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Trauma and Emotional Maturity; Concerning Love

Sungio13

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Just wanted to post a reminder on this subject as I'm sure this is to come up for many members.

As we're starting to grow and advance spiritually, we're all also understanding that we're going to personify the future we envision for our world. An aspect of that future involves harmonious and most healthy interactions between our people, including the freedom to date and have romantic relationships in proper and healthy ways.

As of right now, this subject is going through a transformative phase that with our influence, we'll shape for the better. Still, many people are lost in this regards and have no idea what they're doing, causing them to either take or even give all kinds of emotional abuse or trauma.

For us, we have to exemplify what an honest and true romantic relationship is; a divine connection built on respect and partnerhood of one's development in life and themselves. The partnerhood grows together and fights life's battles together which by default strengthen the love, admiration and respect for each person.

But to move on here, we have to first understand if we are ready and responsible enough to hold and take care of such a love and connection.
We have to ask:

- Am I emotionally ready to be there for someone 100% when they need me?
- Do I know how to communicate my needs and wants in a partnership?
- Do I know my own boundaries? And am I emotionally grounded enough to not let anyone bend or break them?

More importantly:

- Do I have any emotional insecurities?
- Do I have trauma from past relationships?
- Have I let go and moved on from the negative partners in my life?
- Have I studied the romantic/love section of my Natal Chart to understand and be aware of any positive/negative influences?

When looking back, I'm sure there are members who can say they've been with people who probably never answered even one of the above questions. These types of questions when left unanswered, like I mentioned above, will cause people to take and/or give all kinds of emotional trauma like verbal abuse, psychological abuse and even on the extreme reality: sexual abuse.

For those who've suffered with the above trauma, feel free to exact your justice as you see fit and you can assess what is healthy for you. At the same time, to help prevent this from happening in the future, analyze the above questions. Make sure you are ready and responsible enough to be with someone. Partnerships, as beautiful and amazing as they can be, require a lot of emotional maturity, understanding and work. We want to exemplify this properly for our world.

JG Lydia has an amazing emotional healing guideline you can use and the affirmation can be tweaked towards romantic freedom. As well as working with the ANSUZ rune.

Again, I hope this helps anyone that needed a reminder on this subject.
 
This is very true, people need to heal and move forward, and not be stuck on the bad events that happened. And definitely don't bring your baggage and drama to a new relationship, as many people unfortunately do.

Curse if needed, hold a ritual and vent, get it all out, and then work on healing and advancing.
 
Sungio13 said:
Just wanted to post a reminder on this subject as I'm sure this is to come up for many members.

As we're starting to grow and advance spiritually, we're all also understanding that we're going to personify the future we envision for our world. An aspect of that future involves harmonious and most healthy interactions between our people, including the freedom to date and have romantic relationships in proper and healthy ways.

As of right now, this subject is going through a transformative phase that with our influence, we'll shape for the better. Still, many people are lost in this regards and have no idea what they're doing, causing them to either take or even give all kinds of emotional abuse or trauma.

For us, we have to exemplify what an honest and true romantic relationship is; a divine connection built on respect and partnerhood of one's development in life and themselves. The partnerhood grows together and fights life's battles together which by default strengthen the love, admiration and respect for each person.

But to move on here, we have to first understand if we are ready and responsible enough to hold and take care of such a love and connection.
We have to ask:

- Am I emotionally ready to be there for someone 100% when they need me?
- Do I know how to communicate my needs and wants in a partnership?
- Do I know my own boundaries? And am I emotionally grounded enough to not let anyone bend or break them?

More importantly:

- Do I have any emotional insecurities?
- Do I have trauma from past relationships?
- Have I let go and moved on from the negative partners in my life?
- Have I studied the romantic/love section of my Natal Chart to understand and be aware of any positive/negative influences?

When looking back, I'm sure there are members who can say they've been with people who probably never answered even one of the above questions. These types of questions when left unanswered, like I mentioned above, will cause people to take and/or give all kinds of emotional trauma like verbal abuse, psychological abuse and even on the extreme reality: sexual abuse.

For those who've suffered with the above trauma, feel free to exact your justice as you see fit and you can assess what is healthy for you. At the same time, to help prevent this from happening in the future, analyze the above questions. Make sure you are ready and responsible enough to be with someone. Partnerships, as beautiful and amazing as they can be, require a lot of emotional maturity, understanding and work. We want to exemplify this properly for our world.

JG Lydia has an amazing emotional healing guideline you can use and the affirmation can be tweaked towards romantic freedom. As well as working with the ANSUZ rune.

Again, I hope this helps anyone that needed a reminder on this subject.
where is lydia's emotional healing thread or website??
 
where is lydia's emotional healing thread or website

The guideline is mostly a working but there are many other posts regarding this subject as well.

List of Magical Workings:
https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=54768

Hooded Cobra's Healing, Cleaning, Dealing with Life Negativity:
https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=18085
 
Healing is a must. You cannot build on a shaky foundation.
 
Lydia [JG said:
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This is very true, people need to heal and move forward, and not be stuck on the bad events that happened. And definitely don't bring your baggage and drama to a new relationship, as many people unfortunately do.

Curse if needed, hold a ritual and vent, get it all out, and then work on healing and advancing.

This is the reason why I have postponed the work to attract my wife from past lives and instead started a work for psychological healing with the Wunjo rune on August 30th, because I want to have healed and freed my soul completely before I meet her again.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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