UDDTHU
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All of you, even just once, have experienced love in your youth.
You've seen a beautiful and kind-hearted girl, or an attractive and gentle boy. This bitter reality that the person you're living with now might leave your side today is relatively harsh.
In our mother tongue, we have a proverb that says: "The only thing that's impossible is just what's impossible. Someone who dies of excessive love for you, may leave you today."
Maybe this proverb doesn't work very well in English. But he got the point.
I used to be very hostile to these words in my early youth. I would tell myself that these are the words and tales told by those who have failed in love to others. But I wish it were so.
People come and go; can you be the one who always stays?
The departure of people we love and who love us can be very painful. But it has as much or even more positive and golden point to it. The fact that love may not remain, but you learn a lesson that always does, is a positive thing.
That's right. I miss her too, and now I remembered her. My girlfriend was a very kind, playful, witty, and kind-hearted girl that I don't think I'll find someone like her again. Am I crying? No, I don't think so.
The romantic relationships I had were three or four. Each lasted a year or half a year. Well. But you said that people leaving teaches a lesson. Yes, I'm telling you now.
My first relationship was with a girl who lived far away from me. She was in another city. At that time, I wanted to drop out of school and no longer study. But she grabbed my attention and said to me: "Hey! What do you want to do with your life? Tell me. What are you interested in? I want to study architecture. Are you interested in the field I want to study? If your answer is yes, we can study together. Isn't that good?". And she made me in college now
). She's not with me now.
My second romantic relationship also had a valuable lesson. My girlfriend and I spent the whole day together, and during that time, I couldn't meditate much because of her. Several times, I was inspired to: "Leave her. Start your spiritual progress again. Start and continue your journey."
She left me a month ago. For the weirdest and most unbelievable reason, she left me alone. But what was the lesson of this relationship? That I shouldn't put my way and myself second.
Those two other relationships I had in the past years made my attachment much less. It's true that humans need a companion.
But loneliness grows you.
If you're young, don't sacrifice your mind and thoughts for a romantic relationship and work on yourself for now.
Give yourself time alone to get to know yourself. You'll also learn a hundred percent from your romantic relationships. Someone who loves you and you love them will have the greatest impact on you.
That's why gods and the universe teach you this way, and it's best to learn the lessons well.
You've seen a beautiful and kind-hearted girl, or an attractive and gentle boy. This bitter reality that the person you're living with now might leave your side today is relatively harsh.
In our mother tongue, we have a proverb that says: "The only thing that's impossible is just what's impossible. Someone who dies of excessive love for you, may leave you today."
Maybe this proverb doesn't work very well in English. But he got the point.
I used to be very hostile to these words in my early youth. I would tell myself that these are the words and tales told by those who have failed in love to others. But I wish it were so.
People come and go; can you be the one who always stays?
The departure of people we love and who love us can be very painful. But it has as much or even more positive and golden point to it. The fact that love may not remain, but you learn a lesson that always does, is a positive thing.
That's right. I miss her too, and now I remembered her. My girlfriend was a very kind, playful, witty, and kind-hearted girl that I don't think I'll find someone like her again. Am I crying? No, I don't think so.
The romantic relationships I had were three or four. Each lasted a year or half a year. Well. But you said that people leaving teaches a lesson. Yes, I'm telling you now.
My first relationship was with a girl who lived far away from me. She was in another city. At that time, I wanted to drop out of school and no longer study. But she grabbed my attention and said to me: "Hey! What do you want to do with your life? Tell me. What are you interested in? I want to study architecture. Are you interested in the field I want to study? If your answer is yes, we can study together. Isn't that good?". And she made me in college now
). She's not with me now.My second romantic relationship also had a valuable lesson. My girlfriend and I spent the whole day together, and during that time, I couldn't meditate much because of her. Several times, I was inspired to: "Leave her. Start your spiritual progress again. Start and continue your journey."
She left me a month ago. For the weirdest and most unbelievable reason, she left me alone. But what was the lesson of this relationship? That I shouldn't put my way and myself second.
Those two other relationships I had in the past years made my attachment much less. It's true that humans need a companion.
But loneliness grows you.
If you're young, don't sacrifice your mind and thoughts for a romantic relationship and work on yourself for now.
Give yourself time alone to get to know yourself. You'll also learn a hundred percent from your romantic relationships. Someone who loves you and you love them will have the greatest impact on you.
That's why gods and the universe teach you this way, and it's best to learn the lessons well.
Especially, We guys, we will promised girls things we can't fulfilled at the end.
