I would recommend you change your perception, and rather ask "how do I attract women that are available and compatible with me?".
In that case I would say, if you have your chakras opened, I recommend you do a Venus square, with a good affirmation for your problem, to fall in love only with women that are available and compatible with you.
There are a lot of people who fall in love with unavailable individuals, and that is a psychological problem likely coming from childhood, in which the person had to grow up with emotionally unavailable parents, making it a love life pattern in the adult life to fall in love with unavailable people.
I'm not saying this is your problem, since I don't know you, and I don't know your story, but if you belive this to be your case, you can also work with the rune Wunjo, for mental healing, so your love and attachment style become healthy.