Question #720: Helping my partner with self-esteem

[AskSatanOperator]

Hello, my partner is not an SS and he suffers from big self-esteem issues in relation to his appearance and he's obsessed with hygiene and over-washing himself, as well as wearing too much deodorant. He is so concerned with it that he's afraid of what my family will think if they were to meet him and that he's not worthy of me. He also has paranoid thoughts about my family thinking he's not good enough for me.

What can I do to help him overcome this? I personally think he's very handsome and I tell him every day, and I do everything I can to show appreciation to him and reinforce this belief.

Oh, and he's open to hatha yoga. He keeps saying he wants to start.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Power of Justice [JG]]

The cause for his low self esteem could be anything, you'll have to work with him to figure it out. Please see this article, it should lay the foundation for finding out the specific cause and mending it. Self-Concept: Blueprint Of Our Lives

 

[Korpi]

Adding onto Powerofjustice's post.
See also, The Subconscious Mind And Its Role In Manifesting Our Reality - Powerofjustice

Oh, and he's open to hatha yoga. He keeps saying he wants to start.

Good to hear. This will help, Complete Collection of Yoga Links (AFAIK)

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Help him do the Dedication ritual, then get him to start working on healing himself.

 

[Onbael_]

Do not force him to meet your relatives, especially if he has anxiety.

Isolate yourself together for a while, you don't need third people.
Start pushing the idea (sincere of course) that you are in love with his nature, and that he does not need perfume and other cosmetics (maybe a shower every other day, just for general hygiene), make him feel at the centre of your life and tell him that you exist for each other.
He must feel that his existence is meant to be with you.

These are not sentences to be said, but concepts to be expressed and lived.

Start being more intimate (in this you push him towards Satanism, which is still very good advice), try to do many things together.

You can also try hypnosis, if you are able to do it, or explain to him how to do self-hypnosis.

Isolate yourselves together, it reduces anxiety.

If he still thinks he is unworthy, then tell him that you thought he was worthy and that you wouldn't change him for anyone else, tell him you would kill rather than leave or change him.

These are tips that might work for me, maybe they also apply to your partner, who knows.