Question #4685: hello again guys

[AskSatanOperator]

Hi, I'm the person who submitted question #4640
I broke up with my boyfriend and I'm very shaken, I'm crying all day, every day.
I loved him very much, but he treated me like a piece of trash, I didn't tell you half of the things that happened, the horrible sentences and all the things I went through. Despite all this I still wonder if I made the right decision? I just wanted someone to look me in the face and say if I did it or not, not for me to decide if I did it.
He was the man I loved most in my life, I miss him so much even though he leaves me aside, I can't stand so much emptiness and sadness.
I don't know what to do, I'm trying to do so many things to fill my head and not think about him, I don't have any friends to talk to, I'm alone.
There's no way I can go back because I told him I would never text him again.
He never apologized to me for any of the horrible sentences he said, and I honestly thought about texting him to apologize.
I hate having feelings, and I wish I could remove them so I would never suffer for something again. gods bless you!!!!

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

At the end of the day, if he treated you poorly, then you were correct to pressure him in some sense, even break up if necessary. Some force is needed as otherwise people will take advantage of you or may even not know what you feel.

Personally, I believe you should text for an apology because it is important to resolve your feelings and let him know why you made this decision, at least. Otherwise, you may continue to feel upset by him.

Your feelings are part of what keeps you safe and aware of your environment, so don't feel bad about that. If you did not feel sad, this would not motivate you to change or seek a resolution to things. The feelings themselves are not the cause of the problem, but rather what disturbed them.

Further, you should probably call your mom or other family to talk to, because with him gone you are likely trying to fill a bit of a void and this is where some of the pain can be coming from.

 

[AFODO]

In most cases, I think, when the male continuously mistreat the female, he doesn't have true love for her. It is best to be done with this and cut any ties.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

He didn't deserve you. He was not good enough for you. There must be somebody better for you.

 

[Ancestors666]

Hi, I'm the person who submitted question #4640
I broke up with my boyfriend and I'm very shaken, I'm crying all day, every day.
I loved him very much, but he treated me like a piece of trash, I didn't tell you half of the things that happened, the horrible sentences and all the things I went through. Despite all this I still wonder if I made the right decision? I just wanted someone to look me in the face and say if I did it or not, not for me to decide if I did it.
He was the man I loved most in my life, I miss him so much even though he leaves me aside, I can't stand so much emptiness and sadness.
I don't know what to do, I'm trying to do so many things to fill my head and not think about him, I don't have any friends to talk to, I'm alone.
There's no way I can go back because I told him I would never text him again.
He never apologized to me for any of the horrible sentences he said, and I honestly thought about texting him to apologize.
I hate having feelings, and I wish I could remove them so I would never suffer for something again. gods bless you!!!!

A lady needs to be loved and cared for and not to be ridiculed.Stay away from him... He doesn't loves you.
Look for a mature Boy who loves you and you love him too!!!

 

[Maelstorm]

Sister, it is very sad that this happened, but unfortunately the man you loved is gone. Your feelings are for someone who doesn't "exist". Very painful, yet true.

If it makes you feel better, I'd say you've made the right decision. But do you need to be told that? You already know you made the right decision. Now, you have to start calming your mind, which is in chaos, but you have to allow the pain to exist. It has to be experienced and then released. Endure, until it becomes bearable. Then you will understand.

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

Hi, I'm the person who submitted question #4640
I broke up with my boyfriend and I'm very shaken, I'm crying all day, every day.
I loved him very much, but he treated me like a piece of trash, I didn't tell you half of the things that happened, the horrible sentences and all the things I went through. Despite all this I still wonder if I made the right decision? I just wanted someone to look me in the face and say if I did it or not, not for me to decide if I did it.
He was the man I loved most in my life, I miss him so much even though he leaves me aside, I can't stand so much emptiness and sadness.
I don't know what to do, I'm trying to do so many things to fill my head and not think about him, I don't have any friends to talk to, I'm alone.
There's no way I can go back because I told him I would never text him again.
He never apologized to me for any of the horrible sentences he said, and I honestly thought about texting him to apologize.
I hate having feelings, and I wish I could remove them so I would never suffer for something again. gods bless you!!!!

I am sure that you will find someone who will truly love you.

You are never alone, remember, the Gods are with you.