wonder: was there ever a reason woman are just more sensitive, or do males feel the same thing, but they're just not as emotional about it?
OR, pleasure-wise, do males get the most pleasure just by having a mate, OR does non of it really matter and it just is what it is?
years ago i just assumed and had went with the idea that woman were created to feel way more pleasure than men, because they were created to give painful birth and have annoying periods, so it evened out.
What are your philosophies on this?
*finger pistols*

I know a circumcised guy who says very similar things, he really suffers from it immensely. I've been recommending him to work on improving his astral senses so he can maybe supplement the physical sensation with, that but I suppose that's easier said than done.

But guys whose stuff works properly seem to actually enjoy sex a lot. Sure, it may be limited to a single orgasm, but the amount of energy that builds up and explodes seems very immense, even just sensing it second-hand. Isn't letting it all out with a big bang (so to speak) satisfying in its own way? They can't even do anything sexual anymore for a bit afterwards, like a cannon is loaded and needs to cool down after being fired before it can be reloaded. Isn't that just kind of epic?

I suppose it's hard to compare the total amount of pleasure / bliss / enjoyment derived from it, but it seems to me like it's similarly enjoyable for both sexes in their own ways.
Sensitivity varies from person to person anyway and depends on many physical, mental and spiritual factors.

 

[Libra]

I don’t mean to be rude, but is the only experience you’ve had with women through pornography? Women are not that sensitive. A lot of them can’t even have vaginal orgasms. And when you’re not aroused, sticking a finger in there just feels like any other touch sensation. We aren’t getting pleasure from inserting tampons and getting Pap smears. Like some people are more ticklish than others. Same concept.

Personally, I’ve always thought men were more sensitive and was jealous of them for a bit, ironically. Six inches of pleasure, give or take, and a prostate to add. Maybe you should look into prostate stimulation if you desire that sort of pleasure.

That and it’s not as difficult to please most men. Women can be way more particular. In my experiences. It depends on the person a lot though. Even though half of us have the same parts doesn’t mean we all have the same experiences. We don’t all like strawberry ice cream, but we all have tongues.

Honestly, I think you should do some more research on anatomy and the physiological nature of sex before tackling the philosophical side...

 

[Big Dipper]

I don’t mean to be rude, but is the only experience you’ve had with women through pornography? Women are not that sensitive. A lot of them can’t even have vaginal orgasms. And when you’re not aroused, sticking a finger in there just feels like any other touch sensation. We aren’t getting pleasure from inserting tampons and getting Pap smears. Like some people are more ticklish than others. Same concept.

Personally, I’ve always thought men were more sensitive and was jealous of them for a bit, ironically. Six inches of pleasure, give or take, and a prostate to add. Maybe you should look into prostate stimulation if you desire that sort of pleasure.

That and it’s not as difficult to please most men. Women can be way more particular. In my experiences. It depends on the person a lot though. Even though half of us have the same parts doesn’t mean we all have the same experiences. We don’t all like strawberry ice cream, but we all have tongues.

Honestly, I think you should do some more research on anatomy and the physiological nature of sex before tackling the philosophical side...

this was a few years ago when i was totally different when i had the question : "woman could cry with a finger..." and all that, but today i dont have the same question as i did then. i was just still curious from those years on why woman were so more sensitive to men, but i forgot to take into account that not everyone is the same and i am only going off of porn (not that i like the stuff, i know it's all fake and crap, so it doesn't work for me). i didn't mean to make this post about sex though lol oopsie, i just assumed they (girls) were all the same, sensitive-wise, because satan made them that way for reasons, but i guess not. thx for replying too. also strawberry ice cream sucks which is a shame; i dont like those little red tidbits they ruin it for me.
*finger pistols*

 

[Crystallized Mushroom]

WARNING this gets a little nasty.
hey there, so a few years back, while i happened to be a lavayanist, i really started to hate woman. i was so jealous of the female body, because i was born male and pleasure was very much an obsession at the time, but i couldnt have any pleasure in anything and i just started to wonder: " why is it girls can literally cry from just one finger but a male is designed from birth to not ever feel that type of sensation?" (this whole ordeal was sex related) i got so into it , it was absurd. i put myself into a deep depression over it, that i could never feel anything similar to that, because i was male. BUT its ok now i've totally gotten over it and have been for years, but i wonder: was there ever a reason woman are just more sensitive, or do males feel the same thing, but they're just not as emotional about it?
OR, pleasure-wise, do males get the most pleasure just by having a mate, OR does non of it really matter and it just is what it is?
years ago i just assumed and had went with the idea that woman were created to feel way more pleasure than men, because they were created to give painful birth and have annoying periods, so it evened out.
What are your philosophies on this?
*finger pistols*

I don't know if women are more sensitive sexually then men but I heard the main sources of pleasure is the clitoris and foreskin unless of course your circumcised in which case you could lose alot of sensation though that depends on the man

 

[ChattingWithDemons]

I wasn't sure to mention this but I suppose I might as well, it might be insightful to some people.

For me personally, I'm far more sensitive astrally than phsyically, and for a long time I've had some body issues that prevent me from enjoying physical sex. Since I started meditating this life, I've become even more sensitive to energy, and eventually I stopped bothering with physical stimulation at all since it would only distract from the energetic/astral sensations. Until about a month ago I was dating a guy who is quite good at astral sex, and I'd never felt better (basically constant orgasms until both my astral and physical body went kind of numb and only bliss remained).

I assumed that physical sex was similarly enjoyable for people without body issues or sensitivity problems (since the energy body overlaps with the physical, so I figured it could only be even better), but based on the other replies in this thread that doesn't seem to be the case, hence why I decided to mention this after all.
Even if forgoing physical stimulation altogether is maybe a bit extreme for most people (I'm probably just falling into old habits, I spent a very long time as a ghost after I died a few lifetimes ago and got used to not having a physical body, but I'm still looking to solve my body issues in the future), increasing sensitivity to energy and focusing on the physical and the astral simultaneously might still be a way to enhance the total amount of pleasure and make it more enjoyable. Obviously, it's also great for long distance relationships as well where physical stimulation is more limited.

On the topic of purely astral sex (for long distance relationships): a trance is not really needed for projection, just having the intent to project is enough and then the person's energy body can be felt, and if you have good astral sight then the energy can also be seen, all while being fully aware physically at the same time. After projecting close to one's partner, physical movements can be used for more fine-tuned movements. Just make sure to return your astral awareness to your physical location afterwards because projecting for too long seems to make the physical body grow increasingly weak and difficult to move; although strength is quickly regained after returning, and with practice it becomes possible to project for longer durations without getting as tired.
The stronger your connection with your partner (which grows over time) and the more open your and your partner's astral senses, the more intense and vivid it becomes for both people involved.

But even for actual physical sex, I feel like people would enjoy it a lot more if they just opened their senses more and focused on the energetic sensations as well as the physical, instead of only the physical. I feel a bit silly now for being so envious of people who are able to enjoy physical sex when it sounds like I'm actually enjoying it even more than they are.