Question #2972: sexual things

[AskSatanOperator]

I'm a virgin woman and I've never had a relationship, when I was a teenager while everyone was having sex and going out I stayed in my room, today I've developed a great personality ( I'm very proud of it lol ) but there's a problem, I can't have sex or flirt sexually, I feel very uncomfortable and terribly guilty, I grew up in a Christian family but they never said I should wait until marriage or things like that, but I closed myself off to it so much that today I can't open up. ( I've never been sexually abused )

 

[DarkPagan666]

It's completely okay to feel uncomfortable or uncertain about sexual experiences, especially if you've had limited exposure to such situations. It's important to recognize that there is no right or wrong timeline for when someone should engage in sexual activities or relationships. What matters most is your own comfort and readiness.

If you feel burdened by guilt or discomfort, it might be helpful to explore the underlying reasons for these feelings. In your case, these stems from religious dogma. You may want to do a working to free your mind and soul from these christian teachings. Freeing the soul with an affirmation will be of much help. You can use Runes such as 'Uruz' and/or Ansuz, or the Sanskrit word 'Munka'. Here is a link: https://joyofsatan.org/www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Words-of-Power.html

Additionally, taking small steps to gradually expose yourself to situations that make you uncomfortable might also help. I mean by doing this in a healthy and positive manner of course. For instance, building relationships based on emotional connection first, without the immediate pressure of sexual interaction, could help you feel more at ease.

Remember, everyone’s journey with relationships and intimacy is different. There's no rush or deadline to meet and do anything you are not ready for - take the time you need to feel comfortable and ready. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with any potential partners about your feelings and boundaries.

Exploring your feelings, understanding your values, and taking things at your own pace will help you navigate this aspect of life in a way that feels right for you.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

I think there is nothing wrong with you. You are just a monogamous person and a person with high standards, which is important. I think you will feel more comfortable when you find a man who is perfect enough to be your husband.

 

[Demonic.Owl.]

I'm a virgin woman and I've never had a relationship, when I was a teenager while everyone was having sex and going out I stayed in my room, today I've developed a great personality ( I'm very proud of it lol ) but there's a problem, I can't have sex or flirt sexually, I feel very uncomfortable and terribly guilty, I grew up in a Christian family but they never said I should wait until marriage or things like that, but I closed myself off to it so much that today I can't open up. ( I've never been sexually abused )

Hello , I think you should be patient with yourself there is nothing wrong with having no sex if you don't feel ready for it
you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself, because you do not follow the ways of modern society which is hypersexualized, with the porn industry which perverts everything I advise you to take your time and wait to find the right person with who you will feel comfortable with, if you want to overcome this blockage you need to find someone with whom you feel good with.

 

[AFODO]

You should find a compatible partner for you who you trust and feel safe with. Than it will be hard, and uncomfortable the first few times, but you'll get into it. You can do magical workings to attract a compatible partner.

 

[Stormblood]

To a freeing the soul working, you can yoga specifically for the sacral chakra (mainly) and also for the root chakra (secondarily). Lydia shared some great routines to address these areas. Find the link below.

After you have freed yourself and you can feel a change in mindset, you can do a working to raise your self-confidence specifically when it comes to this topic.

Remember it's also important to have high standards in today's world, like Ol Argedco Luciftias stated. However, some people think it's best to have some sexual experience before getting into a committed relationship, as not all prospective partners are comfortable being sexual with inexperienced people. Find your own standards after you're free from hangups.