Experiencing betrayal can make it feel like this behavior is universal, as it is hard not to generalize such behavior when the wounds are fresh. And hearing similar stories, like your friend’s, can make it feel like suffering is inevitable, but that’s just a reflection of shared pain, and not an objective truth.
Most men are not polygamous. Monogamy has always been the norm for the majority of people. Polygamy today exists, though often among consenting adults, yet remains relatively rare in most societies. Polygamy is an idolatry that stems from the Abrahamic teachings, such as Muhammad having five wives (a stolen and perverted concept), or women in general being suppressed in worth in Xianity and Islam.
Now, the Jewish media frequently reinforces harmful stereotypes, and often focuses on extreme behaviors (e.g., toxic masculinity or radical feminism). This includes behaviors such as the belief that "all men cheat" or "men are naturally unfaithful," as well as the stereotypes that "all women are gold diggers" or "women are overly emotional and irrational."
These negative portrayals not only perpetuate a sense of inevitability around infidelity, but also create a toxic subliminal that creates mistrust between genders. These harmful stereotypes can lead to resentment and/or despair, where both genders feel unjustly labeled or pressured to conform to a toxic archetype. This creates a cycle of division, and is orchestrated by the Jews to stoke conflict, weaken societal unity, and distract the masses. Furthermore, this creates subconscious hang-ups and contributes to the accumulation of negative karma as people give in to these programmings.
Then you have porn addiction; excessive porn consumption can lead to a diminished emotional connection, as the addicted partner may prioritize porn over meaningful time with their partner. The non-addicted partner may feel ignored or undervalued, which causes feelings of loneliness and resentment. Overexposure to porn can even desensitize individuals, making real-life sexual experiences seem less exciting or fulfilling, where the addicted person lose interest in actual sexual intimacy, as the brain becomes overstimulated and desensitized.
Healthy relationships exists, and are built on trust, respect, and communication. You don’t have to settle for someone who consistently disrespects you. The idea that women are destined to "suffer in silence" is rooted in outdated and harmful beliefs that stems from Abrahamic teachings. You deserve love that feels safe, empowering, and fulfilling.
One can perform Sex Magick and use Runes during a Waxing Moon in Taurus, Libra, Leo, or Cancer to improve and strengthen the bond and sexual intimacy with a partner in a healthy and positive way, particularly for those who lack emotional and sexual intimacy in their relationships. Positive changes are possible.
To remove negative karma involving relationships, a
Freeing the Soul working is highly recommended and can be extremely beneficial in preventing the replication of these issues. Afterward, one can perform a Venus Square to attract the most compatible and loving partner into their life.