Missrainbow1 said:
Soul Wings said:
Lately, I am seeing a lot of media surrounding the divine feminine and what they think it means. A lot of crap from xianity and muslims.
Masculine = doing. Feminine = being.
A lot of women giving dating advice to other women to be passive and allow the man to approach, otherwise he will be in his "feminine energy" (passive).
To believe themselves so valuable that their time and energy is worth the man covering for entirely. If a man doesn't pay for you he doesn't believe in your worth.
I am unsure what to think on these matters because personally, I believe if I had never approached a man myself, I wouldn't have dated anybody in my life, or dated somebody that I wanted to. Most men you approach as a woman will say yes. Most men will pay half (or even in full) if you ask. Most guys that have approached me, I would not date.
I am also not entirely a traditionalist and not dating to start a family, I expect my man to ideally cover half expenses and half chores. As well as handle other things in life maturely. I expect him to have ambition, and other positive things, just as I do.
When I picture the Gods, they do not stand idly by and wait for good things. They take charge of their reality and we follow their lead.
What do you think? Do you agree, disagree? What is your personal experience with this?
We believe men and women have both energies.Both masculine and feminine.You can read it in the library section.
What social media is talking about is extremely unattractive and stupid.
Women should not ever get angry
women should not vote
women should not have a right to get divorce
Rape should be allowed in marriage
women should not work
Women should not have sex before marriage
Women should not be smart
Women should not be strong
Women should not talk
Women should not wear pants
No abortion rights even if you may die during giving birth or were raped
All you have to do is to smile pretty and shut up
These stupid things are not femininity.These things are just worthlessness.Femininity doesnt mean be worthless and weak and stupid.
I believe there is a lot of useful and amazing sermons about this in Joy Of Satan's library section that could be more useful than what we can tell you.
There is also a specific sermon that talks about the Ida and pingala polarities of the human soul (masculine /feminine) and how some women are naturally more of a pingala nature and some men more of an Ida nature.
It will not always correlate with their courting or sexual behaviors or preferences but 90 to 95 percent of the time it does. In other words masculine women will want femininity. If she is straight she will want a feminine man or if she is bi she will prefer femininity in both sexes most of the time. Vice versa for men. The preferences and manifestations of this can range widely. The love life and daily life can be different too.
It's insane how xtian programming has brainwashed people so much. If it weren't for it I would have discovered and accepted certain things about me much sooner and I might have been saved alot of head and heartache. I grew up always having a predominant masculine disposition and it is also to be heard in my voice and seen in my face. I felt naturally attracted to feminine men most of the time.
There came a time however (and a certain someone was no help...) Where I felt pressured from several sources including myself to present and act more feminine. I thought I was supposed to and I thought this made me happy , also because I thought it would attract they type of man i for a time thought i wanted as a result (someone not so feminine but I clashed with them always, crushes and even an ex. Due to being too "manly"). I felt that this was expected of me and I had to live up. I tried growing my hair longer to hide my strong jawline and broad shoulders....and did so poorly. It didn't hide my harsh facial features either. And no matter what I failed hard at coming across as naturally feminine even in my voice, getting mistaken for "sir". 100 percent of the time.
People even when I dressed and tried to act feminine commented on how manly my face looked or how i behaved. It got to the point where i felt such self hatred and useless as a female and even had fleeting thoughts of just wanting to ...be gone. It hurt that bad. I wanted to go to the point almost of changing my voice with surgery. I realized after a time that I was trying to be something I was not and it was making me go insane almost.
After a sun square in the spring for self awareness and identity a massive manifestation happened. Something I have actually been quite preoccupied with. I realized something about me and my own preferences and my own natural tendencies and as a result I stopped trying to hide the things I should have just been amplifying. I have always had dominant pingala energy and this even manifests in my appearance. As comfortable and happy as I am with my female body and always will be, i can now also accept and be happy that this is naturally also part of me...and the people i do feel attracted to that have what I lack will like me back for it too. This revelation has helped me accept myself on another level and several sermons that relate to such topics that I found also were a huge help.
If you are a masculine female or a feminine man don't have self hate. There are people who will be attracted to you and want to be around you because you have things they don't and vice versa. Just like any other person. You are who you are and discovering the dominant polarity of your soul is like learning weather you are born left or right handed. It also doesn't make you homo or bi automatically but if this is one of the natural manifestations in you organically this is totally fine too, as long as you aren't making a point to follow some degenerate fad.
Look at trans people for example. *Cough* jewish shit.
They are even a statement in it self that the opposite gender is some how "wrong" for having more of the other energy which is of course nonsense. (and even goes against most queer views about not conforming to gender as it is LOL muh wrong body and cut muh dick off cus men are supposed to be men and women supposed to be feminine! Wat??) Ye insane much.