A Jew is a Jew. It's not a matter of acceptance, it's a matter of soul genetics. You can't change your sex if you want, and a Jew can't change the structure of his soul because he "hates his parents". If you are blond and you don't like blonds, will you be less blond? No, your hair growth will remain blond. They are so good at deceiving and infiltrating, be happy that you found out about her Jewishness now that you can leave her with an excuse. Please do not make references to her Jewishness. Invent that you met someone else or any lie, just get out of this dangerous situation without her having something to hold on to to throw mud at you.