Update on home and family.

[MercuryWisdom]

Hello brothers and sisters, I wanted to update you actually. I apologized and made up with my mother and she asked me to come back. But I don’t know if I should.

I’m having final exams right now at Uni and also looking for a job, and met a special someone (<3).

Also my residence is a bit unstable I have multiple keys and access to my family home, friends house, relative’s house and I can basically go anywhere I want but I still don’t know where to go. I keep moving between residence. I don’t want to be a burden on my friends or have any tensions arise because of (islam) and my relative’s house is in a really suffocating and extremely toxic environment.

I feel comfortable being away from family for now, I feel that I’m free, growing, learning and being responsible for myself and it feels addicting.

I still haven’t started a job I got accepted in a company but I’m not accepting it because it’s relatively higher-stress and lower pay compared to the market.

I’m applying for another company that’s calm and has good culture and much higher pay. But the HRs are really slow in making contact and their process. (I am 100% qualified to get accepted though.)

I’m drowning in blessings and delays too it seems right now I have no idea what to do.

 

[Henu the Great]

It's normal for people in their 20s to move on their own.

 

[Epiphany]

Don't stay at home, this will auffocate you as a man. You have your own life to live, look at the progress you made just in this short time.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Don't stay at home, this will auffocate you as a man. You have your own life to live, look at the progress you made just in this short time.

Yeah the progress in a short while is insane.

 

[serpentwalker666]

Don't stay at home, this will auffocate you as a man. You have your own life to live, look at the progress you made just in this short time.

Weirdly enough, I have experienced a similar situation to MercuryWisdom. Basically having multiple places to stay if needed and keys, along with having made some progress on my own. However, my situation is a bit different and I've worked to be very tight knit almost basically collectivist with my immediate family.

As for me, I've never been a big fan of the move out on your own and I've always stayed very close with my parents despite going and forming a family of my own. I feel like this varies on a case by case basis. Some people are more collectivist by nature, others are more individualist.

 

[Epiphany]

Weirdly enough, I have experienced a similar situation to MercuryWisdom. Basically having multiple places to stay if needed and keys, along with having made some progress on my own. However, my situation is a bit different and I've worked to be very tight knit almost basically collectivist with my immediate family.

As for me, I've never been a big fan of the move out on your own and I've always stayed very close with my parents despite going and forming a family of my own. I feel like this varies on a case by case basis. Some people are more collectivist by nature, others are more individualist.

Different people have different needs, especially at different stages of life and based on their karma and personality and many other things. Family dynamics also vary greatly.

But it's important no matter what for a man to work towards making his own fate.

 

[Viego]

I am glad all settle in well, probably you've spoke with the God's or Satan about the situation as well?
Also, see what I was meaning by not to act on impulsiveness and quick temper ? I wanted to act on my parents for whatever they done to me in the past but I gave time to the time and then I realized and gain maturity , nobody is perfect and making peace with her is best for both of you , that all depends of how much you care and love each other and to be truthful and meaningful , regardless , don't make yourself problems and try to minimalize risk always , my own biggest focus from now on would be just to meditate ,reflect, think , be free, grow.

 

[HPS Lydia]

Instability is a part of growth, this is also shown in the Tarot Major Arcana, the path to the Magnum Opus. The uncertainty and at times seeming chaos can bring sudden opportunities and can lead to rapid growth (so long as that is the projection, of course it can lead to worse situations in many cases but those are generally incidents that happen when one is not aligned with Satan). From what you (MercuryWisdom) write, it sounds like you're on a great start to making your own way in life

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Instability is a part of growth, this is also shown in the Tarot Major Arcana, the path to the Magnum Opus. The uncertainty and at times seeming chaos can bring sudden opportunities and can lead to rapid growth (so long as that is the projection, of course it can lead to worse situations in many cases but those are generally incidents that happen when one is not aligned with Satan). From what you (MercuryWisdom) write, it sounds like you're on a great start to making your own way in life

Thank you High Priestess. Yes it’s exciting, I have found peace in the chaos.

 

[MarsUltor666]

I am happy for you!

The Blessings of the Gods are truly a wonderful thing. You indeed sound like you are on a good path to progress, which is great.

I'm also happy to hear that you have found somebody.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

I am happy for you!

The Blessings of the Gods are truly a wonderful thing. You indeed sound like you are on a good path to progress, which is great.

I'm also happy to hear that you have found somebody.

Thank you! Grateful.