Question #3005: my boyfriend has depression

[AskSatanOperator]

My boyfriend has depression, I really want to help him get better. He's not a Ss but he does enjoy studying the occult. He doesn't know I'm an SS, and he only knows that I'm interested in paganism and occult. I want to eventually steer him towards us, but that will take time. Sometimes his depression is so bad he shuts down and feels unworthy of love or as if he's a burden or waste of life. when I try to give him positive support and tell him how important he is to me, and how much he matters sometimes it helps him, but sometimes he fights against it by saying it's hopeless, or what's the point. Or he says that he'll never be happy, etc. I worry about him a lot, and I really love him. I do extra protection rituals trying to send protection to him as well as me, but I really don't know what else I can do to help him, I desperately want to get him out of this funk, and get him into a more positive mindset. I just need Any advice on what I can do, thank you!!!

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

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These depressive cycles can be tough and it is nice of you to care. In the moment, there is not much you can do besides simple things, like give him a hug. You aren't going to be able to easily talk him out of it.

Although protection helps, what he really needs is something like Wunjo to make him happy. You should also clean his aura and even chakras if you want to. You can program the energy to clean any dirt hampering his mood. Look at this solar and heart chakras if he has problems with happiness and love, respectively.

Even if he is not able to do magic, he can still do yoga and pranayama. Teach him about the breath of fire, which can be done easily and is a great way to stimulate the type of happiness and optimism that the fire element is known for.

Remind him that he has to do something, and will feel better afterwards. This can be something as simple as going for a walk or other basic exercise, cleaning himself, or the breath of fire. These are all small things that can give him enough of a spark to get himself back together, and also maintain himself.

 

[Sungio13]

If you've been with him a for a while, I definitely would begin to bring up Satanism. And of course ease into it if you can.

If he's into the occult, then he can begin to meditate on some simple meditations like cleaning and protecting his aura. This can be done daily and only take him 5-10 minutes a day. You can even do it with him, as a fun motivator. Him cleaning his own energy will do wonders just like making sure his environment is cleaned and picked up. Examples: clean room, clean home, clean car.

You can remind him of any goals he may have and try your best to set up actions towards them, but remember to be practical; what are things he can actually do that help him reach his goals?

I know my advice is more simple, but for me, it really does come down to cleaning his spirit and instilling action.

 

[Epiphany]

My boyfriend has depression, I really want to help him get better. He's not a Ss but he does enjoy studying the occult. He doesn't know I'm an SS, and he only knows that I'm interested in paganism and occult. I want to eventually steer him towards us, but that will take time. Sometimes his depression is so bad he shuts down and feels unworthy of love or as if he's a burden or waste of life. when I try to give him positive support and tell him how important he is to me, and how much he matters sometimes it helps him, but sometimes he fights against it by saying it's hopeless, or what's the point. Or he says that he'll never be happy, etc. I worry about him a lot, and I really love him. I do extra protection rituals trying to send protection to him as well as me, but I really don't know what else I can do to help him, I desperately want to get him out of this funk, and get him into a more positive mindset. I just need Any advice on what I can do, thank you!!!

I think you're doing the right things. In addition to what Blitzkrieg said, study his moon & venus and try fulfilling those energies in his chart. In my experience that can be very powerful.

You also have to accept the possibility that you could do everything right and not be able to fix the problem. Sometimes people have to find their own way out. Emotions can't be reasoned or logicked with, they only respond to experience and often have to be processed internally.

 

[Satya]

He has to be ready to take the step to want to get better.

In the meanwhile you might want to analyze this relationship dynamic. How can he give you love in return if he feels he himself is unworthy of it. This probably affects your own feelings too. How healthy is this relationship?

You can’t fix someone. they themselves have to be the one to do it in order for the change to be meaningful… the best you can do is be supportive.

 

[General Yeager]

You should tell him that if he doesn't get up his ass and start doing shit and stop acting like a bitch that you're going to leave him. That should motivate him to action. And with action there can be no depression for it is the Antithesis of Stagnation.

Women don't have to waste their precious years on losers because of their fleeting feelings of love. You need to find a winner who is positive, not depressed and can provide for you and your future children. A man that's got it like that. From the looks of it your current boyfriend needs to evolve a lot to where he can get there.