guys this is a pretty sensitive issue so i would appreciate some sensitivity please (IF YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FORGET IT! )
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)
I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..
I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!
I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..
IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"
I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...
well basically i was speaking to a guy for a while but earlier this year we got talking a bit more and he told me he liked me etc. Well i started to fall for him which was weird as i'd never fallen for a guy before..
i just had these instinctual thoughts and feelings that he was just right, despite the fact that he told me he was an xtian etc. Cos am intuitive.
well basically there's always been stuff going wrong when it comes to communication, because we were only able to communicate by phone as he supposedly didn't have internet cos he couldn't afford it. And so when i didnt hear from him i was always panicking (as you do) since am a v emotional and sensitive person. Well when i finally heard from him he asked me to lend me some money because he is still LIVING WITH HIS xtian EX (YEA I SAID IT) HE SAYS IT'S HIS EX BUT THE WEIRD THING IS HE SAYS THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 MONTHS AND NEVER HAD SEX (SOMEHOW I FOUND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE)
I DECIDED I WAS ONLY GONA LEND HIM THE MONEY IF HE DECIDED TO MEET ME UP WHICH WE DID, BUT AFTERWARDS ONCE AGAIN COMMUNICATION WAS BAD AND when i finally called him up he said he'd "lost my number and broken his phone" Well he was still texting me and everything afterwards and also he said he had time off work so we could meet up. WELL IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IT'S GONNA COST US A LOT OF MONEY FOR US TO MEET REGARDLESS OF WHERE WE MET BECAUSE OF DISTANCE BETWEEN PLACES, AND ALSO COST OF STAYING AT A HOTEL ETC COS I STILL LIVE AT HOME. WOULD COST A BOMB BASICALLY AND WE'RE NOT MILLIONAIRES EITHER..
I STARTED TEXTING HIM POSSIBLE ROUTES AND MEANS OF TRANSPORTATION THAT WILL LESSEN COST AND HIS EX SOMEHOW GOT HOLD OF THE PHONE AND I SUSPECT SHE IS STILL JEALOUS BUT THE WHOLE THING IS DODGY TO ME! THEY BOTH HAD AN ARGUMENT OVER ME TEXTING HIM AND SHE CLAIMED IT WAS "DISRESPECTFUL"
I THEN CALLED THIS GUY BACK TO ENQUIRE HIM ABOUT THE SITUATION(I HAVE NO IDEA WHY BUT I GUESS "LOVE" MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS..OR DESPERATION TO HEAR HIS VOICE WHATEVER...) AND HE TOLD ME I WAS BEING PATHETIC AND WHAT DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT? AND THAT I WAS HAVING A GO AT HIM. SO I GOT PISSED OFF AND HANG UP AND TEXTED HIM SAYING I WAS GOING TO BE IN LONDON IF HE WANTED TO MEET UP AND HE didn't text back. APPARENTLY HE IS THE VICTIM HERE NOT ME AND HE'S SO "GRIEVED" OVER WHAT HIS EX DID THAT HE FOUND IT HARD TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL..OMGG... ALSO HE WAS ON FACEBOOK AND HE DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME..!
I WANT TO KNOW DID I REALLY UPSET THIS GUY SO BADLY BY RINGING HIM UP, OR HIS EX CONTROLLING HIM..? I DID DESTRUCTION RITUAL BTW ON THE EX BUT I AM STILL SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY THE GUY DOESN'T STEP UP. HE DID TELL ME HE DISLIKES CONFRONTATION AND IS VERY LAID BACK BUT HE DOESN'T EVEN SEEM TO MAKE ENOUGH OF AN EFFORT TO MOVE OUT OF HIS EX'S....
SHOULD I FORGET ABOUT HIM??? because he clearly doesn't love me the way i have fallen for him..
IS HE JUST PLAYING ME.???
SHOULD I GET MY MONEY BACK FROM HIM?? (HE SAID HE WAS GNA PAY BACK BUT FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS HE'S EITHER BROKE AS HELL BECAUSE IS HE WAS REALLY SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING A WELL PAID JOB AND CARED ABOUT ME HE WOULD..!?)HE'S GRADUATED FROM UNIVERSITY...MOST PEOPLE WHO GRADUATED FROM UNI LIKE A FEW YEARS BACK SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO GET A JOB SINCE WE HAD A BETTER GOVERNMENT BACK THEN..
IS THERE ANY GUYS ON HERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT AS TO WHY THIS GUY IS BEHAVING THIS WAY..? ONE MIN HE SAYS HE WANTS US TO BE SLEEPING UNDER THE STARS AND HE WANTS ME TO HAVE HIS BABIES NEXT MIN HE WON'T EVEN BUDGE OR PICK UP THE PHONE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF OR EVEN SAY A SIMPLE "HELLO" HE JUST GENERALIZES ME AND SAYS," YOU GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?????!"
I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE NEVER MET THIS GUY COS THINGS WEREN'T AS ROCKED AS IT IS NOW IN MY LIFE...AM SUPPOSED TO BE GOING TO UNI THIS YEAR AND I FEEL MY FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY IS SOMEHOW HOLDING ME BACK FROM ENJOYING MY LIFE AND JUST GOING AHEAD AND ACCOMPLISHING THINGS COS HE DOESN'T SHOW ANYTHING!!! I UNDERSTAND IF HE'S COOL BUT IS HE BEING TOO "COOL" ???..I NEARLY DECIDED TO NOT GO TO UNI..THINGS WERE EASIER WHEN I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM BUT IT ALL CHANGED THIS YEAR. NOW I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE PISSED OFF AND WITH A VACANT HOLE INSIDE ME THAT HE'S LEFT..WHY ARE MEN SO EVIL???? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND MEN...