Question #686: Can I end up getting involved in future problems? Yes

[AskSatanOperator]

I have serious problems with my father, I feel disgust and dislike being around him so I don't like to have contact, and I realized that this lack of him has projected itself a lot in the types of guys I feel attraction to ( usually the more aggressive ones, my father was always very aggressive with me and controlling, I found this in my chart) I ended up realizing that I can end up getting involved with types of men that can probably abuse me, as I also didn't have much attention from boys when I was younger, when a guy treats me minimally well I already get a little passionate ( this can be dangerous even more if he knows this and is a bad guy ), protective guys that exude a father figure. Even though I know how dangerous it can be for me I just can't stop, I don't feel any attraction in "good" guys, I would love to date one because I know how wonderful they can be but I don't feel as much emotion when it's with a more aggressive guy.

 

[Fuchs]

I have serious problems with my father, I feel disgust and dislike being around him so I don't like to have contact, and I realized that this lack of him has projected itself a lot in the types of guys I feel attraction to ( usually the more aggressive ones, my father was always very aggressive with me and controlling, I found this in my chart) I ended up realizing that I can end up getting involved with types of men that can probably abuse me, as I also didn't have much attention from boys when I was younger, when a guy treats me minimally well I already get a little passionate ( this can be dangerous even more if he knows this and is a bad guy ), protective guys that exude a father figure. Even though I know how dangerous it can be for me I just can't stop, I don't feel any attraction in "good" guys, I would love to date one because I know how wonderful they can be but I don't feel as much emotion when it's with a more aggressive guy.

You could do a material venus square to change your love live to the better:

Some Questions About Planetary Squares Answered
https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=24&t=66793&hilit=squares

With a affirmation like this:

"My relationships with men always go well"

This affirmation is for love and non love relationships, so even your relationship with your father can improve.

I did the same (for wimmen) it really helped me.

To fully combat the problam a spiritual venus square same affirmation after you done the material one, should be done.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Good guys do not have to be so passive. But many of them act passive as a defensive thing to try to not push you away by doing something that you don't like. Most men really are just afraid of scaring women away, so they try to avoid this by acting in a very passive way. Of course some men have become weak, but most men really are not as weak as they seem but they have been trained their whole lives to act in a weak way, because they have been told that is how women want them to be.

Find a good man. And then tell him to be less passive and take more control. If he is a good and respectful man, he will be protective of you enough to not go too far and he will not do anything bad. But he will go as far as you want him to. Tell him you want him to make decisions, be a leader, be a man, and not just follow you around like a little dog. Once the man has your permission to act in as strong of a way as you want him to, he will.

Whatever "good men" you have known, I am assuming that you have not told them to act in a stronger way, and you have not told them how much control you want them to take. And you just assumed they would always be too passive. But they wouldn't have been so passive if they knew they didn't have to.

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

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Remember that Men as a gender also reflect in the energies of Mars, the Sun, and Saturn, as well. Since she is talking about her dad and her sexual attractions to others, the solution goes beyond the scope of Venus, although Venus is the main energy associated with harmonious partnerships.

The OP would want to target this problem in a broad sense with a freeing working to remove the negative karma which we see happening. Then they could find a partner that matches their desires without actually hurting them.