Jack said:
Note on Morality - We exist in a time of imperfect law and order. Morality of which we consider to be righteous and proper is often borrowed from Christian philosophy of life which claims that human beings are equal to each other. In nature there is no equality. Nature frowns upon equality and in essence there is not equality but a drives towards achieving balance. It is my intention in this post to provide information on relationships to young SS men coming to Satanism from diverse backgrounds. This post is written about Heterosexual men who WANT to be MASCULINE and want to attract FEMININE women. I do not speak for Feminine men. And these are generalizations. A balance of masculine and feminine forces is to be achieved in the soul. By masculinity I mean the behavioral expression that you display outward to women and people in general. Inherently what is immoral and moral may be only understood by you, yourself. Everyone has a particular opinion about a particular subject. Nothing about the modern understanding of morality is inherently correct. What you do is your choice and ofcourse, your responsibility. The women you attract with the following workings, you will be responsible for. Make up your mind internally and think hard about what you want before doing anything else. Many people may comment, why would you want to sleep with someone who isn't an SS or a normie or any number of things. What's important is to understand your reality and desires with your own conscience and act accordingly with maturity.
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Im seeing a regular pattern of people, who are generally young teens asking about how to do a love spell and as I understand their objective is to use magick to get laid, in simple terms. Which is completely normal. Infact if you were a heterosexual male and you did not want to get laid, I would assume there was something seriously wrong with you Psychologically and physically. Sex is one of the most beautiful acts of nature which captures the sublime beauty of the force of masculinity and femininity combining as yin and yang ,birthing the divine essence of life from whence everything originated. In tantric yoga ,sex is used for transmutation of energy to achieve higher States of consciousness. The microcosmic orbit which HPLucius explains in his Taoist Secrets to immortality can be expanded to include two people in sexual contact. The subject of this post is not to expound further on that. Its about getting laid or possibly finding a relationship.
Young white males reading this must take particular point. It's a duty of men to procreate and further the race. The situation is that the white race is in dire need of offspring, of quality offspring nonetheless who go through proper parenting as to not develop suicidal or self loathing attitudes that the media jews are constantly trying to guilt trip whites into feeling and being. Getting married, having healthy relationships with quality women who will birth you superior offspring is the basis of the 14 words.
Expectations
Before I begin, I must also talk about expectations. Many of us would like to believe that we'll end up with an extremely beautiful bombshell and fuck her everyday till the sun shines. However in reality it is more important to find a mate who is astrologically and genetically compatible with you. Their behavior must be spiritual as in you should birth children as being spiritual parents. Compatibility also confers long term stability and happiness. Do not make the mistake of using magick to attract a particularly beautiful woman who has no personality, no ambition,no understanding about this world, is vain ,is hedonistic and materialistic to an extreme degree and has no sense of spirituality. I'm talking about long term partners ,obviously. You're free to choose short term partners or flings as you want .Then I want to talk about general expectations. One with height and good looks will attract more hotter girls while doing a general working. Thats simply reality. Therefore it would be better to free your mind of any particular expectations you might have which might interfere with the working manifesting correctly. While doing a general working your RAS (reticular activation system) will zoom in on the girls that the working is attracting. They will look at you and when you see these girls you will intuitively know these are the ones you must approach. Although theoretically you could attract any girl who you are in regular contact with if you dedicate the energies only on her in a working dedicated only to her.
Now to attract a woman you need a powerful personality and sexual attraction.
On personality - The bad boy decoded
Theres a saying that Nice guys finish last and that women like bad boys. This is not literally true. What women are attracted to is the behaviours exhibited by bad boys . If a man who respects women exhibits these behaviors, they will attract women too. Coincidentally the non codependent and confident behavior is exhibited by men who are assholes.
The elements of your personality should be like this
1)Purposeful (having sex with sex is not your purpose. You have a higher purpose of advancing in your professional life ,achieving great things,contributing to your country and race. It is much more important than any woman who is not your wife.)
2)Ability to walk away (non neediness, there are many other women in this world. Doesn't matter if one rejects you. If someone isn't giving you the necessary compliance, you can move away. This trait is exceptionally attractive. )
3)Emotional intelligence
4)Social status (a magnetic personality where everyone respects you and likes you. )
5)Dominance and Masculinity (Take charge and make everything happen. Its your job as a man to do so. Women will hate if your just some kind of slob who wants to be told what he should do. Take charge in your life and in everything else.)
6)Non reactiveness (you do not care what others think about you. You display yourself and dont care if someone disapproves. You must have the courage to be disliked. Understandthat life is transient andit doesn't matter If someone didn'tlike you. Theres no need totake it personally. Life will go on and opportunities will keep coming. )
7)Having strong boundaries (having a clear idea about the things you will allow or not allow others to say about you. If someone disrespects you, you need to swiftly put them in their place. Tell them you do not accept disrespect and if they continue doing it, you'll cut contact with them. And you must be willing to do it. Obviously your family members should be given more warnings than some random stranger you met on the street.
You can develop a powerful personality and induce sexual attraction using magick. Woman are attracted to purposeful, confident men who are decisive and take charge. Theres a high probability that you do not have these qualities. I know I didn't when I was your age. Change is hard. Not many of us had peers who taught us how to be men or what it means to be a man. You'll have to do with experience and you will fail at first. But failure is the stepping stone for success. As you put yourself and navigate uncomfortable social situations, your intuition will be calibrated to the responses of the other parties and you'll be attuned to how you should behave and respond in what situations. Respect,admiration, sexual irresistibility, calmness,confidence, a dashing personality and purpose are all good traits to have that can be developed which will attract women like moths to a flame. You must also free yourself from the fear of what others think about you. Not giving a shit about what others think and staying true to your purpose is inherently a very attractive trait. Many people will gossip and talk shit about you from jealousy or hatred as is typical of people. However many people might also be having important learning lessons, tips and constructive criticism that you might benefit from so take that into mind as well. Developing personal boundaries is central to being a man. If someone disrespects you (not light joking) be it be man or woman, you need to confront him/her about such. Tell them that you do not take disrespect lightly and warn them sternly that if they'll continue provoking you, you'll cut them out of your life. Obviously close friends and family members should get more warnings than any random person you don't know very well.
Workings for personality development
A simple working to rid you of any unattractive behaviours and instill charisma and confidence in you would be,
Uruz ,Ansuz,*54/108 each with the affirmation.
"In a healthy and positive manner for me, I am permanently and completely free of any and all(emphasis) unattractive and repulsive behaviors like fear,anxiety or awkwardness." Visualize eliminating any and all unattractive behaviors that you might currently have. You can start these at freeing the soul,endings, days.
Unattractive behaviors are - Stuttering, having nothing to say, cannot keep a conversation going, fear of what people think about you, micromanaging what you say, anxiety when talking to many people, shyness, inability to relate to others, being weird, being socially unaware, being an asshole, etc.)
Thurisaz,Sowilo ,Tyr.*55/111 each
"In a healthy and positive manner I am permanently and completely Calm,confident charismatic and courageous. Everyone likes and respects me at all times."
Visualize being the man you want to be in your dreams. Everyone likes you,everyone wants to be your friend. If not they atleast respect you and envy you. Everyone is happy around you, everyone is smiling around you. Women are flirting with you and flocking to you. You are awesome.
90 days for each working. These workings must become ingrained in your very being. Very important. You can start these at a sun square day or any day with characteristic feature of the type of working your going to start.
Workings for love
As for the love working it depends on whether you have a particular woman in mind or if you don't know anything and youd generally want someone.
There are three principal mantras along with the Planetary mantra of Moon. Moon along with Venus, rules women in a man's chart.
i)Gebo - the Rune Gebo can be used to attract women. Especially useful when you have a particular woman in mind.
ii)Aum Shukraya Nama - The material mantra for Venus must be started on the date for a venus square. On the particular timing for Venus. In fact all the mantras on this section of the list should be started on particular time of Venus ,on appropriate date (check the SS calendar. )
iii)Aum Klim Kamadevaya Namah - The most powerful love mantra I have tried. Not recommended for newbies. This mantra may make one extremely horny,so be prepared if you use it.
iv)Aum Chandramasae Namah - For generally improving your relationships with women.
For better use - While breathing in visualize taking in green (for love) and crimson red (for sex) into your soul and aura. Retain the breath exhale vibrating the mantra and the color shines brightly.
As it's much important to you, you should do a 90 days working of either 108 reps or 216 reps each day.
For a general situation ,
“In a healthy and positive manner for me, I am attracting my perfect [love/sexual partner, soul mate,"
Or If you want multiple women to choose from,
"In a healthy and positive manner for me, I am attracting multiple hot,sexy and beautiful women who desire me Sexually. "
Visualize women flocking to you. Every girl is hot and every girl likes you and wants to fuck you. Your surrounded by hot girls all the time and they're making moves on you all the time. Your smiling, laughing and they're having the time of their life. Its your decision who you choose.
You might be thinking this is all impossible or that I'm scheming you. Fret not, it will all soon be possible as you develop your spiritual power and start taking action. Taking action must always be coupled with your material workings.
Start becoming more social and talk to multiple women all the time which will eventually make you the man you want to be. You'll gradually be comfortable in social situations, know how to tell fascinating stories and command attention of groups. Everyone will like you, everyone will want to be your friend ,everyone will want your contact info, everyone would want to hang out with you. However change is painful. But through pain we can achieve transformation. The process of pain is not so much important as that life after transformation is what's at stake here. Its your life we're talking about here. Its the most important thing in the entire world to you. To change approaching and talking to multiple women isn't a big deal. I would go to any lengths to get what I want in life. A few rejections or someone making fun of me is of no consequence to me. It's not like someone judging you or saying some mean things to you will kill you.
If you want to attract a particular woman,
"In a healthy and positive manner, name of desired one] is deeply in love with me and desires me sexually." Visualize the woman you desire having sex with you and doing all the things couples do.
A note on triggering anxiety - Theres a particular type of anxiety called approach anxiety. When you approach a woman on the street/anywhere whom you do not know and say hi, your body will be gripped with anxiety. You will forget your words, your mind will go blank. You do not know what to do or say. Its inbuilt and can be reduced to a very tiny portion of what it used to be by approaching multiple women each day, every day and putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. If you do not know what this is you need to experience it. Being a Satanist means rising above the shackles that bind you. Anxiety is a weakness that prevents you from influencing others the way you want. You need to do your approach if you have not yet as a man. You MUST feel the feelings. Feel it, savor it and VOW to defeat it. It doesn't matter if you do not get the girls number or the girl looks at you weird or if everyone around you laughs. What's important is to experience approach anxiety once. FEEL WHAT IT IS TO APPROACH A RANDOM WOMAN. And the last bit of advice, thinking and reading is of no use in this situation. The only thing that can give you data is hard experience in the real world. Expectation is vastly different from reality. Experience in the moment and understand the situation instead of dreaming in a comfortable world.
A note on reactions from women - As I mentioned earlier if your doing a general working where you affirmed indiscriminately, women which the working is acting upon will look at you. It's not the look that you might give a homeless man for a second. This look is different and your RAS will recognize it, do not worry. You want to talk with this person and you feel this person also wants talk with you. When you encounter this, go in and approach. Do not wait. These are the women who have a high probability of sleeping with you.
A note on Lower Chakras - Your lower chakras must be worked on and be exceptionally strong for material workings to manifest quickly. The sacral chakra is your expression of sexuality which is important to be telegraphed to women. Your throat chakra I.e your verbal expression as well your heart chakra ,the ability to connect with people are also important. In addition you must be doing regular void meditation ,yoga and other empowerment exercises. More spiritual power and more void control = faster manifestation.
With this, a simple to the point no bs guide to getting laid and getting a relationship gets completed. This is a spiritual guide as in it details spiritual processes and does not go deep into technical details of the material processes of social dynamics.
I have to add an important addendum to this guide as for the application of it, and the general use.
As I understand this guide is coming up when people search for topics about this and thus I feel its important to update it with my current level of maturity about all this. Because when I wrote this I still had a lot of negative emotions, programming and other negative stuff about this sphere of life and the results were these. I was heavily focused on extreme materialism and I did not understand that reality looked like outside the shared delusions of society. I don't want people to make bad decisions about any of this. It might take years recovering from bad decisions and years wasted on bad relationships or chasing purely outside beauty, while there are more important things in life.
What do I mean by this ? Firstly the clause of "everyone likes me and respects me" is erroneous and is going to leas to narcissistic self delusion. Yes, narcissists have unusual charisma and confidence but that is only in the short term. If you base your value on what others think about you, your going to be depressed when people reject you or have negative feelings about you. Therefore remove that from the affirmation.
Secondly any of the personality development workings should not be done for wanting affection from women. They should be done because you want to better yourself, regardless of what women think of you. Confidence, charisma and persuasion ability is required in life for everything.
Thirdly, and this is the most important point - Never base your value on female Validation, ever. Men who have had bad parenting (or no parenting in my case) look to society for clues about how to think about life.
And society embeds in your subconscious (you might not recognize it consciously) what it means to be a man.
You might have subconsciously been having some of these beliefs relating to women-
- Someone who doesn't have a gf or a partner is a loser.
- Having a gf is very very important
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- Your value depends upon how hot your gf or wife is.
- Women are very important in life, and their value is enormously high.
- Having a gf is a very important achievement and statement of value (also untrue. )
You might have some of these embedded values, one of these or something related. Why did you get these immature ideals about life ?
Your father didn't raise you well and the jews put toxic things in your brain through the society they created.
The only reason why men want to find value through women (either by racking up the kill count or just having a girl besides them) is because your insecure about yourself and have serious self doubt. And to resolve that doubt, society tells you to chase women.
I'm going to give you a book from where your going to discover what true self belief, core confidence and purpose is. Please read this and free your mind from toxic understandings about relationships,
http://libgen.rs/book/index.php?md5=02E7EBBA67BD9FA6C3DAE2B341F9F951
When you're insecure, the compatible women for you will be a similarly immature insecure woman. That will start a toxic relationship where you value each other for surface level veneer and reject the important things like compatibility, trust and commitment.
After a breakup with such a woman you'll find yourself in a very bad spot and you might become jaded and start a string of wrongdoing by damaging other individual's in a society through your actions. You might know how to manipulate women into sleeping with you after making them feel needed,special and good and then dump them, making them emotionally damaged who will then make unsuspecting men damaged and this goes on.
This dominoes and everyone starts becoming angry, confused and unhappy.
Don't do this mistake. The reason you want a beautiful/sexy woman(without other attributes) is because you don't know yourself and thus you're following a societal version of what you're supposed to do ,which is fake and will lead to unrealistic expectations and very bad reactions when you actually do get that kind of woman. Theres much much more than just beauty - theres personality, behavior, goals,dreams,ambitions and needs all of which might be totally in opposition to you if you only look for beauty.
Discover your own wants and needs first, know Thyself. Then look for a person who matches your personality, sexual nature and emotional and spiritual needs. Do not chase the societal standards of what a woman should be like.
Look at people as individuals, don't lump them into categories when you're interacting with them personally. Know what traits you do not like and will not put up with.
And having casual relationships needs a degree of responsibility and maturity on both ends ,that you probably don't have if you're reading this topic just looking to get laid.
The only thing you need to do about getting a relationship is this -
- Know what you want and don't want in a partner
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- Attract a compatible woman.
The only mantras that are required for this endeavor are Aum Shukraya Nama (or) Gebo+Vaunyo 216 each day ,for 90 days with the affirmation,
"In a healthy and positive manner, I am attracting a woman who is compatible to me sexually, emotionally and spiritually in a long term relationship. "
You also need to feel like you're ready for a relationship. You might have internal doubts about not being capable enough. In which case, please read to book I gave you. Once you feel your capable and mature, then you can attract a compatible person.
Focus on important things like purpose, the sadhana and Career if you aren't capable or feel self worth yet. Prove to yourself that your capable and then that core confidence will be born which cannot be taken away from you even if your material possessions are taken away. Do the Satanama everyday for serenity and peace, and don't pay too much attention to the societal trends.
