NinRick said:
While I can totally understand you... your standards are way too high.
Only because two people are SS doesn’t mean they will make mutually good partners. They chances are not good that you will find your „soul mate“ who is also a SS.
I still remember the anxiety I felt when I told my fiancé that I'm a Satanist two months after I started meditating, and explained to him what it really means. But I also remember the frustration I felt when he didn't understand certain things yet; when it felt like we weren't living in the same world anymore as the 40 day meditation program had opened up a whole new world for me. It was lonely.
Naturally finding a partner who just happens to be SS is incredibly unlikely, and doing it over the internet is extremely dangerous. It would make more sense to date someone who isn't SS yet and introduce him or her to it, but that's difficult, scary and can be risky in its own ways, not to mention not everyone would be interested or take it seriously enough.
Even so, I think that like Academic Scholar, I would be unable to enjoy sex or a relationship anymore with someone who isn't also SS. A relationship without spirituality or being able to relate to each other would just feel so empty and meaningless for me, for multiple reasons. I think different people have different preferences in regards to that, but it's not a matter of having high standards. For some people, it would literally just be pointless to go any lower.
I can see why some people would want to have a Demon(ess) as their lover, even though I personally prefer a partner who lives a bit closer to me. But honestly I'm just glad it worked out for me and my fiancé, despite the struggles we went through.