Question #5797: How to know if your friend is gay?

[AskSatanOperator]

I've got this thing going on. I'm gay (or bi, not sure). I got a job. One of my coworkers is a very good looking guy, I kinda fell in love..... Is there any way to find out if he's gay/bi or not... Maybe I have a chance. I can't ask him because we live in Russia....

 

[luis]

Safety first. Do magick and attract the best partner for you. This is the best option, especially in Russia where things are complicated.

Usually there may be hints if he likes guys and likes you but you never know for sure until he tells you. Unless you are psychic enough to see if he likes you or not don't bother with it if it can be dangerous for you.

 

[Kaemythra]

the right thing to do would be to ask him, but as the situation is a bit complicated... if something typical about homosexuality comes up, see how he reacts... sometimes, even if he is gay, as it is not accepted there, he may deny it or even act more negatively.try to form a friendship with him and get close, the closer you get the more intimate you'll be and then it'll be easier to discuss certain subjects and he might end up giving you some information. Many gay men fall in love with heterosexuals and become desperate for that man's attention, I recommend, even if you don't know his sexual orientation yet, don't delude yourself because sometimes he can't even be one and that can end up breaking your heart...be patient

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

I've got this thing going on. I'm gay (or bi, not sure). I got a job. One of my coworkers is a very good looking guy, I kinda fell in love..... Is there any way to find out if he's gay/bi or not... Maybe I have a chance. I can't ask him because we live in Russia....

Since you live in Russia and you got a job that you risk losing due to sexual orientation (the reality of Modern Russia), despite the fact that formally in St. Petersburg and Moscow gays are treated neutrally, or even well (as many say), but the truth is that in In Moscow, as in St. Petersburg, most people from the regions (not Muscovites or even urban ones), what kind of attitude and what kind of situation in the regions you know yourself, so I recommend that you act carefully and be attentive.