Wotanwarrior said:
I think it's silly to obsess about losing your virginity as soon as possible, instead of doing it properly, the best thing you can do is to work on attracting a partner or lover who is right for you.
There is something so wrong in this day and age in our culture when it comes to sex. People are getting sold these illusions of how the world works.. "only really cool guys, not you, get pussy. girls only like them and you stand no chance if you're not brad pitt or some raindancing stinky dreadlocked rapper."
Don't take other people's word or experiences for anything, assume everything in YOUR life will be different for YOU. You are unique, you are different! Your experience may vary and deviate from that which has been observed by others. You create the world around you. I learned it's not hard at all to get laid, just be confident and take care of yourself. Go talk to girls.. as long as you don't give up you wont fail. Yes people can be rude, you can fail, you can be rejected, etc, but almost every human being wants an intimate connection with someone else.. keep that in mind, it's in our nature to be in pairs and to unite that way. Be the best version of yourself that you can be and other people will want you. Take care of yourself, focus on your life, and the energies that creates will make it easier for you to find friends or a girlfriend or to achieve successes. Always better yourself.. you aren't here to be shat on or to be meek or meager.. Satan wants you to be great and proud and shining. It all comes from within.. it's hard, but you can do it.