How to be happy? With self-love

[Disciple of the Serpent]

I want to write a couple of things, this will be a short post, which I hope will give some inner insights, and inspire someone.

How to be happy? With self-love.

During the long journey to know yourself, a journey that involves liberation, deprogramming, purification, healing and contact with the Gods. One of the greatest joys you can get in this is loving yourself, in the depth, history and identity of your soul.

Unfortunately, 99% of us have grown up in a world where standards are imposed, to be beautiful, successful, happy, worthy, etc....

Standards imposed by social media, films, mainstream "religions" such as christianity or islam, and more.

These involve mundane things that have no real importance, or if they do have importance such as money and wealth, a means that unlocks opportunities and allows you to support yourself. They focus on mundane aspects that do not capture the essence of things.

Still others are pure emotional traps that keep you from advancing, and still others are designed to create social disasters.

Then in our personal experiences we may also have known evil people who abuse the weaknesses of others, or who make us feel inadequate or inferior.

Speaking from my own experience, I can say that our past is circumstantial and in one way or another has brought us here where we are. As bad as it may have been, it does not define who we really are; it shows areas to be corrected.

And we should correct them with understanding and simpathy for ourselves, as we can still makes errors during these processes. And not by punish ourselves even more.

Ourselves is all that we are and can be, so why not love ourselves? From this there will only be positive results that will branch out in your life, a foundation to build on.

Then you can be really happy and at peace, and you can really enjoy your life.

Or you can continue to hate yourself, and damn your existence as a result, so spending effort and courage for change is worth all the time it's needed.

Self-knowledge and self-love are also prerequisites for higher advancement and Kundalini work.

May Lord Azazel Apollon, guide us to self-knowledge and self-love.

 

[Draconi666]

It's very crucial to love oneself, but in my experience this doesn't come easy until I made self worth of my love for my self, even here I used that concept that everything should be earned even love.

Maybe I pushed too hard with this, maybe we should love ourselves because of our potential(Like Gods do,) not because of my results and who I become.

But still this my personal approach pushed me more and motivated to work on myself harder and more being focus on the path.

 

[Draconi666]

Very good topic brother

 

[Disciple of the Serpent]

It's very crucial to love oneself, but in my experience this doesn't come easy until I made self worth of my love for my self, even here I used that concept that everything should be earned even love.

Maybe I pushed too hard with this, maybe we should love ourselves because of our potential(Like Gods do,) not because of my results and who I become.

But still this my personal approach pushed me more and motivated to work on myself harder and more being focus on the path.

What you are doing, the results, the potential, everything, it's you.

It's like a basis, it's what you are.

Even when you think about all of this, the way you think is a reflection of yourself, not the purest, but that of your current state.

The Gods know us, and love us for our own nature, but they spend time and energies with those who are serious in advancement and those who work for the community or on other very important matters.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

That's a very good point!
I reached the point in my advancement, where lack of self-love is blocking me. But working on it, and working with Wunjo Rune on my Hearth Chakra yes, is helping, but the biggest obstacle is mind programming that causes this blockage.

Still others are pure emotional traps that keep you from advancing, and still others are designed to create social disasters.

This is what I basically found in my experience. Lack of self-love is caused by others, by childhood lack of love or mistreatmen that caused the mind to be programmed. This engraves in the subconscious and it's a hard battle to reprogram it. I think, the majority of people suffers from lack of self-love, and this causes giant problems in life.

Here in the forum I found empathy, help, a safe place where to evolve, many many valuable information and superior thoughts by many people. But there's something that I don't like too much, is that every single problem we have IT IS YOU, you are the cause, you need to correct it, it's in your mind/chakras/karma ... so on. This is 90% true but what happens if - just once - we say that this problem IS OTHERS' FAULT???
Yes, it is. If many people do not love themselves is the fault of others. I really agree 100% they are emotional traps designed to create social disasters, as you say. Very good point.
And what happens if this time, to heal this problem, I just BLAME others and mentally send them to fuck off? It works for me. Because it shifts love to myself and un-love to others. Just reversing things.
You may use Munka meditation several times, but if you don't understand consciously that others are to blame, not you, the blockage persists. At least, it was so for me.