why won't he call me back..?A BIT OF RELATIONSHIP ADVICE NEEDED

[sillynut]

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[Haizuru Ishida]

Okay...let me first say I'm a guy and I'll try to explain the situation with him. You said he doesnt like confrontation and that he's laid back so that would contribute as to why he doesn't communicate with you. Also as it seems it looks like he might just want someone just so he could get money in his pocket; still lives with his ex. He would presumably be the male form of a gold digger or a money leech. You should get your money back as you are entitled to it..it was a loan and he must pay it back. In my view of your story you shouldn't worry about him and what you should do is cut the ties that you formed with him so that you don't continually become hindered by this experience. Listen, not all men are "evil" as you put it. It's just that you met a douche and not an actual man. Plus he isnt even making the slightest effort to support himself as he still lives with his ex and also doesn't have a firm job or any job for that matter. Don't get so worked
up on it,he was full of lies and wasn't really the one you were looking for. This happens sometimes whenever you meet someone and feel like they complete you. But keep your head up and keep looking, he's out there somewhere looking for you.

Ave Satanas!

On Tue Jul 12th, 2011 10:30 AM EDT sillynut wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[[email protected]]

I DONT BLAME YOU AT ALL! I guess you are African like me.
He DOES NOT love you, (he is a player). EX-gf? NAH! They are very much together & He is telling his gf that 'YOU ARE DISTURBING HIM'. The girlfriend is housing, clothing &feeding him ''and for the services his gf is rendering, he has to payback with sex''
Maybe the money he took from you, he used it to buy her a gift. I know what i'm saying.
My first & only relationship started last year, we dated for 7 months, NO SEX, ended this year. we kept avoiding sex. Man, i did crazy things too! " i shared half of my money with her monthly"I came to know she was a player (she never knew) but i didnt want to 'lose her'. I later tried to play her too but i got 'burnt'.Thanks to the enemy i dropped out of uni in my 2nd year, last year'. BUT thanks to Father i'm going back to uni this year. All this while i was dedicated. i came to know the enemy was attacking me. 'she kissed our relationship goodbye'. we still talk but i dont have feelings 4 her anymore.
HS!

 

[Allison P]

Agreed with Haizuru and Wizard on this one. Forget the bastard, sever
the ties and move on. He's not worth it, sis. There are plenty of
nice, honourable guys out there. Go find one of them. ^ Hail Father
Satan!

On 7/13/11, wizardpriest@... <wizardpriest@... wrote:
I DONT BLAME YOU AT ALL! I guess you are African like me.
He DOES NOT love you, (he is a player). EX-gf? NAH! They are very much
together & He is telling his gf that 'YOU ARE DISTURBING HIM'. The
girlfriend is housing, clothing &feeding him ''and for the services his gf
is rendering, he has to payback with sex''
Maybe the money he took from you, he used it to buy her a gift. I know what
i'm saying.
My first & only relationship started last year, we dated for 7 months, NO
SEX, ended this year. we kept avoiding sex. Man, i did crazy things too! " i
shared half of my money with her monthly"I came to know she was a player
(she never knew) but i didnt want to 'lose her'. I later tried to play her
too but i got 'burnt'.Thanks to the enemy i dropped out of uni in my 2nd
year, last year'. BUT thanks to Father i'm going back to uni this year. All
this while i was dedicated. i came to know the enemy was attacking me. 'she
kissed our relationship goodbye'. we still talk but i dont have feelings 4
her anymore.
HS!

 

[darrklady13]

He is avoiding you.

FORGET HIM.

Move on....and find another.

AVE SATAN

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@... wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[David1]

ah yea, i personally believe that you got screwed over,

guys will say anything to get a girl hoked on them. but not all guys are bad. most of them,honestly(im a guy). play it safe with the one they like.

listen, i hate to say it, but i think that he knew that you and him were never gonna work out.you should have seen it coming when you found out that he was still with his EX

i personally think that it wasnt on his agenda, i do believe that he was just using you for money, and some time to socially cheat off his EX

his position with her is unknown, but that doesnt matter

all that does is

how are you gonna get back at him.

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@... wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[tanya.azazel]

That guy is playing games. Forget about him and find someone else. It might hurt but it's better now then if you stay with him for years and this same stuff is going on. Then later down the road it will hurt even more then now. If he truly loved you he would leave his ex, also he wouldn't care what his ex has to say. He's jobless and trying to get money out of you or whatever else he wants. He'll go back to his ex with the money you give him to enjoy it with her. Anyone living with there ex for months is doing something because they had sex with them before am sure so they'll do it again. Especially if there under the same house hold. You'll find someone else, don't give up. There are plenty of other guys out here who are good guys.

Hail Satan! Hail Azazel! Hail the Gods of Duat!

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

He is avoiding you.

FORGET HIM.

Move on....and find another.

AVE SATAN

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@ wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[sillynut]

THANK YOU EVERYONE SOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR REPLIES.. I DELETED HIM OFF MY PHONE BUT NOW I HAVE NO WAY OF CONTACTING HIM TO GET THE MONEY OFF HIM...DOES ANYONE KNOW IF THE DESTRUCTION RITUAL I DID ON THE EX WOULD REMAIN OR WOULD IT NOT WORK? I HAVE A FEELING THE DESTRUCTION RITUAL WILL REMAIN...I CAN'T STAND THE GUY NOW BECAUSE HE ISN'T EVEN BOTHERING TO CONTACT ME! AND FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE CURIOUS I ONLY STARTED REALLY TALKING TO THIS GUY ONLY LIKE 2 MONTHS AGO AND ALL OF A "SUDDEN" HE LIKED ME AND STRANGELY I STARTED TO FALL FOR HIM.

.WE WERE TALKIN LIKE FOR YEARS BECAUSE HE CLAIMED HE SAW ME ON FACEBOOK AND LIKED ME BUT WAS HITTING ON MY HOUSEMATE AT THE TIME WHO NEVER GAVE HIM THE TIME OR DAY..I HAVE NO IDEA WHY HE ASKED ME TO ADD HIM ON BB AND STARTED TO TALK TO ME THIS YEAR! I WASNT EVEN INTERESTED AT FIRST. IVE NEVER FALLEN FOR ANY GUY BEFORE AND IVE NEVER GIVEN A GUY MONEY BEFORE EITHER..STRANGE..!

I JUST HAD A GOOD FEELING ABOUT HIM BUT IT COULD BE THE ENEMY..HE;S AN "XTIAN" AFTER ALL..I KNEW HE WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, ESP WHEN HE TOLD ME HE WAS STILL LIVING WITH HIS EX. APPARENTLY IT WAS A "CIVIL PARTNERSHIP" HMMM STILL LIVING WITH HIS EX..AM GLAD I FOUND OUT THE TRUTH ANYHOW WHEN I TEXTED HIM AND HE HAD A GO AT ME LIKE THAT SAYING I'D CAUSED AN ARGUMENT...HIS EX CLEARLY STILL LOVES HIM IF SHE HAD AN ARGUMENT WITH HIM...HE'S CLEARLY A FOOL IF HE THINKS I FELL FOR IT..I ALSO NEVER HAD SEX WITH HIM SO AM PLEASED ABOUT THAT BUT THEN I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE SEXUAL FRUSTRATIONS AS I CURRENTLY HAVE NO GUY ATM (SOB SOB) i think i might become a lesbian! lool joke.

AM ACTUALLY BEGINNING TO GET OVER THIS GUY WHOM I HAD NO FEELINGS FOR WHATSOEVER AND STRANGELY BEGAN TO FALL FOR..AM NT SURPRISED IF I WAS A VICTIM OF SOME VOODOO/LOVE SPELL BUT THEN I HAD BEEN FALTERING WITH MEDITATIONS AND NOT PROTECTING MYSELF ENOUGH AS MY SENSITIVITY AND EMOTIONS LEAVE ME OPEN AND VULNERABLE AND SOMETIMES DISTRACTED FROM MEDITATIONS BUT THAT IS CHANGING NOW!..
AND WIZARD WE NEED TO TALK MORE LOOL. YOU CAN ADD ME ON YAHOO IF YOU WANT. MY EMAIL ADDY IS ON MY PROFILE.

I AM PLEASED TO SAY THIS EXPERIENCE HAS MADE ME NOTHING BUT STRONGER AND ALSO I ONLY LENT HIM £50...I COULD'VE GONE CRAZY AND LENT HIM MORE COS HE ASKED ME FOR MONEY AGAIN LIKE 2 MORE TIMES..WHICH I DIDN'T GIVE TO HIM ALTHOUGH I NEARLY DID..I FELT SYMPATHY FOR HIM BUT MAYBE THAT WAS WHAT WAS BLINDING ME..THE SYMPATHY.I WILL STILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHO THIS GUY WAS OR WHY I MET HIM OR WHY I FELL FOR HIM..ITS STILL A MYSTERY. BT HE WILL PAY THE £50 BACK SOMEHOW AND LUCIFER/SATAN WILL MAKE SURE OF IT..
HAIL SATAN!
HAIL AMON!
AND THE GODS OF DUAT
X

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], Allison P <apocalypseofjon@... wrote:

Agreed with Haizuru and Wizard on this one. Forget the bastard, sever
the ties and move on. He's not worth it, sis. There are plenty of
nice, honourable guys out there. Go find one of them. ^ Hail Father
Satan!

On 7/13/11, wizardpriest@... <wizardpriest@... wrote:
I DONT BLAME YOU AT ALL! I guess you are African like me.
He DOES NOT love you, (he is a player). EX-gf? NAH! They are very much
together & He is telling his gf that 'YOU ARE DISTURBING HIM'. The
girlfriend is housing, clothing &feeding him ''and for the services his gf
is rendering, he has to payback with sex''
Maybe the money he took from you, he used it to buy her a gift. I know what
i'm saying.
My first & only relationship started last year, we dated for 7 months, NO
SEX, ended this year. we kept avoiding sex. Man, i did crazy things too! " i
shared half of my money with her monthly"I came to know she was a player
(she never knew) but i didnt want to 'lose her'. I later tried to play her
too but i got 'burnt'.Thanks to the enemy i dropped out of uni in my 2nd
year, last year'. BUT thanks to Father i'm going back to uni this year. All
this while i was dedicated. i came to know the enemy was attacking me. 'she
kissed our relationship goodbye'. we still talk but i dont have feelings 4
her anymore.
HS!

 

[sillynut]

@garimevil i cant help it if i fell for him! i also thought he was gna leave his ex but he doesn't seem to be bothered atm and i don't really know what i'd do to get back at him...except get the money i gave to him back somehow really!

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "David" <garimevil@... wrote:

ah yea, i personally believe that you got screwed over,

guys will say anything to get a girl hoked on them. but not all guys are bad. most of them,honestly(im a guy). play it safe with the one they like.

listen, i hate to say it, but i think that he knew that you and him were never gonna work out.you should have seen it coming when you found out that he was still with his EX

i personally think that it wasnt on his agenda, i do believe that he was just using you for money, and some time to socially cheat off his EX

his position with her is unknown, but that doesnt matter

all that does is

how are you gonna get back at him.

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@ wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

 

[scornedhero666]

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "tanya.azazel" <tanya.azazel@... wrote:

That guy is playing games. Forget about him and find someone else. It might hurt but it's better now then if you stay with him for years and this same stuff is going on. Then later down the road it will hurt even more then now. If he truly loved you he would leave his ex, also he wouldn't care what his ex has to say. He's jobless and trying to get money out of you or whatever else he wants. He'll go back to his ex with the money you give him to enjoy it with her. Anyone living with there ex for months is doing something because they had sex with them before am sure so they'll do it again. Especially if there under the same house hold. You'll find someone else, don't give up. There are plenty of other guys out here who are good guys.

Hail Satan! Hail Azazel! Hail the Gods of Duat!

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

He is avoiding you.

FORGET HIM.

Move on....and find another.

AVE SATAN

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@ wrote:

guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)

I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..

I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!

I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..

IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"

I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...

This guy sounds like someone wanting drug money, Seriously though I would never do anything like that , though I may be nothing but a warrior a warrior still has honor enough to say if they like you or not with truth in their tongue.

 

[[email protected]]

Hi sillynut, did you see my email?. Or add me on fb, so we can chat 'priest dania' (my real name).


Hail Satan! Hail Astaroth! Hail Vepar! Hail HELL!

--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "sillynut" <asamoahflorence@... wrote:


THANK YOU EVERYONE SOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR REPLIES.. I DELETED HIM OFF MY PHONE BUT NOW I HAVE NO WAY OF CONTACTING HIM TO GET THE MONEY OFF HIM...DOES ANYONE KNOW IF THE DESTRUCTION RITUAL I DID ON THE EX WOULD REMAIN OR WOULD IT NOT WORK? I HAVE A FEELING THE DESTRUCTION RITUAL WILL REMAIN...I CAN'T STAND THE GUY NOW BECAUSE HE ISN'T EVEN BOTHERING TO CONTACT ME! AND FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE CURIOUS I ONLY STARTED REALLY TALKING TO THIS GUY ONLY LIKE 2 MONTHS AGO AND ALL OF A "SUDDEN" HE LIKED ME AND STRANGELY I STARTED TO FALL FOR HIM.

.WE WERE TALKIN LIKE FOR YEARS BECAUSE HE CLAIMED HE SAW ME ON FACEBOOK AND LIKED ME BUT WAS HITTING ON MY HOUSEMATE AT THE TIME WHO NEVER GAVE HIM THE TIME OR DAY..I HAVE NO IDEA WHY HE ASKED ME TO ADD HIM ON BB AND STARTED TO TALK TO ME THIS YEAR! I WASNT EVEN INTERESTED AT FIRST. IVE NEVER FALLEN FOR ANY GUY BEFORE AND IVE NEVER GIVEN A GUY MONEY BEFORE EITHER..STRANGE..!

I JUST HAD A GOOD FEELING ABOUT HIM BUT IT COULD BE THE ENEMY..HE;S AN "XTIAN" AFTER ALL..I KNEW HE WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, ESP WHEN HE TOLD ME HE WAS STILL LIVING WITH HIS EX. APPARENTLY IT WAS A "CIVIL PARTNERSHIP" HMMM STILL LIVING WITH HIS EX..AM GLAD I FOUND OUT THE TRUTH ANYHOW WHEN I TEXTED HIM AND HE HAD A GO AT ME LIKE THAT SAYING I'D CAUSED AN ARGUMENT...HIS EX CLEARLY STILL LOVES HIM IF SHE HAD AN ARGUMENT WITH HIM...HE'S CLEARLY A FOOL IF HE THINKS I FELL FOR IT..I ALSO NEVER HAD SEX WITH HIM SO AM PLEASED ABOUT THAT BUT THEN I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE SEXUAL FRUSTRATIONS AS I CURRENTLY HAVE NO GUY ATM (SOB SOB) i think i might become a lesbian! lool joke.

AM ACTUALLY BEGINNING TO GET OVER THIS GUY WHOM I HAD NO FEELINGS FOR WHATSOEVER AND STRANGELY BEGAN TO FALL FOR..AM NT SURPRISED IF I WAS A VICTIM OF SOME VOODOO/LOVE SPELL BUT THEN I HAD BEEN FALTERING WITH MEDITATIONS AND NOT PROTECTING MYSELF ENOUGH AS MY SENSITIVITY AND EMOTIONS LEAVE ME OPEN AND VULNERABLE AND SOMETIMES DISTRACTED FROM MEDITATIONS BUT THAT IS CHANGING NOW!..
AND WIZARD WE NEED TO TALK MORE LOOL. YOU CAN ADD ME ON YAHOO IF YOU WANT. MY EMAIL ADDY IS ON MY PROFILE.

I AM PLEASED TO SAY THIS EXPERIENCE HAS MADE ME NOTHING BUT STRONGER AND ALSO I ONLY LENT HIM £50...I COULD'VE GONE CRAZY AND LENT HIM MORE COS HE ASKED ME FOR MONEY AGAIN LIKE 2 MORE TIMES..WHICH I DIDN'T GIVE TO HIM ALTHOUGH I NEARLY DID..I FELT SYMPATHY FOR HIM BUT MAYBE THAT WAS WHAT WAS BLINDING ME..THE SYMPATHY.I WILL STILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHO THIS GUY WAS OR WHY I MET HIM OR WHY I FELL FOR HIM..ITS STILL A MYSTERY. BT HE WILL PAY THE £50 BACK SOMEHOW AND LUCIFER/SATAN WILL MAKE SURE OF IT..
HAIL SATAN!
HAIL AMON!
AND THE GODS OF DUAT
X
--- In [url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], Allison P <apocalypseofjon@ wrote:

Agreed with Haizuru and Wizard on this one. Forget the bastard, sever
the ties and move on. He's not worth it, sis. There are plenty of
nice, honourable guys out there. Go find one of them. ^ Hail Father
Satan!

On 7/13/11, wizardpriest@ <wizardpriest@ wrote:
I DONT BLAME YOU AT ALL! I guess you are African like me.
He DOES NOT love you, (he is a player). EX-gf? NAH! They are very much
together & He is telling his gf that 'YOU ARE DISTURBING HIM'. The
girlfriend is housing, clothing &feeding him ''and for the services his gf
is rendering, he has to payback with sex''
Maybe the money he took from you, he used it to buy her a gift. I know what
i'm saying.
My first & only relationship started last year, we dated for 7 months, NO
SEX, ended this year. we kept avoiding sex. Man, i did crazy things too! " i
shared half of my money with her monthly"I came to know she was a player
(she never knew) but i didnt want to 'lose her'. I later tried to play her
too but i got 'burnt'.Thanks to the enemy i dropped out of uni in my 2nd
year, last year'. BUT thanks to Father i'm going back to uni this year. All
this while i was dedicated. i came to know the enemy was attacking me. 'she
kissed our relationship goodbye'. we still talk but i dont have feelings 4
her anymore.
HS!