Good video on friends -

[Sundara]

https://youtu.be/5tejTV2s-Ak?si=893qNSBhQW7XriGH

This is some advice for people who may feel overwhelmed with a relationship and can’t really figure out what it is. Apologies for being lazy or lacking originality with posting videos, not in the mood to overstate something or try to overwrite or rewrite something in my own words. Maybe that would not even really be that original. But maybe it would.

Anyway, reading some of the comments, someone said…

“I left a friendship for the first time recently. I felt manipulated for quite a while. Something just felt off. Then she asked a couple sensitive questions about my kids. I felt like she was phishing. Since it was a long distance friendship it was a clean easy break.

It definitely still affected me. Embarrassing that I had such needy insecurities on display for a predator. Then second guessing myself if I was interpreting things incorrectly. At the end I just decided family first, end of story.“

I like how this was casually put, because just from a distant standpoint it seems like maybe this could’ve been a situation with a seriously bad outcome. Sometimes this is all the thought a situation needs and no one is really owed anything more elaborate than just that. If you’re not really gathering the thoughts or even able to have a conversation with someone, you can figure out what it is in time after some space. And then an atrocious waste of time or damage can even be avoided.

I almost want to reply and ask what the persons race or religion is. This is actually the only place I write a lot or “publicly”.

 

[Lunar Dance 666]

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Thank you for sharing. She does say quite a few good points in the video. Just be aware that it is always hard to see red flags.
And that its easy to fall for tricks you've never seen or heard before.

I understand that sometimes things don't always line up and things don't always work out no matter what but it is also protection of yourself, to be a little careful and reevaluate things.

 

[Sundara]

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Thank you for sharing. She does say quite a few good points in the video. Just be aware that it is always hard to see red flags.
And that its easy to fall for tricks you've never seen or heard before.

I understand that sometimes things don't always line up and things don't always work out no matter what but it is also protection of yourself, to be a little careful and reevaluate things.

Sure thing, thanks. Maybe spiritual protection and meditation is enough along with just maintaining good character. Friends and community are important to longevity more than anything unreasonable.

 

[nebu]

everything bad that negatively impacts relationships in a standard way in my soul, i have marked.

and also in the sense that i have distorted conceptions of what an intimate relationship is and how much i have to donate and keep feeding people.

since april 3, 2022, the date i started working on the soul, my focus has never been anything on removing direct things from this.

making good money is much easier than having someone who “depends” on you and asks you for things frequently, going out somewhere for nothing or sending messages out of boredom.

currently, as i have already completed spiritual stages and accelerated A LOT in my material life, i have a lot of time left for my merit and achievement, and not having people by my side is a nuisance and is needed, especially in sex, and it is just a physiological interest, just that.

but my incentives for having all this selfish effort came from having self-sufficiency, dignity and knowing what a life is.

balance really takes time, but i imagine that even though you have positive energies in relationships in general, it must be a struggle to find someone who is good enough to stay by your side at any level, with the way things are nowadays, that shit.

i really wanted to have sex, but my city doesn't even have any known whores, so i could simply pay.
fuck.

in this case i have to try with women who have no price $$, and it is an absurdly expensive “value”, time to TRY to have SOMETHING, damn.

but my next focuses will be indirect and will cover all this part of relationships, then i’ll be free…