Controlling others people mind is possible, yes.
Everyone is controlling each other on a subconscious level. The topic in itself is complex and can't be simply put in just few words or propositions but Yes, this is very possible, some are born with this and some develop this ability, some become stronger spirituality and manifest things unwillingly as well (that's why controlling your own very mind is crucial) so before you're thinking about how to manipulate others, think how can you manipulate yourself and then, you would not even need to control others.
"For a man to conquer himself is the first and noblest of all victories." - Plato
"Man conquers the world by conquering himself"
I understand the urge and desire, that's why I've brought a topic about loving spell and sex to come up on this very moment and releasing the other bits of this knowledge and the wisdom of it. Remember this, although the desire and pleasure is strong, you should invest all the resources onto your own very self and then, you will do have all you need. It's up to each individual to decrypt this meaning and in time with spiritual evolution one would perceive this knowledge differently from the moment it was first read.