Jack
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I was thinking about this subject where we argue on the forums and it turns pretty dirty very soon with members calling each other names, maybe someone will even call others jews simply for disagreeing with them. I'm certainly not averse to this and I apologize to anyone who I might have attacked personally in the heat of the moment.
The thing is you debate with your ideas. Each one of us should have an ideology where we're mentally advancing. If someone finds flaws in our thinking and points it out to us, we should be happy as we can now strengthen the argument further or discard it for better ones. Just because you're wrong, doesn't make you stupid or bad as a person. It makes the idea stupid or bad. We aren't all 100% logical and we make a lot of mistakes in our life. If you look back to years before there might be certain moments to which you look at and go ,"Bro why did I do that ? It's so stupid. I should have done x instead of y." Humans make mistakes and learning from mistakes is called evolution. You should hold onto your beliefs until you are clearly disproven in your arguments. Then it's time for you to change them.
Theres also the thing of something might be good for you but bad for others. People interpret reality through their emotions and projections and we don't have a perfect logical brain. If we did, everyone would reach the same conclusion like w robot. But thankfully we as humans have chaos in our ideological diversity and thinking which makes interactions so much more fun.
So let's not take it personally and get along regardlessofour disagreements. Let's take it Constructively instead and check our arguments for faults. If it doesn't have faults, we should point that out to the other side and check their arguments. On a side note, arguments about culture are generally not going to reach a conclusion because people will not reach common ground here. Many of us are coming at it with completely different frames out mind. We have feminists who will fanatically defend the liberal system and try to then put the blame on the system as well, paradoxically. But we don't have a comprehensive list of the things we can't or can culturally allow. Its all for personal choice. If we try to come up with something, the closest we can reach is NS Germany. But many people will argue that that's not going to be applicable currently for a variety of reasons. I disagree, but I understand where they are coming from. The point is let's put our positions but let's not attack someone for disagreeing with us. Let's all be civil here.
The thing is you debate with your ideas. Each one of us should have an ideology where we're mentally advancing. If someone finds flaws in our thinking and points it out to us, we should be happy as we can now strengthen the argument further or discard it for better ones. Just because you're wrong, doesn't make you stupid or bad as a person. It makes the idea stupid or bad. We aren't all 100% logical and we make a lot of mistakes in our life. If you look back to years before there might be certain moments to which you look at and go ,"Bro why did I do that ? It's so stupid. I should have done x instead of y." Humans make mistakes and learning from mistakes is called evolution. You should hold onto your beliefs until you are clearly disproven in your arguments. Then it's time for you to change them.
Theres also the thing of something might be good for you but bad for others. People interpret reality through their emotions and projections and we don't have a perfect logical brain. If we did, everyone would reach the same conclusion like w robot. But thankfully we as humans have chaos in our ideological diversity and thinking which makes interactions so much more fun.
So let's not take it personally and get along regardlessofour disagreements. Let's take it Constructively instead and check our arguments for faults. If it doesn't have faults, we should point that out to the other side and check their arguments. On a side note, arguments about culture are generally not going to reach a conclusion because people will not reach common ground here. Many of us are coming at it with completely different frames out mind. We have feminists who will fanatically defend the liberal system and try to then put the blame on the system as well, paradoxically. But we don't have a comprehensive list of the things we can't or can culturally allow. Its all for personal choice. If we try to come up with something, the closest we can reach is NS Germany. But many people will argue that that's not going to be applicable currently for a variety of reasons. I disagree, but I understand where they are coming from. The point is let's put our positions but let's not attack someone for disagreeing with us. Let's all be civil here.