narcassists are people who don't have their own source of happiness and energy, and must rely on others as their "fuel". They are often psychic vampires since they constantly need/feed off of other's energies. Some are harmless more-so annoying, for example - those who make up grandeurs and over-inflated exaggerates over some ultra-minute achievement.
for example, someone wins a game of meaningless bingo in their class in school, and then goes around over-glorifying it as if he/she won a lottery, feeling the need to tell everyone about it.....or someone goes on a prom date and then goes around bragging like their prom date is some kind of long-life partner. nobody gets hurt necessarrily, but still nonetheless can be energy draining to constantly hear someone bragging about how they won some candy from a classroom bingo game or that you danced with that girl everyone likes, that's gonna go on, forget about that night, and then go on to date someone else (or 5 other dudes) in college and marry someone else.
then theres the dangerous types....the typical types we hear about in domestic abuse cases, that are abusive and toxic, this is where we get talks about mental and phsyical abuse, gaslighting, and making everyone feel like shit just to make yourself feel special.....elevating themselves and achieving their goals by making everyone else pay and suffer for it....these ppl think they own the world and everybody else is just an npc tool.
difference is...with the first example, when these people are exposed as not being oh so special because of some stupid candy trophy from a classroom bingo game, theyll normally whimper away and find some other meaningless event to inflate.
the second one.....well, lets just say...youll prolly end up seeing them featured on a criminal case documentary when a narcassist is cornered they will do anything to regain that former source of external praise that made their life, and yes if that involves murder and crime....then they will do it.
the perfect example of a narcassist...is the false god of the bible who expects followers to cut ties with their friends and family to "follow jesus", sends people to an eternal frying pan if they dare do as so much as "doubt" their faith or do something that simply "reminds" the jews of paganism, doing absolutely nothing but destroy and murder non-jews for the benefit of the jews, using the niceness of gentile civilizations only to have jews backstab gentile kings under some made-up "persecution" (more like PROSECUTION for being a bunch of blood sacrificing murderers) destroy and murder anyone that doesnt worship it or perform enough suicidal or sacrificial rites, and going to destroy the world and plague everyone because nobody wants to be a jew like maniac. the end goal is a society where all gentiles will be trapped in some fucking cube where 12,000 jews or some shit sitting at the top of each gate each with a jewish tribe imprinted on the gate name.
yeah...not jewish narcassism at all.
in other words...they are energy vampires.