Family #76580 Number of children for a single mother

[AskSatanOperator]

Is having 3 or more children wrong?
I'm a young woman and I'm no longer a teen
I'm planning to make my life stable enough to have kids in the future
Marriage doesn't last these days so I may never try it because it won't last anyways
I love children a lot and I will want to have them
Is this frowned upon by Gods?
I know single motherhood is fine my question is about intentional single motherhood
I mean planning to become a single mother in the future as I find it more stable for children
I fear marriage and its consequences
I'm not promiscuous at all and dont have any intention to have that lifestyle.
I just see no point in modern day marriage as it ends in divorce anyways
I need help with pregnancy ethics
Standards for parenthood

 

[Aleksios]

No, it's so beautiful. I want a big family too. Why do you think you're not young? I'm sure you're very beautiful.
New marriages don't end in divorce. I'm sure you'll have a very good marriage.

This is a very long period and I understand that you are worried.

 

[Lightning_Puma]

Children need both parents. Mothers for the more feminine, beauty role models and one connecting to their emotions and Fathers so the children can grow up being confident and have better material wealth in one's life as well as what to strive for in one's life as well as relationships.

A child cannot grow up without another, they need both.
If it wasn't necessary, women wouldn't need to get pregnant in the first place, which comes from a man. A union between two people is sacred and a child needs both role models.

Work upon yourself and free of negative karma controlling your life and then when the time is right, both for you and astrologically - do a love spell to attract the right partner to yourself and have a beautiful, loving, Satanic family.

 

[Aquarius]

deprogram yourself from these lies that "marriages don't last", they do and can last, you find the right man and it's gonna be great.

 

[Epiphany]

deprogram yourself from these lies that "marriages don't last", they do and can last, you find the right man and it's gonna be great.

People these days rush into things, or confuse infatuation with love, and many are unwilling to do the work that goes into real love. I know somebody who's been married for decades and they told me that there were points early in the marriage where divorce was on the table.

It took counseling and changes by both people, but they've been happy together ever since. Decades. And they have grandkids now.

That doesn't happen often, because it demands goodness, awareness and effort. And you could say that if both people aren't willing to try for each other and for their kids, then love was never there to begin with.

You shouldn't be afraid to find a good man to marry. Other people's failures don't belong to you. Other people's problems aren't your problem.

But you shouldn't make your failure or unwillingness to find a husband your children's problem, by making them grow up without a father, which will also mean growing up without a mother because you will then have to work more and be away from your kids.

 

[Epiphany]

People these days rush into things, or confuse infatuation with love, and many are unwilling to do the work that goes into real love. I know somebody who's been married for decades and they told me that there were points early in the marriage where divorce was on the table.

It took counseling and changes by both people, but they've been happy together ever since. Decades. And they have grandkids now.

That doesn't happen often, because it demands goodness, awareness and effort. And you could say that if both people aren't willing to try for each other and for their kids, then love was never there to begin with.

You shouldn't be afraid to find a good man to marry. Other people's failures don't belong to you. Other people's problems aren't your problem.

But you shouldn't make your failure or unwillingness to find a husband your children's problem, by making them grow up without a father, which will also mean growing up without a mother because you will then have to work more and be away from your kids.

Sorry Aquarius, this wasn't really meant to be a reply to you, it was for OP.

 

[Epiphany]

I fear marriage and its consequences
I'm not promiscuous at all and dont have any intention to have that lifestyle.
I just see no point in modern day marriage as it ends in divorce anyways

Also, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the courts tend to favor women. If you pick a good man and have genuine love then there is nothing to fear.

 

[Proshat]

3 children are too hard for one person
Two parents work hard all their lives and still find it hard to give their kids everything they want
Most married couples I see have 1 or 2 kids
I dont mean to be judgemental , I'm saying this for yourself
Raising kids is harder than what most people think.I had to babysit my newborn cousin for a short period of time to understand

 

[logicalmind]

Duration of the marriage depends on two people. The quality of marriage is directly proportional to the quality of parties involved in the marriage. You should first learn to create and maintain the relationship.

 

[Deadly Nightshade]

Cast away your limiting beliefs. Children are a union of souls binding karmic fates. Manifest the soul you want to bind with.

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

Is having 3 or more children wrong?
I'm a young woman and I'm no longer a teen
I'm planning to make my life stable enough to have kids in the future
Marriage doesn't last these days so I may never try it because it won't last anyways
I love children a lot and I will want to have them
Is this frowned upon by Gods?
I know single motherhood is fine my question is about intentional single motherhood
I mean planning to become a single mother in the future as I find it more stable for children
I fear marriage and its consequences
I'm not promiscuous at all and dont have any intention to have that lifestyle.
I just see no point in modern day marriage as it ends in divorce anyways
I need help with pregnancy ethics
Standards for parenthood

I recommend that you find a loving man who will love you and with whom you can create a strong family.

Not all marriages end in divorce, there are many marriages in which different numbers of children are born, while these families have very good relations between all family members and no one gets divorced.

Maintaining a comfortable family climate will depend not only on your husband, but also on you. In a family, it is very important to be a responsible parent and be able to listen to your partner, as well as find common ground that will help resolve conflict situations (if they arise), or prevent them from occurring.

All men are different, but as far as finding a reliable, family-oriented man is concerned, perhaps you should look at those men who are not so popular with women because of their greater modesty compared to other men, but who may turn out to be golden people in all respects, in other words, do not choose womanizers to create familie.

I've seen a lot of young girls who got badly burned walking with different assholes who used them solely as nozzle of banana, promising eternal love and serious relationships, but then changed them like gloves (when they got bored sex with them), despite the fact that they were popular with the vast majority of girls.

I wish you to find a loving, real man who will be focused on starting a family with you and will be able to raise your children with strong and healthy personalities, will become a reliable support and protection for your family and children.