Demonolater2023
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Recently 2 of my cousins came to the town I live because they had job interviews and we spend some time together. They are not x-tians and I try to help anyone who wants to escape my insane abusive xtian family. One of them shared her situation and asked for advice and I decided to post here because maybe someone else can also add information and help.
Because my cousin is a girl she grew up with the x-tians gate-keeping her sexuality (the whole ''no one will date my daughter'' trope), she was not allowed to date until she finished college, women who dated where considered ''sluts'', blah blah you can imagine.
Her mother (my aunt) agreed to let her move out pre-covid under the term she would live with another girl they ''approve of'' and working at the same job as that girl. My cousin accepted because she really wanted to get out of the house without really knowing the girl apart from the fact that our family knows hers. Now this is where things start to be VERY strange.
According to my cousin (information about the roommate girl): first of all the girl is a pathological liar and pretty much everything my family knows about her is a lie. She is terrible at her job and they keep her because she used to be on special aid and was diagnosed with ''emotional disturbance'' at 17. I tried to find information about that disorder in adults, but only found information for children which didn't help. That girl sits at home all day playing extremely repetitive and monotonous computer games when she is not at work, imagine the type where you click the same button all day like she is brain-dead.
She is extremely passive aggressive and doesn't lift a finger to help my cousin around the house and says ''just ask me what you want''. For example if my cousin tells her ''please do your laundry'' she will say ''ok, I will do it later after I finish X/Y/Z thing in the game'' but the later is not specified, could be in an hour, could be in 2 weeks. And she always does it a half assed way, like ''forgetting'' half the clothes inside the washing machine or ''forgetting'' to add detergent etc. My cousin used grey rock, not being around in the house and other popular psychological techniques and they all failed and in fact made things worse because the roommate stirred even more drama and fake incompetence to get attention.
My cousin said she is feeling a strange negative energy and drained from that roommate and feels immediately better when the roommate is asleep. The conception of that roommate is a very strange story, apparently her parents had one child at 24 and then for 13 years they could not conceive another and then started going to some xtian church (I looked it up and it's definitely a cult) and prayed and her mother conceived that roommate at 37.
Ok to not make this post too long, recently the roommate became extremely critical and full of contempt for my cousin, they were at work and the roommate kept telling my cousin how to do something over and over and over until my cousin started crying and asked her to stop and she would still continue like a robot and then my cousin lost it and slapped the roommate hard and called her a parasite and a loser and now they are both about to lose their job.
Of course my xtian family forced my cousin to apologize to the ''poor disabled girl who had good intention".
I have already shared with her a lot of the materials here but she is very beginner and I think she will need months of practice, I wonder what else can I share to help.
For the next 30 days she has to live with said roommate and if she gets accepted in the job in my town she will leave and I will help her get a place, otherwise she will keep looking.
She said that after that incident the roommate has become even more rude, constantly whining, twisting and playing the victim and there is a lot of bad luck in the house and money delays (my cousin also works online as side gig for extra money on fiverr and all her payments are late and she has a very hard time).
Could that roommate be a thoughtform or something else and not a real human? Many people cursed my aunt who was a swindler back in the day, she had a business and tried to scam her employee and fire them without pay and many are known to curse her. From what my cousin says I have never seen anyone living such a repetitive life, having 3 friends their entire life, always working a dead end job and clicking a game the rest of the time and having a very high idea of themselves (the roommate thinks she is an awesome person and should be a role model for other women bc xtianity). It's like her brain is empty and no matter someone tries to teach her she cannot learn and there is not actual change or improvement (maybe 5%, but fake and it soon immediately reverts to the clicking zombie routine).
Opinions very welcome!
Because my cousin is a girl she grew up with the x-tians gate-keeping her sexuality (the whole ''no one will date my daughter'' trope), she was not allowed to date until she finished college, women who dated where considered ''sluts'', blah blah you can imagine.
Her mother (my aunt) agreed to let her move out pre-covid under the term she would live with another girl they ''approve of'' and working at the same job as that girl. My cousin accepted because she really wanted to get out of the house without really knowing the girl apart from the fact that our family knows hers. Now this is where things start to be VERY strange.
According to my cousin (information about the roommate girl): first of all the girl is a pathological liar and pretty much everything my family knows about her is a lie. She is terrible at her job and they keep her because she used to be on special aid and was diagnosed with ''emotional disturbance'' at 17. I tried to find information about that disorder in adults, but only found information for children which didn't help. That girl sits at home all day playing extremely repetitive and monotonous computer games when she is not at work, imagine the type where you click the same button all day like she is brain-dead.
She is extremely passive aggressive and doesn't lift a finger to help my cousin around the house and says ''just ask me what you want''. For example if my cousin tells her ''please do your laundry'' she will say ''ok, I will do it later after I finish X/Y/Z thing in the game'' but the later is not specified, could be in an hour, could be in 2 weeks. And she always does it a half assed way, like ''forgetting'' half the clothes inside the washing machine or ''forgetting'' to add detergent etc. My cousin used grey rock, not being around in the house and other popular psychological techniques and they all failed and in fact made things worse because the roommate stirred even more drama and fake incompetence to get attention.
My cousin said she is feeling a strange negative energy and drained from that roommate and feels immediately better when the roommate is asleep. The conception of that roommate is a very strange story, apparently her parents had one child at 24 and then for 13 years they could not conceive another and then started going to some xtian church (I looked it up and it's definitely a cult) and prayed and her mother conceived that roommate at 37.
Ok to not make this post too long, recently the roommate became extremely critical and full of contempt for my cousin, they were at work and the roommate kept telling my cousin how to do something over and over and over until my cousin started crying and asked her to stop and she would still continue like a robot and then my cousin lost it and slapped the roommate hard and called her a parasite and a loser and now they are both about to lose their job.
Of course my xtian family forced my cousin to apologize to the ''poor disabled girl who had good intention".
I have already shared with her a lot of the materials here but she is very beginner and I think she will need months of practice, I wonder what else can I share to help.
For the next 30 days she has to live with said roommate and if she gets accepted in the job in my town she will leave and I will help her get a place, otherwise she will keep looking.
She said that after that incident the roommate has become even more rude, constantly whining, twisting and playing the victim and there is a lot of bad luck in the house and money delays (my cousin also works online as side gig for extra money on fiverr and all her payments are late and she has a very hard time).
Could that roommate be a thoughtform or something else and not a real human? Many people cursed my aunt who was a swindler back in the day, she had a business and tried to scam her employee and fire them without pay and many are known to curse her. From what my cousin says I have never seen anyone living such a repetitive life, having 3 friends their entire life, always working a dead end job and clicking a game the rest of the time and having a very high idea of themselves (the roommate thinks she is an awesome person and should be a role model for other women bc xtianity). It's like her brain is empty and no matter someone tries to teach her she cannot learn and there is not actual change or improvement (maybe 5%, but fake and it soon immediately reverts to the clicking zombie routine).
Opinions very welcome!