Unable to fall in love

[Yagami Light]

Hello. As the title explains, I think I'm unable to fall in love.
I have actually noticed that if I'm interested in someone, and they return those feelings in some way, I seem to lose interest.

But I have never felt genuine love (romantic/erotic love) towards anyone.

I don't think that my chakras are blocked. I have also done munka for past life love vows etc.

What's my problem? Sometimes I think that I still haven't met someone who's suitable for me, but... I'm getting old, lol.

I don't want to invoke a God for this purpose.

The truth is that sometimes I want to find someone, maybe have children, but then I think that I don't want to put in the effort to meet someone. And I feel insecure, etc. But could this insecurity prevent me from feeling romantic love towards other people? Wouldn't this imply that my chakras are blocked? I don't feel that way...

What am I supposed to do?
Am I still not ready to make that step?
I'm starting to think that if I don't make that step soon, it will be even harder in the future. I would also like to have children. My chart definitely points that direction (soul's path), and the sooner this kind of thing happens (in regards to the parents' age and their genetics), the better.

In the end, I wonder if I have a genuine problem, making me unable to feel this feeling.

 

[DarkPagan666]

Have you experienced your Saturn return yet? Sometimes, people won't experience a major love relationship before their first Saturn return. Certain areas in life will unfold and expand after the first Saturn return. This could be a reason as for why you do not fall that easily for anyone, since you have a strong bond with someone from a past life.

You could do a Venus Square in order to attract the most compatible and desirable partner for you. In this way, you may be paired up with someone who resonates with your energies, someone you will be in tune with, which increases the chances of falling in love. If that is what you wish.

Insecurity could indeed be a setback, but it is not that major. Have you done a working using Uruz and Wunjo to free and heal your mind from any hindrances in regards to a love relationship? These two runes combined will work wonders in removing hindrances and obstacles that is buried in the mind and other areas of life.

 

[General Yeager]

Hello. As the title explains, I think I'm unable to fall in love.
I have actually noticed that if I'm interested in someone, and they return those feelings in some way, I seem to lose interest.

But I have never felt genuine love (romantic/erotic love) towards anyone.

I don't think that my chakras are blocked. I have also done munka for past life love vows etc.

What's my problem? Sometimes I think that I still haven't met someone who's suitable for me, but... I'm getting old, lol.

I don't want to invoke a God for this purpose.

The truth is that sometimes I want to find someone, maybe have children, but then I think that I don't want to put in the effort to meet someone. And I feel insecure, etc. But could this insecurity prevent me from feeling romantic love towards other people? Wouldn't this imply that my chakras are blocked? I don't feel that way...

What am I supposed to do?
Am I still not ready to make that step?
I'm starting to think that if I don't make that step soon, it will be even harder in the future. I would also like to have children. My chart definitely points that direction (soul's path), and the sooner this kind of thing happens (in regards to the parents' age and their genetics), the better.

In the end, I wonder if I have a genuine problem, making me unable to feel this feeling.

This is an abandonment issue situation. What is happening is your psyche is preeminently sabotaging the relationship so it can't get hurt but also contradictorily leading to the same conclusion.

Basically the person feels that they are not worthy of love. So they also feel subconsciously they the person they are with will ABANDON them. So in order to protect themselves they themselves do it preemptively.

This can also cause someone to CHEAT. The roots of this might be Negative Karmic Patterns or Psychological Damage from Childhood (also caused by Negative Karmic Patterns from Past Lives).

It would be preferable to do a Munka Working to free yourself of the Negative Karmic Patterns that is sabotaging your Love Life. You should also HEAL yourself of any Psychological and Emotional damage just in case, before looking for anything new.

You can use Runes or Vedic Mantras then to attract the ideal Partner for you.

 

[Havoc]

Yeager has a good reply here, I don’t know what advice to give you about this except that if there was ever anything to go to the Gods with it would be this.

 

[Yagami Light]

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Thank you both for responding. I tried to reason my issue with your answers, and I believe I realized the problem, although it's far from what I thought was the issue.

I believe it's the people that I had these interactions with (these potential partners) that are really the problem, and not myself.
The reason I'm saying this is because, along the way, I realize that these specific people were at the level I used to be before I started meditating (mentally and emotionally), and this thing throws me off. All of these people had (have) strong childhood traumas, and it's especially difficult for them to deal with those issues.

Does that mean that these people will never find a lover? No, of course not.
But maybe they'll find someone who is in the initial stage of healing (the same way you described General Yeager) than someone who has reached the stage of where I currently am. I do not believe that I don't deserve to be loved.

May our Gods and Goddesses always be blessed, for through their meditations I have managed to heal myself from this toxic mindset. A level of insecurity still exists, especially because I've never been in a relationship with someone else.

So, prior to starting meditating, I had these beliefs (self-confidence issues, abandonment issues, etc), but right now I have reached the other side of the lake, and it's difficult for me to keep going back and forth for someone else's sake.

I do wish to help others, but not be in a relationship with these people to do so. That would be horrible, I think, for my own advancement and self-growth.

And the problem is exactly that: that I keep finding potential partners that are not interested in self-growth and advancement the way I am. They have issues (from childhood trauma) they are aware of but are not willing to make the step to heal.
And in the end, I never felt invested enough to, as I said, cross the other side of the lake and help someone how to swim and get to where I am right now.

Thank you both for your answers, and DarkPagan, thank you very much for the runes' combination. I will definitely use them for more matters than love. As for the Saturn return, this was my initial thought as well, but since it's long gone, I thought that this issue would also be taken care of, haha. This is the reason I made this post as I had started worrying that I was the one having a problem and not being able to freely feel this emotion.

 

[Sungio13]

I'd also like to add while you consider figuring out the proper working to attract the ideal partner, you can start working on balancing the proper elements:

Typically an over abundance of air or fire in this area can cause symptoms of 'getting bored easily' in your love life or being cold-natured towards love. So working with Earth and Water could provide improvement in connecting more consistently with potential partners or people you're initially interested in.

Based on the concerns you have, I'd first start working with Earth to stabilize any insecurities you may have and it'll help keep you more consistent with your emotions. From there, you can touch up on Water to allow you to connect deeper with whomever you'd like.

 

[Sungio13]

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I believe it's the people that I had these interactions with (these potential partners) that are really the problem, and not myself.
The reason I'm saying this is because, along the way, I realize that these specific people were at the level I used to be before I started meditating (mentally and emotionally), and this thing throws me off. All of these people had (have) strong childhood traumas, and it's especially difficult for them to deal with those issues.

Does that mean that these people will never find a lover? No, of course not.
But maybe they'll find someone who is in the initial stage of healing (the same way you described General Yeager) than someone who has reached the stage of where I currently am. I do not believe that I don't deserve to be loved.

May our Gods and Goddesses always be blessed, for through their meditations I have managed to heal myself from this toxic mindset. A level of insecurity still exists, especially because I've never been in a relationship with someone else.

So, prior to starting meditating, I had these beliefs (self-confidence issues, abandonment issues, etc), but right now I have reached the other side of the lake, and it's difficult for me to keep going back and forth for someone else's sake.

And the problem is exactly that: that I keep finding potential partners that are not interested in self-growth and advancement the way I am. They have issues (from childhood trauma) they are aware of but are not willing to make the step to heal.
And in the end, I never felt invested enough to, as I said, cross the other side of the lake and help someone how to swim and get to where I am right now.

And excuse me if my response didn't apply so much, I'd just like to say that I enjoyed your own analysis on it. Coming from Nietzsche's writing, marriage isn't only something that creates something outside of you, it's also meant to create something within you. So in my opinion, I believe the threshold of maturity that an individual needs to have surpassed involves this principle: to understand that you are actively supporting the empowerment of your partner with your connection.

As long as their energy or aura isn't all that dirty (obviously could be easily cleaned on our behalf), and if they hit the minimum requisites of wanting to generally improve as a person and understanding that they are there for you, I believe there are many people who have the strength to empower even Satanists with this connection which we call marriage. They might not be at the same level of spiritual or mental empowerment as you, but it actually won't bring you down spiritually to connect with them through love.

 

[Ancestors666]

I think falling in love is based on your mindset, Nothing is wrong with you, By the time you channel your mind and energies in love, you gonna fall in love, when it's appropriate, Do not haste in breeding children or settling down when you are not mature in this aspects.

 

[luis]

Munka working are great but it may take more than 40 days to get rid of a problem. There is a post HP made explaining this. It could take 240 days for some issues or more.

 

[emotions]

Hello. As the title explains, I think I'm unable to fall in love.
I have actually noticed that if I'm interested in someone, and they return those feelings in some way, I seem to lose interest.

But I have never felt genuine love (romantic/erotic love) towards anyone.

I don't think that my chakras are blocked. I have also done munka for past life love vows etc.

What's my problem? Sometimes I think that I still haven't met someone who's suitable for me, but... I'm getting old, lol.

I don't want to invoke a God for this purpose.

The truth is that sometimes I want to find someone, maybe have children, but then I think that I don't want to put in the effort to meet someone. And I feel insecure, etc. But could this insecurity prevent me from feeling romantic love towards other people? Wouldn't this imply that my chakras are blocked? I don't feel that way...

What am I supposed to do?
Am I still not ready to make that step?
I'm starting to think that if I don't make that step soon, it will be even harder in the future. I would also like to have children. My chart definitely points that direction (soul's path), and the sooner this kind of thing happens (in regards to the parents' age and their genetics), the better.

In the end, I wonder if I have a genuine problem, making me unable to feel this feeling.

This is an abandonment issue situation. What is happening is your psyche is preeminently sabotaging the relationship so it can't get hurt but also contradictorily leading to the same conclusion.

Basically the person feels that they are not worthy of love. So they also feel subconsciously they the person they are with will ABANDON them. So in order to protect themselves they themselves do it preemptively.

This can also cause someone to CHEAT. The roots of this might be Negative Karmic Patterns or Psychological Damage from Childhood (also caused by Negative Karmic Patterns from Past Lives).

It would be preferable to do a Munka Working to free yourself of the Negative Karmic Patterns that is sabotaging your Love Life. You should also HEAL yourself of any Psychological and Emotional damage just in case, before looking for anything new.

You can use Runes or Vedic Mantras then to attract the ideal Partner for you.

Hey man , great advice but how do you heal exactly from your psychological and emotional damage ?
2. what runes / vedic mantras should you use to attract the ideal partner for you ?
Thank you.